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AvrilOnline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Hello! If you send me a "Meet Me" notice "please" put in the extra effort to read my profile, and at the very least say "hello". Btw, your profile AND pics do matter. Let's be real. Personality,chemistry, and attractiveness are important to everyone. So shouldn't our pics attempt to capture our personality, spirit, and physical appearance in a flattering light? I'm a size 14 woman (average in today's standards). If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask me. My pics are ALL recent and all my dates say I look like my pics and some have commented I look better in person. I have been exercising ***times a wk *** the gym for a few yrs now and I'm toning up and slowing taking off my extra weight. I prefer someone with similar goals and qualities and who already lives an active, healthy, "balanced" lifestyle. Someone who's fun, attractive, energetic, sociable, passionate, and enjoys playing sports,but also knows how to relax and have fun! LOL! In a nutshell, I'm looking for my best friend and undeniable chemistry. :-) My match is a fun, honest, playful, sensual, confident, attractive, affectionate, gentleman who communicates well and can stay positive and hopeful through life's challenges. Someone who is kind, passionate, and grateful for the positive things in life. I'm not looking to change anyone or to be changed. I'm just looking for that special connection when you just understand each other and have that amazing spark to go with it! As a fun, playful, vivacious, content, easy-going, passionate, feisty lady, I enjoy a wide variety of outdoor/indoor sports and charity/social events. Everything from wallyball, racquetball, swimming, golfing, skiing to fine dining at a restaurant, or organizing dinner for family and friends at home, followed a glass of wine by the fireplace or fire pit. In addition, I love art, museums, theater, ballet,and classical concerts (esp.Bach and Mozart). I love music and my musical tastes vary from Hip Hop/R&B to Country to Classical. In addition,I love to dance, everything from Hip/Hop to Salsa to Swing. I'm not a big sports fan, but love to cheer for family and friends' little ones. I enjoy many types of ethnic food, especially Portuguese cuisine, and I love a man who loves to cook together! lol. Even though I haven't watched TV in *** a year, who would turn down cuddling while watching a great movie?? A little about me: I've worked since the age of 16, managed businesses since 18, and have everything I need, along with 2 beautiful older teenagers (17, and 19). I was married for 23 yrs and very recently became divorced, however I'm happy,whole, drama-free, and completely ready to give and experience love whole-heartly with the right person. If that doesn't describe your heart and your mental state of mind, please don't waste my time or yours. I have absolutely no interest in a rebound relationship, booty calls, or hookups, not because I'm looking to rush into marriage, but because I'm confident the "best love and passion" is achieved in a monogamous, loving relationship with great communication. Let's make this easy. If you're interested in getting to know me better, send me a short note and let's meet for a tea/coffee or glass of wine for *** 30 mins within the wk. Best case scenario; we hit it off. Worse case scenario; we become friends and increase our social circles. I strongly believe the best way to get know someone is to be friends first, and see where it goes from there. I'm a fun,honest, classy lady, with much love, affection, and laughter to offer to the right man. Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light! Paula :-) Chatting over a glass of wine or coffee and tea, to determine if we have a spark, along with common interests and goals. :-)
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WendiOnline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am a professional artist with a studio practice and also teach university. As someone who lives passionately and creatively, I'm a lot of fun to be with, and enthusiastic about all that's new in the world. I'm a self-starter, as an artist I have to be! and like people who know themselves and actively seek what they want. I'm very curious, about people, places, and love adventure and exploring both nature and urban environments. I've traveled to many exotic and interesting places and am hungry to travel more with someone who shares my sense of curiousity and adventure. I seek out unique and beautiful natural landscapes, archaeological sites, urban centers of art and culture. I bike and swim in the ocean almost every day, love to dance and horseback ride, kayak and paddleboard. I am always happy to be introduced to something I've never done before, and want to be challenged, courted, nurtured and love for you to make me laugh. It is important to me that we can be authentic together, no games or intimacy issues, please! I love discussing politics, a good chewy intellectual conversation about the state of being in the universe, whether you prefer milk or dark chocolate, what you like to cook, what section of the Sunday NY Times you start with......I'm very loving and affectionate, like to do yoga and give/receive massage.....I believe that touching makes us happier. What really impresses me is someone who is thoughtful and interesting enough to plan something, pick me up, and show me who he is in a natural way. It almost doesn't matter what we do, whether it is a daytime exploration, dinner, sitting by the water having a mojito and making up stories about all the other people, or walking on the beach and talking.I want to feel that when I see you and we begin to get to know each other, that excitement starts and you know you are already looking forward to the next date. I want to laugh together at the absurdness of the world, to share family stories, to feel like we can be the true selves we are and better because of knowing each other.
