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Alani, 53

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About Me

If you're looking for a great gal who is full of life and a bit of adventure, you've come to the right place. Don't let the age fool you...I am a constant work in progress, but don't mistake that for not liking who I am. I am absolutely me: funny, intelligent, honest, sexy, and confident. I don't have to pretend to be someone or something I'm not. What's the point? Life is too short to do anything but enjoy the people you love and the places and activities that bring you joy. So, I'm looking for someone who's looking for the kind of girl I am and has a similar attitude toward life.I’m fairly adventurous, open to new things because there are so many things I've not yet tried...just need a willing partner with whom to share those experiences.I’m drawn to the beach, day or night, it doesn't matter; it’s my favorite place to be. But I also love the mountains—hiking in summer or skiing in winter. Being outdoors in general makes me happy, whether a day at the zoo, in a park, digging in the dirt in my gardens, camping or forging trails in the woods—I’m there!At one time my cultural side was nurtured by museums, the opera, musicals, and ballet. I rarely go anymore but love to when the opportunity arises. Attending concerts or small live music venues is a great night out as well.The athlete in me enjoys playing and watching sports, too. Love to dance, swim, and golf. I work out ***times a week, more in the summer when I'm not working. I'm a big football and baseball fan as well.I enjoy a good glass of wine, and live music—I have a wide range of interests, really. I’m as content dressing up for a night on the town as I am throwing on a t-shirt and a pair of jeans and going for a walk, cuddling on the couch, or hopping on the back of a motorcycle for an afternoon ride. something quiet and casual...drinks, coffee, a walk in the park...somewhere that allows for conversation without a lot of distraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    First let me say thank-you for viewing my profile.This is a long profile, so grab a cup of coffee! lol :)The most important thing I am looking for in a person is:He must be 100% sold out to Christ. He will exhibit the fruit of the spirit in his life, enjoy having fun but is not held captive to the toys that give it to him, encourages me to share my inner most thoughts with him and listens when i do. He is my best friend, has a sense of humor, encourages me to grow and even spoils me from time to time. He puts a smile on my face even when not around, takes marriage vows seriously, understands commitment, is a good role model, leader, wise with money, realize how imperfect I am, but can over look it. He can ask for directions too! * :( About me:I am a Christian. I have been single for 7 years and have a deep, personal relationship with Jesus Christ, but am not religious. I was not born a Christian, but am born again! :) I am a good person but know that no matter how good I am, I could never go to Heaven on my own merit! I believe all good marriages have a few things in common; they are each others’ best friend, love in good times and bad, respect and cherish always & forgive quickly, putting God first continually. They always look for ways to keep the marriage vows fresh and exciting. I do not see people as involved in their marriage as they should be. How sad really. Nor do I see a sense of commitment. I feel it is much to easy to get a divorce today, and if one is to get it, they need to earn the right to do so. In other words, they need to have tried everything to make it work first!I also realize how easy it is now days, for a man or woman to explore the avenues of pornography online and I also know how damaging that is to a marriage, self and others and to your relationship with GOD . So, if this is an area where you find yourself at now or in the recent past, move on. I value the sanctity of marriage. I want to be desired by my husband solely and completely. Honesty is very important to me as it is to any marriage. Trust is earned and hard to regain if broken.I do not care about marrying a rich man. I care more about your heart and attitude then wealth. I would hope that we would be financially capeable to live out the rest of our life, being able to do all that Christ has called us to do. I also know that out of our obedience He will bless us. How those blessings come to us is completely up to GOD! I do however enjoy some of the finer things in life as much as the next person, and hope to be able to travel in the years I have left, but I do not let money be my GOD or dictate my happiness. I have learned to be content with plenty or little. I truly am a helpless romantic and am not afraid to display affection, after the marriage and not just in the dating period! It seems that many marriages fail because romance died after the wedding. It is as crucial as sexual fulfillment. Let's make dinner together, light some candles, put on some soft music and well you get the picture. I am down to earth but can pull off the sophistication needed for a business or a dinner party. I enjoy putting on blue jeans and working in the garden as much as I enjoy wearing an evening gown. I can turn up the music in the car, roll down the windows and get silly about it, but know when to be more reserved. I have a warped sense of humor at times, enjoy laughter and I tend to be a deep thinker. So to balance it I have to have times where I can just cut loose and have fun! I love being out doors, the smell of a wood fire, and cuddling next to it with the one I love on a cold winters night. I enjoy hiking in the woods or sitting on a boat in the middle of a lake fishing, watching a sunset and wondering what GOD was thinking when He made it all. Though I have this country girl side to me, I also balance it out with my love for the city. I enjoy going there to eat or shop, see a concert or attend other events, but at the end of the day, I love coming home to the peace and quiet and fresh air that country life has to offer. I enjoy the holidays and all the fuss that goes into decorating and planning for them. I like sharing them with family friends and those who have no one to be with. But I must admit, since being single, I have not enjoyed them as much. Something is missing, and that something might be you!I have been told that I have beautiful eyes and a smile that lights up the room when I walk into it. I am not so sure.....you be the judge of that! :) People guess my age to be younger than I am. lol Not sure if they are being honest or just saying it, but I still enjoy hearing it! lol I do not have a barbie doll figure! So, men, if you are looking for a super slim, athletic woman,that is not me! I have curves! My photos are recent, ***so that is still how I look. Interested? Post a recent phot. I pray you find the one whom GOD has for you. You will be looking for common denominators upon which you can build a lifetime, whether it is your spiritual convictions, values, or interest. There is nothing quite like looking into someone eyes and seeing a spark of interest for you. You talk and laugh and share stories and the time seems to fly by. A picnic and walk on the beach, a nice candle lit dinner in a restaurant, or a boat ride to the islands for the day can all be fun. First dates are always remembered, so make it special and just have fun! I wish you all the best in finding the person GOD has for you. Please don’t send flirts. Write to me.......and I will write you back.

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