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Abiah, 32
United States, New York, Oswego

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 Jan 2026 18:22:18

About Me

Ok here goes! It is hard to describe or emulate a personality on these online dating services, but I will try my hardest. I am a fun, loving, caring individual who cares for the people in my life. I enjoy the little things in life that sometimes are taken for granted. I am a simpleton and enjoy bumming around on a beach or working the scene at a club with friends. I’m extremely independent and highly respect others who are. I recently went through a very tough, life altering, and awakening experience taking care of my late father and his battle with cancer. I feel he had inspired me to always view life as a gift and to enjoy each day as if it were your last. Because of him and this experience, I decided to further my education into the health field. Because of this I have also decided to fulfill my dream of finding a perfect man to spend the rest of my life with. I am currently 32 years old and feel that it is time to settle down with someone and begin what I know will be a beautiful life together. I always give 100% in my relationships and have always maintained my monogamy, which I hope my partner will do for me in return. My personality is as big as my heart and I am ready to share that with someone special. If you think that you may enjoy a no-crap relationship with a great-grounded man, drop me a line. You wont be disappointed. For a first date...I always tend to keep them real and simple, always remembering that first impressions are usually lasting impressions. A nice meeting at a restaurant or wine tasting is usually on tap and feel that they are always good venues for meeting people and getting to know one-another. Not too complicated and not too simple, just picking a nice relaxing and inviting atmosphere...that usually sets the mood...Also, walking the beach after that perfect flight of wine or dinner is always a bonus.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Canadian Japanese
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