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Vito, 52
United States, New York, Holtsville

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About Me

Its been a long time since I was looking to meet someone and I am just trying to fgure it out. Like everyone, life has served up a few curve balls but I am excited about the possibilities of a new beginning so here goes. ..I am humourous casual intelligent, I work hard through the week and like to kick back on weekends. I am direct, painfully (sometimes), honest, stable and focusing more on health than I used to. I am very family and friend focused, giving and generous. I am looking to slow down the pace now from all work and take more time for hobbies vs renovating and such. I am easy going, trustworthy and dependable (sheesh ..kind of sounds like a dishwasher??). Am patient, modest (except for this profile), honest and prefer "real" conversations to phoney ones. I love animals, nature, boating and being in Muskoka at the cottage and spend as much time there as I can... sights, sunsets, the smell, the peace is all good. I am handy (can build and fix things) and traditional..(opening the odd door isn't because you can't). I am compassionate and giving. I like all kinds of music from rock to motown to 40's, 50's, 60's 70's 80's, 90's and new country..no rap please. I am close to my family, have three adult step daughters and am loyal and supportive to my close friends. Can get by fine on my own but would prefer someone to share life with. Would like to share my world and like to learn about yours. I like going out but equally comfortable at home with good food, wine and a couch watching the TV (It seems to me everyone says that...doesn't anyone have chores and "stuff" to do)? Love to get people laughing and manage to generate a fair bit of humour once you get to know me. My home is always open and often a meeting place for friends and family. I guess I am looking for a special someone who understand the work hard, play hard motto. Someone satisfied with their life but want to forge a second beginning. Smart, energetic, fun, comfortable in jeans, shorts and a dress (i guess not at the same time), not too formal or serious but has the intelligence and compassion to care about life and the wit to laugh about it. Able to take some light hearted kidding and presumably deliver it. PS Sure glad this public scrutiny is over ...good luck in your search. Somewhere comfortable and casual for a few drinks where we can talk and learn about each other...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Crime History Sport
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