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Malinda, 38

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About Me

I am an honest, trustworthy and loyal woman looking for a REAL man. I am tired of dealing with boys that feel the need to lie. I am a single parent of a 11 yr old son that is the love of my life. Everything I do is to make sure that little man grows up to be a good man and not struggle. I have a good job, nice place to live, new car, responsible at paying my bills, have my own money and don't need no man to take care of me. I would love to find a guy that has the same and I don't need to worry about them not wanting the best for themself and the woman they are with. I would hope a strong and independent women would be a turn on and you just like I am always trying excel at everything I do. I am athletic and used to be in sports year round. I play on a co ed softball team and love to shoot baskets or throw the football with my son as much as I can. I am 6'1 so it is always hard for me to find a man tall enough that I can wear my heels which I love to do. I love hard and have been through plenty of bad relationships but I still have faith that there is that one guy out there for me somewhere. I take every experience with stride and try to learn from it. People come in and out of your life for one reason or another whether it is good or bad. I would love to find a guy that wants to spend time with me but can still hang with his boys and me my girls from time to time and not get jealous. As long as there is trust everything should be just fine. I need somebody that understands my son is my #1 priority and since his dad isn't involved in his life he gets attached to men very easily. I don't let men come in and out of his life so I would really want to know you and I are going somewhere before we hang out and do things together with all 3 of us. I love to chill at home and watch movies and hang out. I also love to be outdoors and will pretty much try anything once just to have the experience. I am a family person so I would also need a man that doesn't mind spending time with family and friends. I am a very easy person to get along with and love to laugh. I don't play games so don't expect me to play yours. I know what I want and deserve and won't settle for anything less. Hopefully you feel the same way. So if you like what you have read so far hit me up and lets get to know each other.***update ******Cross fit is my new obsession. I am motivated to be in the best shape of my life and finally found something that is not only works but is fun. If you have been thinking about it definitely check it out. You won't regret it. You are pushed beyond what you thought you could achieve (that was my plug) lol I also signed up to compete in the "tough mudder" race taking place in September. I am in the process of getting in shape for it. This will be the hardest thing I've done but i now I can finish. So if u like to work out I would love to have a training partner to kick my butt into gear :-) I would like to just sit down over dinner or drinks and get to know you better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cinthia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a single mom and my daughter comes first in life! As for goals I am always looking for ways to better myself! I pretty much like all kinds of music, I am not looking for a booty call so if that's your intent I'm not interested. I am down to earth and like to keep it real, I don't like fake people! I hope to find someone I can have fun with, laugh with, and see where things go from there. Looking for someone that is caring, loving, maybe a little romantic, honest, loyal and can communicate! If you'd like to know more just ask!!! If you're a player keep movin!!! Go for a drink or coffee

  • Lisbeth

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a single mom of 3. 2 at home & 1 in college. I work from home (most of the time) making hemp jewelry & tie-dyes, but when the weather is nice, I vend at music festivals. when im not hangin with my kids or working, i enjoy live music & dancing, working out (daily) & playing in my garden. I eat organic food & am known for driving 3 hrs for a good indian restaurant.-8 weeks. Im attracted to men that have big brains & can carry on intelligent conversations. I know it sounds terrible, but I get bored & loose interest with slower minds. I'm loyal, often to a fault and will give the shirt off my back to anyone in need. I love kids! All kids. When given the choice, I would rather hang out with kids than most adults. Kids aren't "tarnished" yet. They haven't been taught to lie, steal or cheat yet. They aren't stressed from the worries of daily life, so they are able to find joy & wonder in the tiniest of things.if I could find a man with these qualities.... well, that would be ideal. I love going out & having a good time but am content & happy staying home for long periods of time. In fact, I rarely go "out", but always make the most of it when I do! I love to laugh & am often sarcastic/witty. ***often. Would like to meet someone with similar likes & interests, yet still a mind of their own. Look into your personal "history"...if you have a habit of half-truths/lying, have a girlfriend/wife/fiance or any combination of...please dont bother messeging me! Life is too short:) im an extremely blunt, call it like i see it kindA girl. Im real. Anyone im with, must be as well. Looking 4 that heart pounding, butterfly's in the stomach kinda thing thing.NOTE: Just because it says, "I'm on-line" doesn't mean I necessarily am. I have terrible servixe & can not always "connect to a server". & sometimes I am online, but I get busy with "mom" duties. If u are not mellow enough to give a girl a chance to respond & feel the need to send repeated messeges or rude ones...I surely have no need for or use for you in my life. MY KIDS come first and foremost.Also if you feel the need to send me messages about my "drug use", please get educated! The world has no room for more ***, judgemental people. There is a difference between a Medicinal Herb & a drug! Dinner & a movie is nice, but NEVER on a first date. Dinner is usually awkward (there needs 2 be an ice breaker) & movies don't allow u to hang out & get 2 know someone. Surprise me with some thing out of the ordinary! It doesn't have 2 be elaborate, just fun & out of the "norm".

  • Kilie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for a new adventure. Life happens and it is time I start a different path. My children are older and I find myself looking at a half empty nest.Likes:MoviesMusicArtWalks - around the zoo to see the animals or around the lake chattingConversationJust simply sharing an experience with someone Low key - nothing fancy. Happy to have adult conversations other than those I have at work on a day to day basis.

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