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About Me

Hello gentlemen, fasten your seat belts, here it comes:Like a good German car I'm built for speed and efficiency while hugging the road. European bred and raised, almost 5'7" with a trim, athletic build. I fit into my teenage daughter's ripped jeans. Occasionally I wear little black dresses. I own stilettos.I feel great love for humanity and all of life. I'm not cynical or jaded about life or men. I like men, especially in vulnerable positions on my examination table...Sometimes I'm told I look young for my age. Personally, I blame it on arrested development.I'm not looking for a quick fling but not for monogamy either. I'm interested in an ongoing but open relationship full of richness and trust and enough fire to melt our souls.Younger men are welcome. I won't pressure you into marriage and kids or spending all of your time with me. I like my freedom and respect yours. Older ones are welcome too, just stop proposing to me after the third date dammit, or I'll be on meetville forever ;)One thing, I don't drink alcohol virtually at all, it makes me feel sick, so I'm a cheap date, but a strong smell of alcohol on a man's breath can make me lose my cookies. This has actually happened, just as he said "That was a great date, you're so lovely, when can I see you again?" and I had to run and puke behind a tree! I'm not into drugs, either. If you smoke cannabis for any reason I'm probably not the one for you. I'm into health and fitness, take care of myself and expect the same in a partner. Good manners will attract my attention any day. So wil propperr speling ,,,punctuation and gramer. Unless you're French, Italian or Hungarian, in which case you can just whisper into my ear...I'm curious and adventurous and up for almost anything in all areas of life. If one of my friends invites me to do something I usually say yes, often without having all the facts. Next thing you know I'm on a nude beach. Oh well, at least I didn't forget my bathing suit.On the tamer side I like off-beat comedy, silly banter and creative expression like writing, gardening, painting and renos as well as most pysical activities. I like to play badminton, pool and darts, love to dance, swim and bike. Love to read. I also enjoy good movies, especially foreign ones, often watching them several times to analyze plot lines and character development.About you:I'm looking for someone playful, alive and engaging. I'm very playful and want someone who is relaxed and willing to play, day or night, someone who is authentic, imaginative and could really lose himself with me. A man who is comfortable in his own skin and takes good care of himself. The right man is reasonably grounded and self-aware and wants to grow emotionally and spiritually in life. I have an open heart and am ready for a deep connection at this point in my life. That doesn't mean I don't want to have fun while exploring and letting things evolve in their own way. I am not particularly needy, clingy, possessive or jealous and don't like those traits in a man either. I believe in honesty, trust and freedom and in radical, unconditional love. I'm willing to get hurt for my ideals, what's the point of living without them? That's called a 'Near Life Experience'. And the pain is just the ego wincing, it'll get over it in a few days.I get along well with entrepreneurs, artists, creatives, independent thinkers and the odd slave, oh yes. By all means, do my laundry if it turns you on! Please note that I'm looking for someone reasonably local unless you're willing to do all the traveling. Thanks for reading my thesis, er, profile and happy fishing! How about a game of pool? I might wear something clingy...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    After all this time here I am looking for the what is hopefully, the best part of me. I know that I love the outdoors, I know that there has to be some one out there in this great expanse of a universe that is looking for a warm, compassionate relationship with a female. I want to come to know that person through conversations and spending time together that over time grows into what we know as a comfortable, loving and FUN relationship. I enjoy all music with perhaps the exception of Rap. It just makes me annoyed, I'm sorry. I am hopeful that someone who reads this is also looking for a fun person to make new experiences. One who is not necessarily looking for the next spouse, but rather looking to meet someone who shares the same sense of humor, who isn't going to take themselves too seriously, after all, we aren't perfect. This person should also be open to "seeing" what happens. I can tell you I am exactly as my profile and photos will depict. I am a somewhat complex, often silly, sometimes serious woman looking for that person to have a relationship with who is open to more than just another date. I like my first date to not necessarily be a first day. Why not meet for coffee or other beverage? We can meet and talk for a while. We will know if there is any chemistry or not. If there is great, lets talk some more and plan another date (and soon okay?). If there really isn't any chemistry between us, we can finish our beverage and call it a day. With that said, lets say we do find each other intriguing, lets not waste not and consider our next date. By the way, it doesn't have to be dinner. Perhaps a walk downtown, or to some other local event that may be taking place? Dinner is okay too, just saying.

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    It's the beginning of a whole new year! I am looking for a partner who enjoys making fond memories, ones that may last a lifetime. I am searching for that special man that I can tease, please, and make him laugh...maybe until he snorts! Minimum drama, just fun, companionship, should be ready and able with healthy passion, mutual respect, and let's see where it goes. You must have a true sense of humor, and bring it with you at all times. I will be checking! I adore massaging your back until you melt, but reciprocation is appreciated. I am very low maintenance, and not a goldigger. You can go to Rush St. or suburban hot spots for those ladies to abuse your credit card balances. OK, I am secretly holding my breath for some roses from Jewel, Dominicks or sent from ProFlowers. I am not loooking for a multitude of responses, just the right one, a special one, and I hope very soon so don't procrastinate. No pen pals, you must be willing to chat on the phone at length and have a free schedule to meet and date in a short time frame. I am not impatient, just goal oriented. Let's get the party started! Life should be a sit-com not a drama. I need a leading man. Physical appearances fade with age, so you must have a heart of gold which shines without much polishing... reply immediately! My date just needs the basics: sincere, caring, well mannered and courteous, good conversationalist, and have free time to be together regularly. You can be "whacky" If you are a "whack job" which is a noun meaning mentally unbalanced, dysfunctional, disagreeable with a temper, an addict of any kind, or an ex-basher...thanks but no thanks. Bailing you out of jail is not my idea of a good date! Be quick to smile, slow to take offense. A little patience and understanding go a long way. I am open to coffee or a drink for a meet and greet, but if we click like to go right into appetizers or a light meal to keep the momentum going. A meeting must be preceded by a phone conversation to rule out incompatibility. Grabbing a quick burger at Five Guys can be fun, if you are the type of guy to be brave and have all the toppings! Motorcycle rides, boating, fishing, or target shooting if you are the outdoorsy type and the weather cooperates. I most enjoy all live music venues, perhaps The Cube at Rivers or Blue Man Group or comedy clubs.. Hugging and holding hands are fine, but can you act out scenes or quote lines from one of my favorite movies like "" I'll bet a few of you can do that meticulously! Please, if you say you are on this site to date and meet, then please have enough free time to do that. I do not IM, e-mail only. I will generally respond to all coherent inquiries.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a fun and funny single mom of two teenagers, a son and a daughter. I have been officially divorced for about ***years (after 18 years of mostly unhappy marriage) and have been raising my kids to be pretty independent. I am a people-person and my work allows me to be my own boss, which I love. I am sensitive to others, responsible, and reliable. In the little free time that I have, I like to spend time with my two rescue dogs, my friends, I like to eat out, garden, sing, do home improvement projects, and I am a big movie fan. Fall and winter are my favorite seasons. I like funny stories, funny people, good fiction, romantic comedy films, walks, art museums, antique shopping, comedy shows and comedy radio, shows at DPAC, helping friends in need, taking naps, and rain and snow storms. My handy man encouraged me to try this site. Meet for coffee or a glass a wine...maybe dinner and a movie.

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