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Ryker, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

Offline, last seen Mon, 05 May 2025 06:09:53

About Me

So yea, I hate these things. I'm not one to talk about myself and have never really tried the online thing before, so here goes, enter at your own risk:You know THAT guy, everyone knows one, that no matter what happens hes always able to laugh at a bad situation. This tends to be me. As a person, I tend to be easy going and for the most part, laid back. I've learned to find the humor in life (mainly to keep my sanity) and make the best of what I'm given. Its most likely one of my best features, as it keeps my mood just that much more on the positive side.I'm fairly new to town (ATL) and only know the people i work with. Most of the time, if I'm not working, I'm doing my own thing at home, be it movies, reading sci-fi, or playing online games, usually WoW (if you know what I'm speaking of...FOR THE HORDE!!...if not just continue on). Honestly, I choose not to go out with everyone from work simply because I prefer to remember where I left my keys and phone the night before. I venture out and enjoy life, alone or accompanied. I never pay any attention the the looks of "". i enjoy things just fine on my own, but if one listens, one might think they hear me say that at times it might be nice to have someone to share things with. But like I said, I'm never afraid to do anything alone.So to wrap this up (before you lose interest mostly) I am me, short, simple, and complete, what you see is what you get. I am very sane and stable, and like the life I've made from myself. I live by my own means, and enjoy the finer things in life that don't have to cost an arm, leg, and three toes. I'm simply at a point in my life where it might be nice to have someone to share with and grow. Wow a first date, i could quote so many movies, books, or "guess what i did last night's" but i choose not to. ***, this is how I see things:I have no perfect first date to mention, partly because it hasn't happened to me. It could be sitting in a waffle house, deep in conversation sipping God-awful burnt coffee while *** trashed couple making a spectacle of themselves in the corner.It could be simply sitting at a table talking about nothing, and everything, getting to know one another "the old fashion way" by listening, *** playing 37 questions over text messages. So, you have just a glimpse of who I am, and why im at times THAT guy laughing quietly to myself, seemingly at nothing. If you happen to want to know anything else, just ask, I'm an open book.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Gardening Comedy Sci-Fi Soccer / Football Spirituality
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  • Les from Oswego | Man | 31 years old | Scorpio
    Les

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    Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    "Takers eat better, but givers sleep better at night"Life is funny sometimes, how do you sum up your existence in a paragraph? How do you get noticed in an ever changing sea of people? You can pour your heart out into this little box, and it will hardly get read. If you message me I will at least read your profile and see where we are similar and reply if I feel we have enough in common. If I send a brief message to you, it means I read your profile and I felt we had enough in common to message you. It doesn't mean I didn't read it, but responding in a long message seems counter productive if the other person does not feel you have enough similarities to be compatible. So I try to send messages to determine interest, and respond to messages from those I share the most in common with. I hope the information below sums me up well enough to scratch the surface of my being, and gives you enough to make you want to start a conversation. If so great, and if not thanks for at least reading what I wrote and not messaging me based off my photos. Well here I am -Let's see, I am a simple, quasi homebody, who is fun, friendly, and family oriented. I am trying to find someone similar to me, someone who has his life "together", but is able to indulge in the simple pleasures in life. I love watching movies, playing video games, hanging out, travelling, and spending time with the ones I love. I have a great job and a flexible schedule and I get to spend a lot of time with my family and friends. I am happy sitting at home ordering takeout, or going on a crazy adventure whichever way the wind blows. I will try most things once, twice if I need a photo to prove I did it and will never do it again lol. I am a romantic at heart, for example if you were having a bad day I would drop a single flower off at your job to surprise you, bring you some coffee or tea if you were drained and tired, or take you on an evening picnic in the park to lay next to you and watch the stars. I am a huge animal lover, and a vegetarian, its a very personal choice for me, but its not the right choice for everyone including someone I date, so don't worry if you are not vegetarian. They all have phenomenal personalities and are a part of my family. I also have 2 nephews and 2 nieces and I try to spend time with them whenever I can. I am looking for someone to share these things with, my family, my home, my life, all of these things I want to share, and I want a person who wants to share those things back with me too, who wants to start a new life, a combination of both of our lives. I don't want someone perfect, just perfect for me. Sorry but I am not interested in Mr Right-Now. As the time goes by people change, and our journey brings us closer to the end, with each day we get older and wiser (and hopefully smarter) but the heart wants what the heart wants, even when the mind may whisper "run you clever boy, run". I am a total geek/nerd and I wear it as a badge of honor not as one of shame. My phones ringtone and notifications are from Super Mario Bros for the NES, I love technology and seeing the advancements that keep being made. While at the same time I am grounded, I want to spend time in Nepal helping at a leper colony, I want to see the Dahlia Lama speak live one time, I want to have experiences I can never replace, I live in a world where I can make a difference, and I intend to. Be the change you want to see in the world, and to change the world you just need to change one person (which can be something as simple as a smile) Every interaction you have with someone you both give part of yourselves to each other, its not about changing each others opinion to match the others, or about uprooting there whole personality, its about when you interact offering the best of you so that interaction can be positive in there life, and receiving their positive energy back. I tend to think very deeply and philosophically, and believe in the good of all, over the good of oneself, because when others share the sentiment of good for all, you all take care of each other and in turn you don't need to worry about yourself. Well I hope I have rambled on enough to catch your interest but not enough to have bored you with the writings of what my journey has placed before you.With all that said... English was my worst subject in school and I am sure there are enough grammatical errors here to give a grammar nazi a twitch, but I am trying to convey a lot of information but in written form when I am much better orally. Its hard for me to articulate the words and sentences I would like to offer, but trust me I am intelligent, just in other ways. Thanks again for reading and hopefully we will speak soon. Something comfortable, which allows the conversation to flow naturally, coffee or perhaps a light meal, just something to offer a taste of ourselves to each other and see if it can move on to something more.

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  • Mathew from Oswego | Man | 33 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Well I'm a good hearted person who loves to meet new people. Don't be shy and say hello ill never leave a hello hanging even if I think your ugly as sin. J/k :0)I had weight loss surgery back in July and since then I'm a 100lbs. lighter and couldn't be happier and looking to stay that way. So if your looking for a gym partner or someone you'd like to mold into your project I'm all for it. I like to go out and have a good time but I also know how awesome it is to sit at home and share time with someone ya care about. I believe in "To each their own" politically or religiously. But if your Ultra conservative or believe your dead relatives/friends spirits are floating in your house watching over you then were probably not a good match. But other then that I have no beef. That's all 8) Doesn't matter I believe no matter where you are or what you do you'll make anything a fun/good time. But since their asking ill say nothing wrong with dinner/drinks it's a good start I hear.

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  • Keelin from Oswego | Man | 32 years old | Libra
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    Man. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    im very laid back guy who is really looking for fun, i love to go out to lounges and stay home as well. when i find that special guy i would try to do my best to make him happy$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ we can do watever im down for anything!!!

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