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Zita, 51
United States, Wisconsin, Cudahy

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About Me

Not liking this part very much. Can't we just talk on the phone? I was married for 20 years. Divorced/separated now for five years. Two grown children making their own decisions while I sit back and cringe while biting my tongue. I have steady employment in the nonprofit medical field which is almost exactly what I want. Always keeping an eye out for something I might enjoy as much or more. I have worked in medical administration for about 25 years. Just became an empty nester and feel like it's time to make some changes in my life. One of those changes just may include a relationship. Hmmmmm....... Working out and trying new classes.... always a work in progress. It was a great adventure and decided to stay. Met and married. You know the rest........I have a strong personality, good work ethic and I am very committed to my family and friends. I enjoy others who have strong personalities, smart asses even and a sarcastic wit. Talking politics (not arguing), history, causes and just light banter. And, of course, total silence sometimes..... with that level of comfort that only comes with being close.Being outdoors is appealing to me in the cooler weather. Weekend trips that begin on a Friday are a must. Throw in some traveling with a purpose and I would be very happy.Music, I am all over the place. Not really rap or country though. Enjoy live events. Music outside? I will listen to just about anything. Plays, musicals, movies..... festivals, outdoor art events. Count me in.I love a really good coffee first thing in the morning when the sun is coming up and I like to end the day on the patio. Talking about our day or not........The rest we can talk about over coffee or a drink maybe. Feel free to ask me questions. I won't respond to 'meet me' requests. If you are truly interested, just send a message. Not sure.... what is a good first date? Coffee but not at a Starbucks. Somewhere more off the beaten track and outside.A drink. The same. Not the trendy place but the hole in the wall with good live music. Maybe you know a place.An outdoor event. With the cooler weather coming, there will be some fun events coming up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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