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Zella, 53

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About Me

I like to think I'm a good listener or at least I try very hard to be. I like to read body language. I also try very hard not to judge because it will only come back to me in form of bad karma or close me off to the possibility of knowing someone deeply. I like to sew and design things (wall hangings, quilts, tools, clothes) and build or repair things. I don't like hanging out in the sun. I love the ocean and camping. I don't cook but am a fan of those who do. I like working out at the gym. I used to be a Civil War reenactor, thinking about maybe getting involved with it again. I like wearing frilly clothes. I've been told by others that I'm weird (don't know what that means) but it's always (I mean always) said with a smile and great fondness. I like watching baseball/football but only with others. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. I can stay calm under pressure (at least look like it on the outside).I would like to hear about you.Update: The nose comment on my photo was meant to show off my nose in a very proud way.......I'm so surprised at how many of you guys think I don't like my nose (eye-ka-rumba). But just the same, thank you all for feeling the need to reassure me that my nose is ok......very thoughtful. I like men who are assertive and comfortable in their own skin. It's hard to write what I think is an ideal first date because I like things to be spontaneous....what can be written about that.....takes the surprise out don't you think? I would rather go for something simple to decide if we click....then let loose whatever makes life flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lael

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a single mother of 3 grown daughters and 7 grand kids, and believe me I can keep up with the kids but they have a hard time keeping up with me.... I am a very fun, spontaneous, love to laugh kind of a woman.. I'm not one to sit around, I would go and do anything fun..I'm just looking for someone to maybe meet as friends and see where things go... Maybe a drink or whatever works for us on that day

  • Dara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    There's no place like home!!Here's a bit about me...I am kind, caring, compassionate and also independent, passionate and career-minded. I love to hike, bike, travel and explore. I have travelled extensively through Europe, Australia and New Zealand and have ventured into Africa and South America. I like to build adventure into my vacations...I also enjoy gourmet dinners (especially when trying out new recipes with someone special), BBQ's with friends and trying out good wines. I like to learn about the wines and their regions... While I enjoy the theatre, or a concert in the park, it does not have to be a regular activity.I cherish "chill" time to just relax, reflect and maybe do some writing. Long walks with my dog are a must. There is nothing better than seeing the complete joy of my dog when she is able run and bound leash free on the hiking trails or chase a boucing kong!Family is important to me and I see friends as the next best thing! I am glad that I now am closer to my mum...she is 87 and so each visit is so precious and important. I was very lucky to meet some great people and form new friendships when away. And, also to keep the strong group of friends here in the area.So, what about you? I like a guy who is down to earth, genuine, fun, thoughtful and loving. You will want to spend time with me but also be willing to do things with friends and family. Do you feel a connection with nature and the outdoors?I know we will have a lot of fun and great times! are you also willing to hang around and work though the tougher times?I would like a man who can express himself openly...Don't hold back showing me how you feel when you reach for my hand or give me a hug. And let's be sure we both know how we feel about each other.I hope this gives you a sense of who I am. If we connect, I am happy to tell you more.

  • Steffanie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I have been accused of finding the silver lining in just about every situation! I don't like getting angry. I believe it is a waste of time and energy. I like to go to the gym and work out. I am not a fanatic but it does feel good and I like to be healthy. I usually work out ***to 4 days a week. I enjoy working out but it would be more fun with a partner! I read a lot!! I love to travel to warm places! I like sports but not fanatical about them! I love to tailgate!! There is so much that I would like to see and do. From simple things as just sitting around a campfire and gazing at the stars to traveling to places I have never seen. I am at home on the couch watching a movie, waiting for the crock pot to finish something awesome I have conjured up to dressing up and going out on the town in heels and dressed to the 9s. I would like to find my special someone. I don't expect him to be Mr. Perfect, simply because I am not Ms. Perfect. But I would like him to be my best friend. Someone easy to talk with, where we can have conversations late into the night and if we disagree that is ok too. We just agree to disagree. Holding hands, cuddling, kissing is all great when you are with the right person. Anything else please feel free to ask me...I want to be able to retire and enjoy life, travel, spend time with grandchildren - if I have any. Absolutely love music - I listen to such a variety. But not so much rap or hip hop. I also love to dance! Total surprise!! That would be cool. But I love to play pool and darts, not good at either!!! Take a walk in a park by the water. Somewhere we can talk and just be ourselves!! Then if we want to continue have dinner, go dancing.

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