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Modesta, 33
United States, Pennsylvania, Windber

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About Me

I am a preschool teacher and love my job. After learning that I am unable to sustain a job that requires paper shuffling I was prompted into education by a family member. I have found the overall challenges and rewards from my job highly rewarding. Life is better when one enjoys what they do for a job and when you have lots of coffee. I must maintain the preschool level of energy.I am newly single and excited to be free from a really long and bad relationship that was much like a prison. It was not a marriage thankfully and he did have children that I was apparently raising. Thus I am looking to find a man that is exactly the opposite of the last poor example. With that being said I will simply give a few deal breaker: if you play obsessively WOW or think spending every waking moment playing video game, must be able to maintain a job, not suffer from male insecurities and rage, knows how to be an adult and sustain a house to livable standards, if you think that sex is optional and have no desire to grow sexually (leave now and never contact me). So I don't think those are too complicated. :)What I would like is a man who has a pretty great mind, loves to laugh, thinks life is a journey best shared, loves adventures, doesn't mind dogs, enjoys music, wants to find someone and is willing to explore each other (infer what you will), is more dominate than submissive (I am submissive and prefer a dominant male-no this is not an ass hole pass). I need a great deal of trust and respect before that is an option. I prefer someone who is open and willing to communication. I tend to not be overly emotional and in the prior relationship too about 2 years before the dreaded "l" word was introduced.-despite that warning it surprises me how many dont listen). I am looking for the man who makes it impossible not to fall in love with. Ive met one once and wonder if they still make that model of man. Care to prove they do?I am not looking for a man who is just adding trophies to his resume. I have been thru that phase of my life and looking for something slightly more meaningful. That is not to imply that I am asexual however, quite the opposite. I will not house break you and expect a man to behave as such. No, I do not respond to "Hey baby wanna have sex?" Come on that is not even interesting. Tickle my mind and have a little class about it and I am sure the rest will not be a problem:). I prefer a slight age difference (unless highly mature )have only dated within ***years of my age a couple times. I fancy taller men and have a soft spot for bald men. I also have tattoos and know that may be a problem for some. Since I was a banker and now a teacher very few people even know I have them. While on that topic I am "curvy" and dont care what you think (leave now if you need that). Having been in such a difficult and abusive relationship threw my body chemistry into a frenzy. I have lost a bunch of weight already but will never be that stick girl and I am happy with that.I am agnostic and don't plan on changing that (so please no overly religious fanatics). I was raised very religious and will still respect my families preference. I just don't practice any form of religion unless I am supporting a family member (probably Gramma) and attending say Christmas eve ect.Bonus points if your entire life doesn't take place in a bar or around a drink. I will drink but I am not a bar fly.Gold stars if you have mastered the ability to intelligently charm a women (specifically me lol) without mentioning sex. (and yes I shamefully have read 50 shades and yes I do enjoy that lifestyle). I prefer something that give us a chance to get to know each other and usually super loud places are not very conducive to that. I do enjoy coffee and wine. I also prefer to have a little effort put into the activity. Id rather not have that awkward conversation. ..idk what do you want to do....what ever you want. I like a great deal of adventures (sporting activities withstanding) so just compose something that is slightly thoughtful. I am sure it will be fine:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Salsa Cycling Drawing / Painting Music Thriller Drag Racing
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