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Tova, 39

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About Me

I'm on this site to find someone I'm attracted to, yet someone who I can grow along side, not be intertwined with. If you read "The Prophet," under marriage, that pretty much sums up my idea of an ideal marriage. I want the butterflies in my stomach, I want a guy who makes me swoon, I want someone who is so busy & independent that I am forced to also have my own separate life where we think about one another when we're away, one where he doesn't tell me every second what he's feeling, I want a roughneck of sorts, a man who is more than ok without me, who devours me when we're together, yet gives me space to let me come to him. That's what I need. I don't need a man to tell me I look great every second, but he better say I look beautiful in that red dress. I want a man who notices that I spend time on my manicures & pedicures, appreciates a well-groomed woman, & does the same for himself. It's ok to relax, but I want man who is motivated & has drive to be on the go, entertaining me & our friends. I like a class clown, someone who has the confidence & intelligence to keep the ball rolling & have a good time with people. He must love people whether or not he is an extrovert. I, myself, get my energy from others & recharge being alone, so that would be great if my man were similar. I want to be able to spend an entire evening on a boat not saying a word to one another, except for him to get me another glass, & he wants some cheese & fruit. Wow, wouldn't that be great. You tell me! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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