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Melynda, 40

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About Me

I'm looking for a tall WHITE man to come sweep me of my feet... I am a lot of fun, and that can get me into trouble...but at this point in my life I realize the value of me. I am responsible, motivated, compassionate and honest. I like to be outside and spend time at the beach with family or friends. I work as much as I can so im a hard worker. I have done some soul searching lately and realize that what is missing may be the values in a man that have the capacity to complete me...With that being said, i have no want to bear another child. No children wanted. I'm too old, lolThere is no shortage of men in the world, but I am looking here to increase my chances of finding a good one. I try to stay physically fit so I am looking for the same. Chemistry is something that can not be disguised so false pretense need not apply. I like a man who knows how to organizae his world as stability is required. So, if you are interested in treating a lady like a lady, I am interested in hearing from you. An update: If you smoke, ok, Just don't make your profile pic that one of you smoking, or any of them for that matter. It's unattractive for me to see that in your pic. And also don't get fresh on me while your smoking. Get done with it first....HUGE TURN OFF. We All have kids just about.... But don't bring their picture up in your profile, that's something meant to see down the road. I have a 19 year old that i love dearly. But wouldn't put his pic up on my dating website profile. You must be clean and shower everyday. Brush your teeth and keep yourself trimmed up for gods sakes. I do. I am saying this for obvious reasons. I get messaged by men who want children. I do not wish to have anymore children. My son is 19. I am finished with raising babies. Suprise me with an unforgettable time ;) I need to see that a man can still sweep me off my feet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello,I never know where to begin on this..........So let's see, I'm at a point in my life where all is really good in my life. My job, health, friends/fam, my son---all is great. However as you can imagine, the one area lacking in my life is a person to truly share it all with. I never-ever thought dating would be this difficult. In my twenties, i met someone, thought they were cute---dated them and that was it. Wow-it's such a new world! We all have a lot of life that has to come together and mesh. We have long lists of qualities we want that special person to have --but ya know what---none of it matters what this or that is***because it all comes down to chemistry. Either we're going to have that something special in person or we're not. I dont' know if we're all beat up at this age or what, but i can't seem to find that special zest for life in another person that i feel i've still got left in me. People seem SPENT and hurt and used up. Come on people, let's not give up yet! :) Ok--but please don't *** your out of my age group--i prefer to stay 35 to ***no more--no less. I just do--things are too weird outside of that. And i'm not looking for any one night flings or any of that crap so dont' bother if that's what you're on here for. I really don't even like the online dating thing cause you can't tell anything from pictures--you need the in person interaction--but it's obviously come down to this...there's no way to meet people in this age group that i know of---so let's make the best of it and try to find that connection!I'm open to questions so let's chat!

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