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About Me

I am a single parent of two grown kids. They are both out and on their own and doing well. I am proud of them.I've been told that I am outgoing and fun to be around. I like to laugh and make those around me laugh too. I need a man who is also fun to be around, not afraid of taking chances, outgoing and hasnt lost that child inside. I realize we are in our 50s but I am not anywhere near ready to be old. I ran into an old classmate recently who acted like he was in his 90's. That's not me!I enjoy boating, museums, traveling, reading, gardening, flea markets, the gym and more. What do you enjoy? I don't have a boat at the moment but I plan on it again one day. Are you the man with the boat I am looking for?I would like to meet someone who is honest and backs up what he says with matching actions. Loyal, respectful and responsible are a given. I don't ask for anything I am not. If you are into drama and games, please pass me by. I'm too old for all the nonsense!Must love cats! (I have 3)I want to find someone to go out and do things with. I am looking for a man who is funny and outgoing. A friend that turns into more in time. I am in no rush but I do want a lasting relationship. No serial daters or players!!!! There are so many nice things to enjoy but it is much nicer to spend the time with someone else too. I am tired of being single in a couple's world.Please have current pictures of yourself on your profile or I will not respond.My pictures are current, with most of them taken this past year. We will decide when the time is right. Could be anything fun!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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