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Abbye, 53

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About Me

Looking for someone to laugh with and talk with and have fun with that may lead to a nice relationship. I'm recently divorced after 20 years. Have 2 girls ages 17 & 19 loves of my life.I love all kinds of music except rap and heavy metal...enjoy rock,country and dance music.Extremely career minded and driven in commercial financial sales position, very stable and strong independant woman with confidence as well as being very caring,sensative and romantic. Extremely close with family and friends. I know alot of people and interact with many daily personally and in business. Very outgoing, friendly and real.Looking for independant, confident and spontaneous partner, self sustaining, romantic and mature, no players please! I'm not looking to join the couger club or retire...Looking for someone as comfortable in play cloths and enjoying having fun and hanging out as well as in a suit attending business functions. Looking for someone sincere and real! Have found that most of you want a message/text pen-pal. No interest in that for me. Life's too short. I'm old school. Talk than meet. Not chatting back and forth forever. If you are phoneaphobic..can not talk...please move on...happy trails!!! First date would be to meet for coffee to see if we have anything in common and interest in each other so that neither of us is uncomfortable if there is no chemistry or interest.If there were a second date possibly dinner and a movie or something else we would both enjoy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dell

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    **IMPORTANT TO ME: 1) If you're Atheist or do not believe in God DO NOT CONTACT ME. BIG DEAL BUSTER!2) If you Still Smoke or just quit a day or two ago, DON'T CONTACT ME. It takes more thana day or two, to be able to say you DO NOT SMOKE...3) If you are NOT a Social, Rarely or a Never Drink Person, again, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME! THESE THINGS 1 & 2 ARE A DEAL BUSTER.... NUMBER 3 IN EXCESSIVENESS, I JUST WON'T TOLERATE. IT'S JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE. AND I WANT TO FIND SOMEONE TO ENJOY LIFE WITH....I am a 53-year old divorced female Christian. I have a full time job, attend a Wonderful Church. My children are all grown up & on their own. However, I do enjoy my grandchildren when time allows.I do work 2nd shift, so yes I am on here late at night sometimes. On days I have meetings before work, I go in between 1:***pm until about 1-2:30am. Sometimes I do get off earlier, it just depends. I am a woman that works... GEAUX Tigers & Saints!!! Everything depends on Life.. ;)I enjoy being Sporadic at times. I enjoy Hiking, Bowling, Shooting Pool in a decent place, Watching Movies at home together after enjoying a Nice Meal Prepared Together, Walks around the Lake, Laying on a Blanket at night outside looking up at the Stars & Listening to the birds at night and maybe have a small fire going.... Maybe pop some Classic Jiffy Pop-Pop Corn on the open fire.... WOW, That sounds AWESOME! But, DON'T let this fool you! I Really love going to Theatrical Plays, Love Good Comedy, Love to Travel Stateside & Abroad. Sometimes, I just like to wear jeans & a t-shirt, maybe a skirt & blouse, and then sometimes I like to dress up for that Special Occasion. Oh, I almost forgot that I love to ride Motorcyles too...My hobbies do include Photography, Spending time with my Family and Friends, being involved in Church, I enjoy Sewing. I LOVE getting involved in Mission Work. God's work is Always the Most REWARDING! My Goal is to Find My Soul Mate that has some of the Same Interest & Desires to do Mission Work Together as Time Allowed it... Ok, now lets see, what makes me Unique? I would have to say my Heart. I have a Good, True Loving Heart. It Only Desires ONE MAN, & in Return, I EXPECT HIM TO ONLY WANT ONE WOMAN! I don't count first meeting or two as a Date. You have to get to know someone to see if you Both might be Compatible or not before you actually go out on a date or not. I know I want to at least FEEL some kind of Connection between the two of us. If the Chemistry Connection is there, we talk about what we might want to do. then we decide together, or if he Really wants to Surprise me, I will let him. But, I'll have to have an idea, so I'll know how to dress...

  • Montana

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)

  • Dimple

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I enjoy the outdoors, casual evenings and live music. I am honest, loyal, and like to laugh and entertain. I am not into drama or negative attitudes. I believe life is to be shared with an open heart and a positive attitude.I spend my time with art and nature. I love to garden, go kayaking or boating and I enjoy camping and hiking. I enjoy spirited conversation and passionate relationships. My personality is more complicated than simple. I am looking for a confident and honest man to build a life with . I welcome having children or grandchildren in my life, even though I don't have any of my own. I welcome building some friendships for the activities I enjoy, which include listening to live music, outdoor activities, working out or and an occasional drink. I like exploring new restaurants and love to share meals with adventurous eaters. I love all types of music and am open to learning, so please share with me your favorite musicians. I have my act together, so if you are struggling with insecurities or you are socially awkward or not leading a healthy lifestyle, we won't be a good romantic match. My schedule allows me to have Tuesdays and Sundays off and I work late on Wednesday evenings, so finding a partner who's schedule accommodates mine is a plus. Looking forward to becoming part of this area and community! A casual meeting to see if there's a connection. Chemistry has to be there and is something one can't describe. If there's a connection...then anything is fun and memorable and keeps you yearning for the next time.

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