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NyaOnline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Crap. How do I sound charming, witty and fascinating? That's an awful lot of work, and I feel fairly certain I could only carry it off for about 23 minutes. I guess I will just be me *** at an interesting place in my life. My husband and I are separating. It's been an ongoing process for a while, but we are legally staying together in order to settle our finances and sell our home. It sucks and is pretty annoying to end a marriage. I wish there was something less painful, like bamboo being shoved under my nails, or being seared with a branding iron. But I never luck out that way.All that aside, from an emotional standpoint, things are changing for us. We are good friends and will always be, but I think our passion and desire for each other have left the building. Nothing says "Hey my marriage is down the toilet" more than being separated and on an online dating site. I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. I'm in the process of losing weight, so I am pursuing a healthy lifestyle, eating and exercise wise. I have posted a recent, full length picture. I like to be upfront about my size. I understand that we are all attracted to different things. I'm not a 24 year old model. Never have been one, never will. I hope that at this point in my life the most interesting and memorable thing about me is not how I look. I am shooting for reaching a normal weight as I want to be healthy and active for as long as I can. Right now Im a size ***. Sometimes men don't get sizes...I don't like using cute phrases like "I'm curvy" or "I'm big and beautiful". I'm overweight, not happy about it and trying to change it. If you aren't attracted to larger women, then my pretty face and beautiful lips won't make a difference. And as we are on a "fish" site there are plenty of thinner fish out there if that's what you want!:)In short, I'd like to have fun. I'd like to define "having fun". It doesn't mean having a one night stand or that you should contact me to just hook up. Although I'm not looking for anything really serious...I'm not looking for meaningless sex either. That also does not mean that I want to wait 6 months for you to hold my hand. I like things to happen naturally...there is no specific time or pressure on when that should be. Im not a nun. I like sex, I would like it on a regular basis with the right person. I'm not just wanting to date for the stimulating conversations on world politics!I can't deny that I like to kiss. A lot. So...friendship with tongue? Is that a thing?I love to talk with people, but please note that the only pictures I have or will send are exactly like the ones in my profile! ;)UPDATE: I have been out here for about 6 weeks. I have met some really cool people. I have been contacted by some odd people. I have learned that younger men have either watched American Pie or the Graduate and think that all women over the age of 40 are Cougars. I'm going to be honest. I'm probably not bendy enough or flexible enough to do what you think you want to do with me. Unless you are going to pay for my massage and chiro visits after, its probably not going to happen. Sure, you are super fun to look at, and I would like to touch you. It would be fun. But I doubt we could have the kind of conversations that I like to have. I have a 26 year old daughter...so my gut feeling is the first time you smart mouthed me, I would want to ground you or take away the car keys. But, if you are SUPER smart and realize I am not going to be twisted around like Gumby, go ahead and contact me. ;)UPDATE 2: I have been out here a little over 3 months. There are times that I think meetville stands for "Plenty of Freaks"...but there are just enough, nice normal people that its worthwhile. The thing that I'm most happy with, is that I have been able to make some friends. Not everyone is a love connection, but some people are pretty cool...so cool that you enjoy them for their company and you realize that quality time with someone doesn't have to be a big romance. I think people forget the value of there being no pressure...and just having fun. Im still in the drama of divorce crap...so me finding "the one" probably isn't going to happen for a while. In the mean time, I'd like to meet interesting and fun people. Life is too short to not have fun. So for now, my eyeballs are in tact and I forge ahead... Let's wear berets and smoke those smelly french cigarettes and eat a lot of cheese. OROption 2: Probably a coffee date. Just hanging out, talking and seeing if we are compatible. I'm not that picky about someone's looks, although I do prefer someone who is clean and pulled together. For me, it is all about personality and conversation.