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Mechelle, 40

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About Me

I have been affectionately dubbed as the 'human calculator'.I am opinionated, enjoy a good debate about anything under the sun, and try very hard to admit when I'm proven wrong.I'm honest and fiercely loyal.I've always wanted to be a racecar driver, which I plan on becoming when I retire. :)Food is a great passion of mine. So much so that I often take pictures of it and fond memories of vacations almost always include a great meal.I love to bake and I find it very rewarding to watch people enjoy eating something I've created.There is nothing more peaceful to me than listening to waves crashing and smelling saltwater while digging my toes into the warm sand.My kids come first no matter what and I also have very strong ties to my family and friends. Anyone I date has to understand and be okay with that and I would do the same.P.S.P.P.S. Intrigue me! For the first meeting - coffee/tea or drinks so we can have an opportunity to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jen

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-24

    Hi! My name is Jen. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Sierra Vista, Arizona, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Theodora

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    and I didn't think it would be online! I'm not so easy going; I'm stubborn and opinionated; I'm honest and loyal. I enjoy my family and friends. I'm not here to make new friends! I have plenty of guy friends! So I need someone who is secure and confident with himself. I would like to find that best friend! I'm here to meet the right person for me, who I can't wait to see after a long work day and look forward to spending my evening as well as the weekends with. I like someone who has kind eyes and a beautiful smile. Smiling often is key! I like a kind heart and a wonderful sense of humor. Joking at inappropriate times or putting someone down to make yourself feel better is not funny or humorous! Chivalry is not dead in my eyes! Mannerism are a plus! I love the beach during the summer and play co-ed softball. I workout about ***times a week. During the winter, I love skiing and hanging out by a fireplace and watching movies (romantic comedies). Autumn is for fairs and wine tastings. Spring is that wakeup call that screams warning .. bathingsuit season fast approaching! I enjoy reading, mostly romance novels.OMG! I go from ***in less than a day, so I realized that I should update the profile to include a bit more of what I'm looking for! I tend to date Italian men (being Portuguese I'd like to find someone that understands and respects European culture). He's got to at least own a suit for those special occasions. Being single and never married with no children, I'd prefer to date men that have a similiar status. I'm not looking for someone who has a 6 or 12 pack and prefers to spend a great deal of time looking into a mirror; a 2 or 4 pack is fine; however, I don't care for men who enjoy being a couch potato and look like one too! If you enjoy drinking beer, that's fine, it just doesn't need to be a sitting around the waist for nine months. (Didn't I mention I'm not easy going .. add vain too!) I have never dated and would prefer not to date men who are African American, Asian and/or Indian. I have dated and would prefer NOT to date men who like wearing hawaiian shirts, listen to Jimmy Buffet and smoke pot; those currently dating or in a relationship; those confused about his sexuality; those looking for something casual and/or a noncommital relationship (I can find those without being on this site!). If you have cheated .. Ciao! Adios! Thanks for taking the time to read .. but Good Bye and good luck! I have no tolerance for cowards. Also, if you live in a foreign country (i.e.); however, I thought that was implied when I mentioned seeing and spending time with someone on weekends and after work. I'm not interested in helping anyone get a greencard. If your photo is dated before ***, I'm thinking you have been on this site since then and/or look way different now and not remotely close to the pic! I thank those ***for your sweet comments, and even thou I have dated younger, I'd rather not date younger or way younger .. If your age indicates that you are 37 but you look 57 in your pic, I most likely will not be interested. I think that should be it for now. I'm sure that there will be more to come. Didn't think I would have to write a novel, but if this eliminates those douchebags and jerkoffs that I wouldn't give the time of day to, then so be it! Did I just take myself from 60 back to 0 ? probably! coffee aka "cawfee"; a quick drink, appetizer optional

  • Guendolen

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello,I never know where to begin on this..........So let's see, I'm at a point in my life where all is really good in my life. My job, health, friends/fam, my son---all is great. However as you can imagine, the one area lacking in my life is a person to truly share it all with. I never-ever thought dating would be this difficult. In my twenties, i met someone, thought they were cute---dated them and that was it. Wow-it's such a new world! We all have a lot of life that has to come together and mesh. We have long lists of qualities we want that special person to have --but ya know what---none of it matters what this or that is***because it all comes down to chemistry. Either we're going to have that something special in person or we're not. I dont' know if we're all beat up at this age or what, but i can't seem to find that special zest for life in another person that i feel i've still got left in me. People seem SPENT and hurt and used up. Come on people, let's not give up yet! :) Ok--but please don't *** your out of my age group--i prefer to stay 35 to ***no more--no less. I just do--things are too weird outside of that. And i'm not looking for any one night flings or any of that crap so dont' bother if that's what you're on here for. I really don't even like the online dating thing cause you can't tell anything from pictures--you need the in person interaction--but it's obviously come down to this...there's no way to meet people in this age group that i know of---so let's make the best of it and try to find that connection!I'm open to questions so let's chat!

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