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Lesley, 30
United States, Wisconsin, Oconomowoc

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About Me

Let me keep it simple here: I grew up in a small, caring, and educated family. As I care about a normal, healthy, respectful and honest relationship, I have to say, "'Emotionally', 'Mentally', 'Morally', I've always had a healthy rich life". I am NOT perfect, but I'm trying to be a better person every day. I am following my dreams and truly living for them. At 27, I received my Ph.D degree. I NEVER married, No kids, Drama-Free, and Super-cheerful. My entire 20s, I have worked hard to become the person I am today. I think now is the right time to share my happy life with "one special gentleman". I have a lot to offer the right guy. Simply, the man of my Dreams is "a man of his word": In fact, a smart & decent man who gives enough credit to personal values and life's greatest achievements of a classy, cultured, daring and special lady. In my eyes, the most amazing guy on the earth is a hard-working, mature & strong man who stands by his woman and makes her feel loved, especially in moments of sadness and hardship. >>> NOTICE!If you ONLY look for hot females here (you know what I mean), let's do a favor to ourselves and not waste our time. We have nothing in common, but it doesn't make us a bad person. What some people see as positive values others see as negative! Maybe because of this, we wish to meet our soulmate someday. Everyone got a soulmate waiting for him/her somewhere. This is a long journey. Waiting for the right person is really worth it. "Only Mr. Right is able to recognize the DIAMOND that he has been searching so long."Best of Luck & Hope Life Treats You Kind! If both parties enjoy talking to each other (body language makes this process much easier) and feel that they are on the same page, then LOVE will lead us how to see an imperfect person perfectly...And regardless of all these things, how should I know who is right for me or who isn't! Just do my part, and leave the rest to the hand of destiny! Sometimes you have to give life permission to surprise you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Aaren from Oconomowoc | Woman | 30 years old | Aries
    Aaren

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I felt the need to revise this after my experience on this site... Lol! So here goes:I'm a small town girl at heart, although I enjoy the city sometimes and also love to travel. I grew up with a very close knit family and they mean the world to me. They taught me morals, values, and how to work hard. I teach at the school I grew up in. I am an independent woman and can take care of myself, but also want to find someone to share life with. I think finding the right person is just the beginning of a whole new adventure. I would like someone who has similar views as I do and really is honestly out to find someone to spend life with. I'm in no rush and move slow, but I also don't waste time. First time I meet you, I will know what I think. What I don't want: liars, drama, someone with a crazy ex wife, someone with more than one kid ( I'd actually prefer you have no kids), someone looking for just "fun", if you know what I mean, someone who doesn't take care of themselves (I work out and try to lead a healthy lifestyle and I'd appreciate the same), and I prefer white boys ( sorry, nothing against it but it's just a matter of attraction) Ok, I've been honest enough... If you want to know anything else ask!

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  • Shawanna from Oconomowoc | Woman | 27 years old | Virgo
    Shawanna

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I am looking for someone to ENJOY life with! Friends and dating and eventually a committed relationship. I like to travel and camp! Road trips are fun and there is so much to see in this country I couldn't imagine hanging around town all year long! I would love to live on a farm one day. If you are a gamer, druggie, alcoholic, who plays day and night, or really does anything day and night (drink, smoke, sleep, etc.) we will not be compatible! I am always changing it up. I can be selfish of my time with my children. I prefer to spend what time I have with them rather than without. I don't mind going out on occasion, but usually do it near their bedtime, where it doesn't take away our time. They are very used to having an active mother in their lives, and having a relationship would have to be blended in at some point. This scenario is not for everyone. I understand that..just don't waste my time! I consider my time valuable. Even if I choose to sit in bed for an hour reading or napping..it is my time..I divide it as well as I can. Recently my children and I got into bike riding and are loving it. I love baking/decorating cakes and photography.. I take way too many pictures and I love it. I like to bbq and although I am no chef I am loving my new grill. I love to go out to eat and take the kids to the movies. Some day I know I will meet someone who appreciates all of us. I would love to meet someone that likes camping and hanging out with the kids! Dirt road, kids playing in the yard, and a white picket fence =) There is someone for everyone. Happy fishing =) Surprise me. .

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  • Krissy from Oconomowoc | Woman | 26 years old | Pisces
    Krissy

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I like hanging out with my friends. On my free time I enjoy going out, outdoor activities such as golfing, skiing, beach and watching sports. Search for active people, not lazy and not couch potatoes.

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