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About Me

Hello gentlemen, fasten your seat belts, here it comes:Like a good German car I'm built for speed and efficiency while hugging the road. European bred and raised, almost 5'7" with a trim, athletic build. I fit into my teenage daughter's ripped jeans. Occasionally I wear little black dresses. I own stilettos.I feel great love for humanity and all of life. I'm not cynical or jaded about life or men. I like men, especially in vulnerable positions on my examination table...Sometimes I'm told I look young for my age. Personally, I blame it on arrested development.I'm not looking for a quick fling but not for monogamy either. I'm interested in an ongoing but open relationship full of richness and trust and enough fire to melt our souls.Younger men are welcome. I won't pressure you into marriage and kids or spending all of your time with me. I like my freedom and respect yours. Older ones are welcome too, just stop proposing to me after the third date dammit, or I'll be on meetville forever ;)One thing, I don't drink alcohol virtually at all, it makes me feel sick, so I'm a cheap date, but a strong smell of alcohol on a man's breath can make me lose my cookies. This has actually happened, just as he said "That was a great date, you're so lovely, when can I see you again?" and I had to run and puke behind a tree! I'm not into drugs, either. If you smoke cannabis for any reason I'm probably not the one for you. I'm into health and fitness, take care of myself and expect the same in a partner. Good manners will attract my attention any day. So wil propperr speling ,,,punctuation and gramer. Unless you're French, Italian or Hungarian, in which case you can just whisper into my ear...I'm curious and adventurous and up for almost anything in all areas of life. If one of my friends invites me to do something I usually say yes, often without having all the facts. Next thing you know I'm on a nude beach. Oh well, at least I didn't forget my bathing suit.On the tamer side I like off-beat comedy, silly banter and creative expression like writing, gardening, painting and renos as well as most pysical activities. I like to play badminton, pool and darts, love to dance, swim and bike. Love to read. I also enjoy good movies, especially foreign ones, often watching them several times to analyze plot lines and character development.About you:I'm looking for someone playful, alive and engaging. I'm very playful and want someone who is relaxed and willing to play, day or night, someone who is authentic, imaginative and could really lose himself with me. A man who is comfortable in his own skin and takes good care of himself. The right man is reasonably grounded and self-aware and wants to grow emotionally and spiritually in life. I have an open heart and am ready for a deep connection at this point in my life. That doesn't mean I don't want to have fun while exploring and letting things evolve in their own way. I am not particularly needy, clingy, possessive or jealous and don't like those traits in a man either. I believe in honesty, trust and freedom and in radical, unconditional love. I'm willing to get hurt for my ideals, what's the point of living without them? That's called a 'Near Life Experience'. And the pain is just the ego wincing, it'll get over it in a few days.I get along well with entrepreneurs, artists, creatives, independent thinkers and the odd slave, oh yes. By all means, do my laundry if it turns you on! Please note that I'm looking for someone reasonably local unless you're willing to do all the traveling. Thanks for reading my thesis, er, profile and happy fishing! How about a game of pool? I might wear something clingy...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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