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United States, Wisconsin, Menomonee Falls

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About Me

Yes my headline means what you think it means. I'm not here to be judged or harped on so if you're comfortable with it message me and if not please just move along.An open mind and accepting heart is what I am in the market for. I am looking to meet a man who has a good head on his shoulders, one who is done with the whole "let's get f'd up all weekend" mentality. I like a man with confidence and who is comfortable in his own skin but if you feel the need to tell me how much you can bench press or how big your "whoha" is please move along, I am looking for a family man or a man who can be content to be part of a family as that is what is here. I am somewhat of an introvert at times until I'm comfortable with a person, after that I open up very easily and conversation flows. There are few things I am afraid of in life, except for snakes...yuck I hate those things! Good set of morals and values here and a willingness to try different things and to be open about my thoughts on the things I venture into. If you have mommy issues or you are hung up on your ex or are for some reason going to think I will be ok with being an option and not a priority please move along I am not here to play games. A responsible self sufficient man who can look after himself and doesn't require someone to lead him around by his nose. I ask that you have the ability to look after your finances without having a "personal banker" to make sure your bills are paid on time. If you don't like to be called out on your b.s. then don't feed me any of it. If your favorite and only extra curricular activity is getting obliterated I am not interested. I am not a person to hold back when it comes to my opinions and how I feel about things so if that scares you then I am not the woman for you.There is something to be said for the single life, it has it's perks for sure but at the same time life is meant to be shared, shared with someone that wants to share with you. Giving opinions and ideas, making valid points and maybe even a little disagreement from time to time because let's face it no two people agree on everything all of the time.I don't want to give away too much information right off the top, where is the fun in that? It would make for a pretty dull conversation if I did. There is much to know and I am not opposed to any questions so please feel free to ask me anything. Put a little thought into a message please, the generic "hey, how's it going, wanna chat?" doesn't really spark my interest and I most likely won't reply.I am a home body, I don't like going out to bars, I prefer dinner and a movie or a quiet night on the couch. Camping is something that I have always enjoyed, and I would love to do some more traveling. I am focusing on my children right now but do still need to get out and enjoy life. I love all types of music and going to concerts is one of my favorite past times. Happy Fishing!I like walks, movies, music, kids, cuddly nights on the couch, the smell of camp fires, and a man who isn't afraid to be a little mushy at times. Go grab a coffee and talk, but in my opinion that is just a way to get to know one another...a date is a whole different scenario...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Joe

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Sometimes we meet people in our lives that God may not have intended for us. We have our share of good encounters and bad ones....each tested who we are, who we've become and who we want to be. At the end of the day I think that Ive been lucky to meet both. I've had the best people enter my life and I've had the worst. I've had people who have lifted my spirit so high and made me learn so much, enriched my life in ways they will never know and made me grateful to be alive. I've had the worst people enter and leave my life who broke me down, made me question my self worth, and tested me to see how strong and how much i could really take. I've been in love and I've fallen out of it. I've had my heart opened and broken. I've given too much and gotten too little, but I've also gotten so much from both of those. Sometimes its the people in your life who hurt you who actually help your inner YOU more than you know. It's when someone pushes you to the edge....when they make you wanna jump...when they make you feel like you have no options...that you get the strength... I've been on that edge of a hopeless cliff. I've had all my emotional baggage strapped to my back....so heavy and about to tip me over...and it is at that moment...that i chose to jump..... and do you know what happened? I flew.... I let go, I was FREE. I jumped from that ledge of insecurity, of false promises, of endless tears and unbearable grief, of misery and denial, and I left that girl behind. I left everything that I thought was comfort and realized there was more beyond the horizon...just past that cliff's edge....to a place that was not known....and not secure....and away from all I thought was real.....and I soared. And I've never looked back So sometimes we meet people who push us to that limit....because God wanted us to learn that life is all about risks....and it requires you to jump. Dont be the person who always has to think "what if" ..... take a stand, a stand for yourself....for all you are and all you ever wanted to be...let go of what holds you down, what hurts you...what makes you think you cannot FLY..... AND JUST JUMP...... Can't say I've ever went out on dates it's been a while so u will have to be creative! Something comfortable please!

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  • Daphine from Menomonee Falls | Woman | 31 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    BEFORE YOU READ ANY FURTHER:I AM NOT HERE FOR A RANDOM SHAG!!!I'm a musician with a taste for the nerdier things in life. I play D&D, like to read, and have a fondness for guns. I think the world needs a swift kick in the ass and that there should be a required IQ test to be allowed to drive. I love animals. I hate spiders. I want to see the world and experience as much of what it has to offer as I can. I like just about any music, but there are exceptions to every rule. I've probably read more books than you have, but who knows, I could be wrong. I just want someone that can love me for who and how I am *** what they think they can make me into.I am not wanting to jump the broom tomorrow, but I do want to find a connection with someone. I just got out of a 7-year relationship so I'm kind of testing the waters right now. I don't want to dive right into another one, but if that's the way it goes then I'm not so stubborn that I'll *** I'm a little random, a lot crazy, but all in all a hell of a wild ride. I'm not for the faint of heart, so if confidence and the ability to think for herself are traits that scare you in a woman, keep on walking because I'm NOT the girl for you.I might not be an open book, but I'm sure as hell an interesting read.Fair warning: I am a very honest person. I don't play games. In fact, I hate them. So don't play games with me, don't lie to me, because I will catch you. And then I will erase you. Something original. Don't take me to dinner and a movie. That's been done to death. Be creative. I'm not like most girls. So don't do something that a normal girl would like. Taking me to the range to fire off a few rounds would be good. A wild ride down a back road with no destination in mind, music up loud with the windows down. That sounds like a great time. Use your imagination. Your idea of a unique first date will show me just how interesting you really are.

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  • Andrea from Menomonee Falls | Woman | 31 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a fairly out-going person that just likes to have fun. I spend most of my free time hanging out with either friends or family. I like to try new things and meet new people, I can usually start up a conversation with just about anyone. I frequently have "brilliant" ideas that end up turning into a pretty good story down the line. Yes, that does mean I have an "accidentally drove to the border" story. I am one of those people who is much better in person than I come off on the phone or online. I like to dance, I like to sing, and I like to joke around. Call me an optimist, I feel like most things will work out, and I'm willing to put in the work to make sure they do.Also, I am pretty nerdy. The magazines you will find on my coffee table are usually Scientific American and Discover. I like my books fantasy/sci-fi and my TV shows to take place on spaceships. It is perfectly fine with me if you don't like either. We all have favorites right? Doesn't mean we don't have other interests.For music- I find that I own many of the CD's featured on the City's 97 end-cap at target. Bonus points if you know what I'm talking about... Anything really, I like to go bowling or go see a live band...or see a live band while bowling. I think a movie is a good start but then you need to have some time to chat and see if you have any matching interests. Maybe even a BBQ or watching a game with a group of friends. I don't think it really matters as long as both people are comfortable and have some time to talk.

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