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Myrl, 50

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About Me

Update: I have found a wonderful man on this site... Good luck to all those fishing out there! I'm off the market! :-)I am a relaxed woman, down to earth, calm and patient. Does that mean I don't have any pizzazz or a sassy side? Absolutely not! I have plenty of that! I have come to the time in my life where I am comfortable in my skin and that is liberating! I am the commander of my own ship, but that does not mean I don't play well with others.I am a dental assistant and enjoy interacting with people in the health field. Love my work, but am also always a work in progress.. There's so much to learn and enjoy!I love cooking a good meal, enjoying the process, drinking red wine while the meal is simmering and great conversation, good food takes time!Of course I love the beach and walking on it, but more so on an overcast or cloudy day, when there are no people. Setting out a blanket and reading and listening to the surf is delightful and my kind of simplistic heaven... same goes for a park under a shady tree!Sports are good... love cycling. I usually ride between ***Keeps my heart happy and healthy! And yes, I'm a girl, and I do yoga.. I know it's so cliche!Movies, books and music are great get aways for the mind. For music I rather unconventional for my age... I enjoy the newer stuff more than the older "timed" classics of my generation. I do have an affinity for big band, 20's,30's and 40's music. Classical is timeless! That's a bit about me! I think, unless one has taken some time to get to know the other person, the coffee/tea date is a good start. Usually the setting is quiet, so the two can get to know one another, without too many distractions. After that, whatever the two decide to plan.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dung

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Honestly, I have been on and off this site a zillion times. I was married for 20 years and have been divorced for 4. I had no idea what dating at this time in life would be like - I was NOT prepared. I was used to being the mom and wife and I was good at it. I knew my role and how things were supposed to go - this single, dating thing - I still don't get it. Here is what I do know. I don't want to grow old alone. I want a companion to share my life with. I want to find someone who is as curious and interested in knowing everything about me as I am about them. Someone who listens as much as he talks. Someone who knows what he is feeling and thinking and, if he feels it is important, says it straight forward and lets the chips fall where they may. Someone who let's it go when we agree to let it go. Someone who is a stand up guy - who cares about the less fortunate and doesn't need to put others down to feel good about himself. Someone who's eyes aren't constantly scanning the room when I am sitting there looking for the next shiny nickel and keeping his options open by NOT deleting his online profile when he is telling me I'm the one he wants to be with or constantly online when we supposedly have a great first few dates and seem to be hitting it off, if we aren't and I am confused then just stop telling me differently, I am a big girl and can handle the let down cause I'm probably on the fence about you too but am going to give you a chance before I line up the next 10.... anyone out there getting this yet?My apologies if I appear a bit jaded but guys there are many of you out there who are not very cool. They treat good women like me crappy and make it harder for you authentic, caring, loyal, honest, real men to find the good women who do exist out here. I am an adventurous, compassionate, loving, responsible, intelligent, kind, forgiving, sensual, sexy, funny woman. I am a good catch and deserve the best treatment and I'm not going to settle for less. If you are Mr. Nice guy and think we have some things in common (see below) send me a message. It will be worth your time. If you are not, please don't waste mine.

  • Audra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Loving, caring woman with a great sense of humor. What I'm looking for: Someone who is kind, honest, loving and can make me laugh. You are stable and secure in your life. Someone who has time to be in a relationship and spend quality time with one another. I enjoy Action, comedies,drama and thrillers. I like to go listen to a live band, Dancing, Shoot Pool, shopping, vacations, walks, dining out, relaxing by the pool in the summer. I also enjoy relaxing at home watching a good movie, snuggling on the couch with "the right one". My Favorite foods are Mexican, Italian,Chinese and Chocolate. :) I like Classic rock, easy listening, and pop music. My pics are current. I expect the same courtesy. Somewhere we can talk and get to know one another.

  • Lux

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hard to know where to start after reading some of your profiles. It looks like most have 48 hour days with all they accomplish on a regular basis. My days only have 24 hours, and between being a full-time single mom to a teen-ager, and have a full-I'm pretty happy with my life - but could be better if I had someone to share it with. I enjoy a wide range activities, time permitting. A weekend in Tahoe, skiing or just enjoying the nature up there. Likewise, a day by the ocean, or a day sailing on the bay. A camping trip to Lake Berryessa and some boating is not bad, either. All things I enjoy, but admittedly it has been while since I had a chance to do it. I treasure family but unfortunately I live far away from mine so I don't get to see them often. That's why I like the saying "friends become our chosen family" and I do have my chosen family here in the area. I enjoy going out for dinner, and I enjoy cooking dinner at home, too, especially when I have someone to cook for. Or someone to share the cooking with. I also believe in a healthy life style - without being fanatic. Everything in moderation. With a little more time on my hands, I'm now back in the gym and have started with a personal trainer 2x a week. I sure feel it, but boy, does it feel great to be back!I'm looking for someone who has a job, is educated, and for the most part is happy with his life - but as me looking for someone to share it with. Great if you have children - then you understand that aspect of life, and it's ok if they live at home, as I have one living at home. I understand how it can make things a bit more complicated when it comes to time.Oh, a big must is you have to live in the area. I'm not interested in pen pals.Hope to hear from you!!! Let's grab some coffee and then walk the trails - or meet for a drink. In any case -something casual.

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