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Russell, 46
United States, New Hampshire, Dover

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Pof booted me, why I don't know....use to be known at mzzattitude45....I'll finish my novel later. I now have time to finish my novel. My first profile was a one in a kind profile, pretty blunt down to the point and very much guarded. I have came to realize that in order to find someone to share your life with again, you have to let some of the guard down.First and foremost, I am completely honest. I do not deceive, I tell it like it is,and hold nothing back. When I describe myself, I am not kidding. Seriously I am a marshmallow....fluffy. I have no plans on changing who I am cause other than my issue with letting my guard down....I like me. I have also found that so many people proclaim their honesty yet fail to actually do what they proclaim....being honest. Its dating, be honest. If you meet someone and you have no romantic chemistry with this person....tell them, dont do the "fade out"....additionally, if you like someone....tell them. I believe that dating should have no games involved. I dont play games and do the whole hard to get thing, I really wish that many more adults followed the same philosophy. I live with no regrets, and I live like there is tomorrow. I enjoy laughing and will laugh at about anything. One of my greatest phrases is "its funny right" or "its freaking hilarious". I will attempt anything twice if I have the desire to do so, if not, Im not going to do something just because others want me to. I live for me. I am a VERY NON MATERIALISTIC PERSON, who doesnt see a person for what they have or where they live or how much they make, I see individuals....the person. The last thing I would want is for someone to judge me for what I have or dont have, what I make or where I live...I would want the same thing....to be seen for who I am. I cant stand rudeness. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor, and with all other aspects of my life, I dont hold it back. I am only rude to someone who is rude to me. On the flip side, my personality is unique. I definitely dance to a different drum....why would I want to be a person that is controlled by social restraints and wondering what others think or are willing to accept? Everyone has an opinion and the only one that matters to me is mine, all others are really none of my business. I am fun! Why be serious all the time? Why worry about what others think? Why live my life for others acceptance and not mine? I am not selfish in no way. When I am engaged in a relationship I am a very committed, trustworthy person. I am also very compassionate and caring to the person that I am with, as well as, their feelings and goals are just as important to me as mine are. I take the majority of things with a grain of salt....seriously....lets face it,,,,its life, and life isnt always fair. Life sometimes is painful and hurtful. Yet, life is also full of joy, laughter and craziness, times to be silly, times to just throw your hands up in the air and say....lets do this...and smile....lets face it....no one makes it out alive...so why not live it to the fullest. I am not easily offended unless its rude or crude, that I will not tolerate, and as a good blunt person that I am....will definitely put you in your place. There is a quote that I live every day "Dance like no one is watching" and I seriously dance like no one is watching....all the time, in a bar, in a club, in my car.....to give you a visual.........THATS HOW I DANCE....LITERALLY...and just like Phoebe....I dont care if anyone is watching me....its fun....and thats what a large portion of our lives should be about....fun....Here's a challenge for you....walk up to a random person and say "Beedo Beedo Beedo" like a minion from despicable me.....hilarious. Or when stuck in traffic due to construction when you get up to the dude holding the slow/stop sign say "well good morning oompa loompa" I've done both lolJUST TO CLARIFY....MY EYES ARE BROWN,,,EVERY OTHER COLOR OF MY EYES ARE COLOR CHANGING CONTACTS. I can't stand them,I try to avoid them and the awkwardness. I have had many messages regarding my views on first dates...so let me explain. Boy meets girl....girl and boy start to talk (GREAT), boy and girl find an attraction (DOUBLE GREAT) boy and girl decide to meet (TRIPLE GREAT)....they meet...they have an amazing time....then for some strange reason...the "fade out" happens (OH BUMMER) "Fade out" defined as....everything is wonderful and amazing...both talk for hours or text whatever, and then once the date happens and all the awkwardness involved and for some reason...the text become fewer and until they just fade away. BE HONEST....most people would love honesty versus dealing with "fade out". True story....I met a guy (from here) we talked for hours and hours and then we met...we were always completely honest with each other....what happened we found out that romantically it wasnt going to happen...but we enjoy each other and laughing.....and he is one of my good friends who I often text with "HELP I NEED MEN ADVICE....YOUR IT"...lol..Second reason why I hate first dates....I am a new fool in an old game...I really do not know how to do this. I hate the whole does he like me, is he going to call me again...etc...etc. which turns into blah blah blah....I make fun of women who are needy and you hear them saying "oh I really like him and Oh this and oh that"....seriously I want to hit them upside the head and say "WAKE UP" so meeting someone who intrigues me or I click with and I am attracted to....scares me.......and the only thing I know how to do...is run and push that person away....while thinking..."you just blew it" I am really good at being the fun loving life friend who is cool to hang out with....I am learning the "date" thing.....So right now, I dont do the "lets make a date thing" if I am intrigued and attracted to a guy....I will let them know where I am going to be and they can meet me there.....how many of you have been on a date where you played quarters at your table in the bar with your date??? I just did that and had an AMAZING time.....I am looking for the guy who sees when I am trying to push them away and doesnt let me......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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