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Jalyn, 46

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About Me

I am a people person. I'm quite social and enjoy meeting new people. My friends say that I'm easy to talk too. That is probably because I tend to be genuinely interested in other people so I ask questions. I moved to the area four years ago during my divorce. I enjoy people, movies, gardening, dancing and community and a variety of other things. I like many different types of music. And I like to sing karaoke (don't judge me.:)) It has been much longer than I would like to admit since I've have been on a real date. It's gotta be just like riding a bike though, right? I'm just open to whatever comes next. I'm kind of excited about it. It's just the next part of the adventure.... Much of my life at this point revolves around getting my children through to adulthood successfully. I moved them to a small town because It is a great way to grow up. I am basically just trying to be as present for them as possible. I see that as the best way to avoid the pitfalls that trip up so many young people. They participate in many sports and hope to get involved in other activities that small town or country living allows for. Having said all that, I am ready to have adult companionship in my life again. I would like to travel a bit more and I look forward to having someone to get away for the weekend with. I would love to find someone that would go on walks w/ me. It seems like such a small thing but is something I would really appreciate. Now I am looking forward to finding someone I really connect with. And if along the way I find some good friends, all the better. We'll figure it out.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hassie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ~ Its crazy that cyber~dating is just like going for a job interview; Such a sales pitch. After my first attempt to swim around in this pond, I took a break from the "catch and release" that was happening. So Im back to the watering hole to see what might come of it .....Alright , I'll give a few adjectives to describe myself ~. Im intuitive, a good communicator (I've learned the art of listening), Im relational, social, affectionate, sensative, hardworking, opinionated, silly/playful, intentional, adventurous, generous, creative productive, tranparent, forgiving, nurturing. I love the laid back livestyle where i live here on Whidbey Island ~ I enjoy what island living has to offer, kayaking out to the mussel beds to see the resident seals, beautiful hikes along the cliffs at Ebeys Landing, beachcombing and rock picking on our shores. My exercise of choice is hiking, walking, & swimming. Health and nutrition are important to me. Cooking is a pleasure. Its an art form, since I rarely follow a recipe. I have a small garden. Eventhough Im not an "over the top" greenie, i get into recycling, composting and generally attempting to minimize and simplify. its turned into a kind of purposeful hobby. Im also an aspiring writer. Im working on a book and a memoir for my kids. I studied interior design *** My home is a reflection of my creativity.My 2 youngest are still in my nest and my 3 goregous, accomplished older daughters are young adults, living their lives. All of my kids amaze me. wherever we are or whoever we are with, people constantly tell me the impression they've made, and how interesting and enjoyable they are. I could never accomplish a greater goal than to produce and raise such wonderful human beings. I love being a mom ~ I love being their mom!Well guys, thats me in a nutshell ~Please do me the courtesy to 1st be fiscally and relationally responsible ( by that I mean, that past loves and family relationships are reconciled and cleaned up) and please be employed ~ I have that in place and would appreciate the sameNot that I have a criteria that is set on stone. I've never had a "Type" when it comes to men, but there are some qualities in a man that really "get me". ~ a masculine, strong, sexy voice~ the rugged, casual type , but underneath the sweat of his brow, you can see that he cleans up nicely~ the comfortable, cuddly type ~ i feel easy in his presence , & everybody else doesa hint ~ real ladies are responders not initiators. Be the man, take the lead. Let us real women be the woman we want to be ~ if we are interested, we will always respond to every and all of your advances, but we wait for you to make the moves. Its not a feminine qualitiy in my book to pursue, but its to be pursued in the courting stages. More times than not, you guys end up with some trouble from women who take the mans role, but I realize with "womens lib" , its now the norm, and men expect women to be a part of the pursuing process So if you are waiting for the a lady to get a hold of you, make the first move, or keep the ball rolling, you may be missing an opportunity to be with the right kind of feminine women. ~For what its worth~ A cafe or restaurant with a cozy corner where we can visit and get to know each other. if we still would like to let the time linger because things are going well, it would be nice if we were located near an area where we could take a walk around. This is conventional enough so that one of us could leave if its not working out, but if it is, there are other options

  • Jaye

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have a full, fun, friend-filled life, and I would really like to share it with a compatible man. I have a career I'm really passionate about, but I am not a workaholic, and I highly value my off-duty time. I have two teenagers who live with me half time, which provides balance and a lot of flexibility.I am looking for someone who would enjoy hiking on a Saturday afternoon, walking the beach on a Friday evening, or hitting a new movie and cool restaurant downtown. I am equally comfortable in running shoes or a little black dress.I am 49, but I feel younger than that, and I have friends of all ages. I tend to have more in common with men who are a few years younger than I am. I am an optimist with a wry sense of humor. I'm articulate and have a talkative side, but I have a quiet side to me as well. I am active and fit, but not manic about keeping busy. I enjoy a glass of wine and home cooked dinner, especially on a cold, rainy night. I feel there is enough pressure on a first date without making a huge commitment, so an after work glass of wine or beer is ideal. Pick one of your favorites or a new restaurant/pub you would like to check out, or leave it to me to choose the place.

  • Clarabella

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I now work in Ft.Myers.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~JUST LOOKING FOR A NORMAL GUY TO LOVE AND MAKE HAPPY.Please local only.PLEASE, NO MORE LIES ABOUT THE AGE. 15 YEARS IS 15 YEARS! WE SEE YOU!!I AM A GREAT LISTENER. DON'T TALK ABOUT THE EX. THE PAST IS THE PAST. I ONLY LOOK FORWARD. ALL IS GOOD.MY SON IS LEAVING FOR THE NAVY IN 9 MONTHS. HE'S A GREAT KID.I HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF A FEW TIMES. DON'T LET IT CLOUD YOUR JUDGEMENT. I DO NOT LIVE ON HERE. I HAVE A LIFE,:}IF MY CELL APP IS ON, I PROBABLY AM NOT. SO, LEAVE A MESSAGE AND I'LL GET TO IT.THANKS FOR YOUR TIME,XXOOProfile was hacked several months ago. Good move on my point to weed out the crazies on here. Unfortunately, messages were sent out on my behalf that were nasty. I didn't see them, I didn't send them.LOCAL ONLY PLEASE. I DO NOT TRAVEL.HAVE WORKED 80% OF MY LIFE. AND STILL DO. SOMEWHERE OTHER THAN A BAR OR NIGHTCLUB.MET WITH A SINGLE FLOWER GENERALLY SETS A GOOD MOOD FOR THE FIRST MEETING. CAMPIELLOS, CAPITAL GRILL, BRIO, BRAVO, TRULUCKS.JUST MEET FOR A GLASS OF WINE.MAYBE DINNER ON THE SECOND DATE IF ALL GOES WELL.I'M A BIG GRILLING OUT FAN.AND I HAVE AN AWESOME GRILL. DOWN THE ROAD. I GET A LOT OF OUT OF TOWN RESPONSES LOOKING FOR A DINNER DATE.I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A PART TIME DEAL.....:}

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