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Benjy, 34
United States, New York, Oswego

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About Me

Like it says, i'm an open book if you ask. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and a guy who can make me laugh gets bonus points. I enjoy a lot of things in life, music, gym, theatre, singing, jogging, cooking, traveling, and a good Sunday Funday every once in awhile is enjoyable...and then there's the days i enjoy not doing anything...I don't mind going out to bars/clubs and dancing the night away, but my first option is cooking dinner, tv/movie, some wine and good conversation or comfortable silence. So yeah, there's a little bit about me, if you wanna know more, just ask. Chemistry and attraction is the key, talking over a drink is a good start and if things go well, maybe take it to dinner and a walk around the city. And if the night goes really well, a good kisser will get me every time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums History Horror Bowling
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    Man. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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  • Marvyn from Oswego | Man | 35 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a hopless romantic. I wouldn't consider myself regular. My brother tells me a I am most unique person he has ever know. I would prefer to become friends with a guy before I start dating him. I think that friends make the best lovers. I am not perfect nor is anyone in this world. A lot of gay men are so superficial and it is hard to find guys that are not. My body isn't in perfect shape, but I do juice everyday, I try to eat the best I can and I am working on myself. I am somewhat effeminiate but not a flamer; that is who I am and I will not change myself for anyone. I hate labels, but I have to be honest and say that I get into guys that are more masculine that me. This is me. How I like to be. Take it or leave. What you get is what you see. You better believe it. Take it or leave it. I would love to find someone to date and spend time with. To enjoy one anothers company. I am not here just to hook up. I want to find love. I had given up on love for a long time. But I have decided that I will not give up on finding my soulmate until I draw my last breath. I am southern, and have a heavy southern accent. I am proud of where I have come from, where I have been, and where I am going. If you like what you read and/or see. Give me a holla! Take care, peace out. And remember gay men. We have to fight against the world, why fight one another!!! The gay community should be more united!!! Good food, good drink or a nice walk. And hopefully a nice kiss before heading home!

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  • Sol from Oswego | Man | 34 years old | Pisces
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    Man. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I’m very goal oriented person. I\'m a hard worker. Missing my other half. Im very blunt I will always tell you the truth. would like to see myself happy with someone who would like to be happy as well.

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