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Benjy, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

Like it says, i'm an open book if you ask. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and a guy who can make me laugh gets bonus points. I enjoy a lot of things in life, music, gym, theatre, singing, jogging, cooking, traveling, and a good Sunday Funday every once in awhile is enjoyable...and then there's the days i enjoy not doing anything...I don't mind going out to bars/clubs and dancing the night away, but my first option is cooking dinner, tv/movie, some wine and good conversation or comfortable silence. So yeah, there's a little bit about me, if you wanna know more, just ask. Chemistry and attraction is the key, talking over a drink is a good start and if things go well, maybe take it to dinner and a walk around the city. And if the night goes really well, a good kisser will get me every time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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