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Vada, 47
United States, New Hampshire, Dover

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About Me

*All my pics are recent!!!~~~ I love life, I love my life!!! Hands down smiling everyday is just who I am. Easy going would best describe my personality, if your critical you need not apply for this position. I am looking for a smart, funny man who enjoys life. I would love to find someone who is not hung up on having everything planned or perfect, or his ex. Being able to just hang out and laugh, a 10. Being in the moment, not many get that. Attention to detail and being responsible, I am that. I would like us to compliment each other, nagging is not something I ever do, hope you won't either. Just sayin.. Communication is a must. I don't mind read, and I don't plan on learning. I would like to find a best friend to share my life with. I am looking for a committed, long term relationship with a very special person. A best friend who will be loyal, someone whom I can trust implicitly. And handsome would be good too.... Values, morals very important. Someone I can respect as well as adore... I have a lot to offer the right man, to fall in love with and really be there for each other. I will wait for the right one. Someone who is very loving, kind, forgiving, and secure. I find the best in each situation, and God is a huge part of that. I know who I am and how I became that. I am loyal, gentle, trustworthy, intelligent, silly, stable, and best of all real... No games!! Period. Come real, or don't come at all.. I hate drama so if your into it then no need to apply for this position. lol I want the love of my life, someone to run home to because there is nowhere else I would rather be than with him... :) I love a great personality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have four children, two still at home. They are amazing human beings. They are intelligent, genuine, truly hilarious at times. We spend a lot of time together hanging out with friends. Oh, and by the way all my pics are recent. What ya see is what you get. And a few other things:Know how to take a compliment. **Know that if you "forget" the meaning of monogamy - that you won't have time to look it up before I'm gone. **This is My Rule for the both of us: "Don't do anything somewhere else that you wouldn't do in front of each other".One more thing.. If you have no pictures on your profile you will not get a response, come on what is there to hide? And if your over my age range please.... Won't reply period... Just not my thing.. Sorry!!!! A gentleman, you are funny, a good listener as well as a conversationalist :)... You dress nicely, plan something fun for us to do... Smiling is always welcome, you are handsome, confident and sensitive. You are emotionally healthy, physically fit, you know what you want in life, your not hung up on yourself or your ex. LOL You enjoy life and don't shut people out. You share yourself with your significant other... Did I mention you are a super goof when it's appropriate? And your smile and eyes, to die for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Dance American Portuguese Shooting Sports
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  • Ronnette from Dover | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi,I'm good at procrastinating about filling out long essays about myself. Especially when all I really hope for is that my potential date find out about these things naturally. :)I like to make kids laugh and dogs wag their tails. I like to live simply and in a clean open space. I have never been married and don't have any children. The guy I'm looking for would be a true companion with his own interests and enjoy common interests with me such as finding that latest and greatest hole in the wall that has awesome comfort food, checking out that dive bar that is special only to us, art, architecture, exercise, sports and more. I've had an exciting and full life so far but I want more! Let's share it together. I'll let you plan that.

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  • Skuyler from Dover | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a Brit with a very strong accent ..a mix of Floerty and the queen ( he he)..I am a very sensual and energetic woman who just wants to enjoy as much of life as is possible. I usually prefer younger men,..and darker tones but I am open to anyone who does not take themselves overly seriously. I have a passion for music and language , my tastes in music range from Floerty, Sade ,The Roots, to Bach and Marvyn Gaye..I adore reggae and the old blues . I like to drift into the minds of people I meet and share the depths and joys of each other in all ways. I am a highly successful artist and I am in love with my work. In my middle years ..I feel younger now than ever , and seek the company of a man with energy and enthusiasm for life in all its realms. I dont need to be wined and dined , although that can be lovely , I adore cooking, and all the simple things we read about on these stange dating sites.I dont have a type in mind at this point, if it hits it hits . I am not really concerned about a place or activityas long as its not bungy jumping ..just somewhere where we can hear each other and which allows either of us to continue to chat and be freindly or move in even closer..A lounge in SF with cozy corners and firelight , or a bar with music ..I love the beach but not for a first date

