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Tam, 39
United States, Arizona, Queen Creek

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First, I have been accused here of coming across with a lot of animosity however I have no animosity whatsoever. I am a lover and although these things are important to get across, it doesn't mean that I am "bitter" or "angry" at anyone.....This I am not. :-) * Show me the guy who is sincere, who is ready to meet a dynamic lady, who doesn't think the grass is greener, who doesn't go back on this stupid site 5 seconds after he meets a dynamic person and checks out who is *** now, show me the guy who wants to try and make something work, show me the guy who understands that you don't always get chemistry on a "coffee" meetup or a "Lunch" meetup and that chemistry can take time to build.....Show me the guy who is on this site actually looking for something substantial and meaningful and not just a one night stand and finally show me the show who doesn't smack my ass on a first date or text me pictures of his penis like that is going to win my heart! DISCLAIMER: I am NOT looking for perfection whatsoever......I am hardly perfect! The things I list in my profile are just some things I am looking for and I don't believe my bar is too high. Is it too much to ask for a guy to have respect? Again, I am not looking for perfection. I am just as messy as you but I work hard everyday to be a better person and to respect one another. I work hard to be the best woman, mother, wife, dating partner one could be.* I am committed and brave.* Truly adventuresome* I am Extremely protective of loved ones* I root for the underdog* I am picky about details and rigorous in my methods* I also value honesty and fairness a great deal. * I can be outspoken, and headstrong* I am a hardliner who demands the best from themselves and others* I am a free spirit and outgoing* I love being outdoors. **. I come from an amazing family. No mess'n around with his daughter! Seriously. I look up to both my parents. * Your chances with me are small if we meet and all you do is look me up and down like I am some piece of meat. I have a heart and a soul and there is so much more to me that the outside * I will not tolerate any disrespect, crude or sexual comments. * I bring a lot to the table and feel like I am a great catch. * I have little or no drama in my life* I am not nor have I ever been a stalker* I am mentally stable and don't have a history of being bipolar which I am sure some of you guys can relate to and being in a marriage or relationship with someone who is. * I kudos if you have straight teeth and a bright smile* I am passionate and sexual but that doesn't mean you text me photos of you without a shirt on or even your "unit". This would not turn me on and in fact it would ruin all your chances of winning my heart * I believe in courtship * I have a 9 year old daughter whom I adore. I absolutely LOVE my daughter with everything I've got. She looks just like orphan Annie with red curly hair and a personality to die for. My little social butterfly. She has changed my life and I can't imagine a moment without her. I know what love is.....I didn't expect such a wonderful gift but here she came!. I truly believe she is going to change the world. There is not a moment that goes by that she doesn't change lives! We can be at the gas station, the car wash or wherever and there is always someone who's life my daughter touches.* I have had my daughter full time since the moment well, you know.......I don't share her and have full parenting rights. Its been tough being a single mother but like I mentioned before, I am strong and I keep putting one foot in front of the other. The good news is that I don't have drop off's at McDonalds, or have any ex boyfriends or ex-husbands either. There is very little or no drama on this end. * Things I want to do before I die: Climb Mt. I am getting re-licensed to be a foster parent. I am not saying this is WHAT I am going to do....I am saying I am doing what I love and they say if you do what you love then maybe you will meet someone........I just feel I have so much love to give. It's like catch and release I guess. I use to be involved in fostering. Love them and let them go back to their families or get adopted. It is a great feeling when this happens. * I would like to meet someone who is honest. Someone who knows how to be professional at times then also goofy when the moment is right. Someone who can sit and watch a movie on the couch on a Friday night yet also likes to go out. I am looking for someone who when we are 80 years old can sit and reflect back on our lives and our children and remember those days. I am looking for a man who likes to camp, hike and be outdoors in the summer's then on the slopes in the winter. I am looking for someone who can teach my daughter things about life and to be her hero. I am looking for a friend and a lover, a good person and one who knows that life is tough, nothing comes easy, and everything takes work. I am looking for a man who is highly respected at his work, in the community and with his family. I want to feel life and ever minute of it with someone who I can call my best friend. * I thought since I have listed sooo many things here, it would be equally important for me to list a few things on how I will treat you if we were in a relationship. Call me old fashioned but this has worked for my parents and they have been married for over 40 years....So, in my presence you will always be treated with the up most respect. I will understand that you have a role as the "male" partner in the relationship thus you will be treated as such. I will never argue or cause a scene when in public. I will never stir up or cause unwanted drama and I will ask that you drive everywhere we go and this includes my car if you want. Most importantly, when I am in one of my feisty moments, one look from you and we will find that corner, that alley, whatever we can find to make that connection. :-)* Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.;This, I will rememberwhen the rest of lifeis through:The finest thing I've ever doneis simplyloving you."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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