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Gretel, 55

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About Me

It's the beginning of a whole new year! I am looking for a partner who enjoys making fond memories, ones that may last a lifetime. I am searching for that special man that I can tease, please, and make him laugh...maybe until he snorts! Minimum drama, just fun, companionship, should be ready and able with healthy passion, mutual respect, and let's see where it goes. You must have a true sense of humor, and bring it with you at all times. I will be checking! I adore massaging your back until you melt, but reciprocation is appreciated. I am very low maintenance, and not a goldigger. You can go to Rush St. or suburban hot spots for those ladies to abuse your credit card balances. OK, I am secretly holding my breath for some roses from Jewel, Dominicks or sent from ProFlowers. I am not loooking for a multitude of responses, just the right one, a special one, and I hope very soon so don't procrastinate. No pen pals, you must be willing to chat on the phone at length and have a free schedule to meet and date in a short time frame. I am not impatient, just goal oriented. Let's get the party started! Life should be a sit-com not a drama. I need a leading man. Physical appearances fade with age, so you must have a heart of gold which shines without much polishing... reply immediately! My date just needs the basics: sincere, caring, well mannered and courteous, good conversationalist, and have free time to be together regularly. You can be "whacky" If you are a "whack job" which is a noun meaning mentally unbalanced, dysfunctional, disagreeable with a temper, an addict of any kind, or an ex-basher...thanks but no thanks. Bailing you out of jail is not my idea of a good date! Be quick to smile, slow to take offense. A little patience and understanding go a long way. I am open to coffee or a drink for a meet and greet, but if we click like to go right into appetizers or a light meal to keep the momentum going. A meeting must be preceded by a phone conversation to rule out incompatibility. Grabbing a quick burger at Five Guys can be fun, if you are the type of guy to be brave and have all the toppings! Motorcycle rides, boating, fishing, or target shooting if you are the outdoorsy type and the weather cooperates. I most enjoy all live music venues, perhaps The Cube at Rivers or Blue Man Group or comedy clubs.. Hugging and holding hands are fine, but can you act out scenes or quote lines from one of my favorite movies like "" I'll bet a few of you can do that meticulously! Please, if you say you are on this site to date and meet, then please have enough free time to do that. I do not IM, e-mail only. I will generally respond to all coherent inquiries.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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