SIMILAR PEOPLE
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JabariOffline
Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60
I have this Theory about Divorce....After years of being in the Hospitality Industry and watching people behave in Public and especially (a little bit) older people, I have made some fairly decent observations. I think.I can't tell you how many men I have served who have told me about their pending divorce and out of habit I always ask the same question; "As head of your family, are you sure you have done everything to put your marriage back together?" I *** a "yes" from these men and my most favorite response is; "I am ashamed to tell you this but my wide and I have not had sex in over 2 years!" In some case I go further and ask a few more questions such as; "is your wife going through menopause or pre-menopause?" or "have you or your wife lost there Mom and Dad in the last couple of years?" Each one of these questions denotes a critical cause and effect psychological condition that could be responsible for the marital issues at hand....and can be handily treated and resolved in most cases. These are just 2 common things people our age go through during a marriage if we are in our 40's and on.There is a problem that has creeped into the divorce cycle that is commonly mis- Unfortunately over the counter supplements are not FDA approved and therefore have an unknown factor with behavior modification.Now the question that most men will never answer is the following; "has your wife gained any weight or had any medical conditions?" Believe it or not most men have an extreme sense of loyalty to a soon to be ex-spouse, where these questions would be, in their mind disrespectful if discussed with a stranger or even a close friend. Only in therapy is is found out that a spouse has grown to where they feel un-attracted to their partner especially if they have gained weight or a medical condition has changed their appearance.Now for the kicker. If you are a man and you read through the profiles on meetville, probably over 75% have some mention of "honesty" or a reference to infidelity somewhere in the profile. It does not take a psychology degree to realize that these women have felt betrayed in their marriage and was the reason for their divorce. They also feel this will be the main priority on the next go round. It is a shame to say this, but infidelity is never the reason for the divorce as experts agree that that is a symptom of a divorce...in other words, it is the final straw that brings a marriage to a conclusion. Unfortunately, most people never come to terms for the failure of their divorce and often repeat that behavior as 2nd marriage end in failure 75% of the time.So how prevalent is mental disease or psychological and personalty disorders untreated and divorce? I think it is very significant...it deals with this very subject very well!And ladies, while you all are thinking that the men you meet on this forum are all "Players" perhaps that may be correct based on the fact that the men that date in 40's and 50's are in no rush towards marriage where the statistics are not favorable and they most certainly do not want to rush into a situation where they are telling their Bartender; "do you know how long it is been since I have sex with my 2nd wife?" Friendship is important! I am seeking the rare person who I would call a "kindered spirit..you know by just looking at their eyes, an old soul if you will...going to live music venues and things of interest such as Martini's at Fernbank.
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UziaOffline
Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61
Looking for more than a friend, a partner, someone to share life with. Someone who is strong, independent, yet looks forward having that connection.This is the hard part, tell you about me ? I think once you get a little insight you will like what you see. My mom says I'm a good son, my friends like me, I think.lol, Hmmm. I enjoy the year round weather that allows me to do the things that I enjoy. Boating is a real passion for me, Biking is a close 2nd.. You dont have to be cyclist or a boater just the desire to enjoy the outdoors. I have an Indoor Cycling Certiication and hope to have a class of my own soon, for now I am a sub. I spend 4 days a week at the gym spinning and body building.Last and I hope not least is that I love to cook, I learned early on that if I want a good meal I'd have to make it myself. It would be nice to meet someone with similar interests
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VanceOffline
Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61
Of course everyone on this site paints an imagine of themselves as best they can. Its like a resume of how great I am and why you should pick me. So here is my spin.First and for most I am a man. I am a 54 year old man, but still can play, yet i'm not a boy. I am an artist and my life is about that. It is my soul and my carrier. I have an edge, but I am sweet. I have made mistakes, but learn from them. I have no debts. No kids and a small family. I keep my live simple and have set aside as much drama as possible. As for the woman I seek. She is fem, yet strong. She is glamorous yet can hold her own with any man. She does not ride motor cycles and does not drink beer from a can watching a Nascar event. Her pet is not her best friend and sleeps in her bed. She loves God, family and her friends dearly. She might drop a F bomb in passion, but says I'm sorry when she is wrong, but still remind me I was an ass. lol.She is fit and tone. Dresses well. Has a shoes fetish she will admit to, but the others are a secret. She does not settle for average. She is trendy yet holds good traditions, and she is not old fashion. I'm the type the will always notice the little things too. A new hair cut, the color on your toes and will tell you look beautiful for no reason at all. I love a woman that of course looks good in sexy heels and a great outfit, yet can still make me look twice in just jeans T-shirt and flip flops. I like a woman with style and good taste. Smart, witty, graceful and silly. She's passionate, open minded and loves to kiss. She likes movies, thunderstorms, holding hands and exploring. She is real, honest, and has faith in me. It's really simple. Life is so much better with you have that grin no one else gets, cause that someone special put it there. I like the idea of a being crazy in love with your best friend and lover the rest of your life. So... If your sweeter than you look, kinkier than I thought(okay very kinky) and a better kisser than I have ever imagined, then find me. I could be interested forever.* Hint. I do not like submissive shy women.