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Zella, 53

Offline, last seen Sat, 09 May 2026 10:32:39

About Me

I like to think I'm a good listener or at least I try very hard to be. I like to read body language. I also try very hard not to judge because it will only come back to me in form of bad karma or close me off to the possibility of knowing someone deeply. I like to sew and design things (wall hangings, quilts, tools, clothes) and build or repair things. I don't like hanging out in the sun. I love the ocean and camping. I don't cook but am a fan of those who do. I like working out at the gym. I used to be a Civil War reenactor, thinking about maybe getting involved with it again. I like wearing frilly clothes. I've been told by others that I'm weird (don't know what that means) but it's always (I mean always) said with a smile and great fondness. I like watching baseball/football but only with others. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin. I can stay calm under pressure (at least look like it on the outside).I would like to hear about you.Update: The nose comment on my photo was meant to show off my nose in a very proud way.......I'm so surprised at how many of you guys think I don't like my nose (eye-ka-rumba). But just the same, thank you all for feeling the need to reassure me that my nose is ok......very thoughtful. I like men who are assertive and comfortable in their own skin. It's hard to write what I think is an ideal first date because I like things to be spontaneous....what can be written about that.....takes the surprise out don't you think? I would rather go for something simple to decide if we click....then let loose whatever makes life flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Tatum

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a very loving, caring, low maintenance, honest woman. If you ask me something, you will get an honest and direct answer. That is how I am and expect the same in return. If brutal honesty isn't something you can take, then I'm sorry. Best of luck in your search. I tend to be a homebody. I'd much rather rent a movie, pop some popcorn and snuggle on the couch than to go out. I'd love to find someone that can just sit back and enjoy the simple things in life with me. I am unable to walk any distance due to some back issues, so hiking is out but short walks are great. I am a computer game junky, which I got into with my son when he was 9 to keep an eye on him. Now I play more than he does LOL he is 23 years old now and I have an adult daughter with 2 kids. My son and his new bride live with me to help me out when my back is acting up. I'll give you more info on that if you ask me.I'm looking for someone who can accept me for who I am, who knows how to laugh at themselves as well as at the world like I do, but also is compassionate and careing. Because I am very affectionate, if you don't mind that, that is a huge plus to me. I don't mean to the point of trying to crawl into each others skin ***no matter where we are. I've dealt with people like that and that would make anyone crazy, but hand holding and such is awesome.I also love animals. Seems like every time I turn around someone is knocking on my door with a sick animal or stray that needs a home so I constantly have animals coming and going. One thing I want to make cystal clear is I will NOT be rushed into meeting you or telling you exactly where I live. Anyone with a minute bit of common sense would be able to understand that. If that is an issue then I'm sorry but I've met too many jerks to break this rule.Thanks for stopping by and drop me a note if you want to talk. I don't bite TOO hard... ***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or whom maybe suffering from it(in memory of my mom passed ***of brain cancer) First date/meeting would have to be somewhere public for obvious safety reasons. A park is always a good option, a restaurant for dinner or just coffee/tea or soda, wherever we could just be ourselves and not have to compete with loud music or too many people. I'm very easy going, actually prefer a quieter place but should really be somewhere there's some people around for safety and comfort sake.

  • Anise

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Well, I've been on this web site for a while... Just saying it would seem that I could find that one special person! No, it hasn't happen for me, WHY I have ask myself several times as I have came onto this site with hope and prayers that god has sent him to me... My feelings in a relationship is that both should care for what each other shall want and desire to have. That means I don't have any specific things or ways that has to happen. I love the simple things of life, be sure you bath, shave, and clean up after yourself... On occasionally clean up after me as I do the same for you. OK, the truth is I do like material things, but only if they are kept up as anything items have to be cared for. My desires and wants have been *** I choose to be nothing but HAPPY!!! So, if you have drama and loser trait in you please pass me up.... I want to have more of the ole fashion down to earth love and happiness in my life. That means if you need funky or junky stuff in you to make the world go for you, again pass me up, cause I'm not gonna to accept less in my life..I've been told that I look better in person!! Which makes me UNIQUE AND SPECIAL!!(if you're looking for an occasional booty call, move on to the next profile). If you're willing to take a chance and discover my true traits and characteristics, leave a message. I look forward to find someone that enjoys life and loves to live life... Hope to hear from you! I would like to meet each other at a place that is comfortable for both of us.

  • Marianela

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    This is going to be hard,because I set high standard,cause We r dealing with a lifetime. I need a lot of attention which I always give n return. I love the beach,fishing, camping, traveling, flea markets,& so on... enough about me,anything else u would like to know just ask.(?o?)

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