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  • Russell from Dover | Woman | 46 years old | Pisces
    Russell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Pof booted me, why I don't know....use to be known at mzzattitude45....I'll finish my novel later. I now have time to finish my novel. My first profile was a one in a kind profile, pretty blunt down to the point and very much guarded. I have came to realize that in order to find someone to share your life with again, you have to let some of the guard down.First and foremost, I am completely honest. I do not deceive, I tell it like it is,and hold nothing back. When I describe myself, I am not kidding. Seriously I am a marshmallow....fluffy. I have no plans on changing who I am cause other than my issue with letting my guard down....I like me. I have also found that so many people proclaim their honesty yet fail to actually do what they proclaim....being honest. Its dating, be honest. If you meet someone and you have no romantic chemistry with this person....tell them, dont do the "fade out"....additionally, if you like someone....tell them. I believe that dating should have no games involved. I dont play games and do the whole hard to get thing, I really wish that many more adults followed the same philosophy. I live with no regrets, and I live like there is tomorrow. I enjoy laughing and will laugh at about anything. One of my greatest phrases is "its funny right" or "its freaking hilarious". I will attempt anything twice if I have the desire to do so, if not, Im not going to do something just because others want me to. I live for me. I am a VERY NON MATERIALISTIC PERSON, who doesnt see a person for what they have or where they live or how much they make, I see individuals....the person. The last thing I would want is for someone to judge me for what I have or dont have, what I make or where I live...I would want the same thing....to be seen for who I am. I cant stand rudeness. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor, and with all other aspects of my life, I dont hold it back. I am only rude to someone who is rude to me. On the flip side, my personality is unique. I definitely dance to a different drum....why would I want to be a person that is controlled by social restraints and wondering what others think or are willing to accept? Everyone has an opinion and the only one that matters to me is mine, all others are really none of my business. I am fun! Why be serious all the time? Why worry about what others think? Why live my life for others acceptance and not mine? I am not selfish in no way. When I am engaged in a relationship I am a very committed, trustworthy person. I am also very compassionate and caring to the person that I am with, as well as, their feelings and goals are just as important to me as mine are. I take the majority of things with a grain of salt....seriously....lets face it,,,,its life, and life isnt always fair. Life sometimes is painful and hurtful. Yet, life is also full of joy, laughter and craziness, times to be silly, times to just throw your hands up in the air and say....lets do this...and smile....lets face it....no one makes it out alive...so why not live it to the fullest. I am not easily offended unless its rude or crude, that I will not tolerate, and as a good blunt person that I am....will definitely put you in your place. There is a quote that I live every day "Dance like no one is watching" and I seriously dance like no one is watching....all the time, in a bar, in a club, in my car.....to give you a visual.........THATS HOW I DANCE....LITERALLY...and just like Phoebe....I dont care if anyone is watching me....its fun....and thats what a large portion of our lives should be about....fun....Here's a challenge for you....walk up to a random person and say "Beedo Beedo Beedo" like a minion from despicable me.....hilarious. Or when stuck in traffic due to construction when you get up to the dude holding the slow/stop sign say "well good morning oompa loompa" I've done both lolJUST TO CLARIFY....MY EYES ARE BROWN,,,EVERY OTHER COLOR OF MY EYES ARE COLOR CHANGING CONTACTS. I can't stand them,I try to avoid them and the awkwardness. I have had many messages regarding my views on first dates...so let me explain. Boy meets girl....girl and boy start to talk (GREAT), boy and girl find an attraction (DOUBLE GREAT) boy and girl decide to meet (TRIPLE GREAT)....they meet...they have an amazing time....then for some strange reason...the "fade out" happens (OH BUMMER) "Fade out" defined as....everything is wonderful and amazing...both talk for hours or text whatever, and then once the date happens and all the awkwardness involved and for some reason...the text become fewer and until they just fade away. BE HONEST....most people would love honesty versus dealing with "fade out". True story....I met a guy (from here) we talked for hours and hours and then we met...we were always completely honest with each other....what happened we found out that romantically it wasnt going to happen...but we enjoy each other and laughing.....and he is one of my good friends who I often text with "HELP I NEED MEN ADVICE....YOUR IT"...lol..Second reason why I hate first dates....I am a new fool in an old game...I really do not know how to do this. I hate the whole does he like me, is he going to call me again...etc...etc. which turns into blah blah blah....I make fun of women who are needy and you hear them saying "oh I really like him and Oh this and oh that"....seriously I want to hit them upside the head and say "WAKE UP" so meeting someone who intrigues me or I click with and I am attracted to....scares me.......and the only thing I know how to do...is run and push that person away....while thinking..."you just blew it" I am really good at being the fun loving life friend who is cool to hang out with....I am learning the "date" thing.....So right now, I dont do the "lets make a date thing" if I am intrigued and attracted to a guy....I will let them know where I am going to be and they can meet me there.....how many of you have been on a date where you played quarters at your table in the bar with your date??? I just did that and had an AMAZING time.....I am looking for the guy who sees when I am trying to push them away and doesnt let me......

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