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Tobi, 48
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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Let’s start by making things simple, just hanging out together and see if we click!I love the outdoors hiking, camping, fishing, rafting and riding motorcycles. I don’t have my own bike but I did get my endorsement. I’m up to new adventures and am willing to try almost anything within reason. Lol…. My favorite things are hanging out with my friends and family I enjoy cooking and creating new dishes especially when they turn out yummy!!! hahahaaa…. I love to snuggle on the couch watching a good movie go for a walk and best of all holding hands! I love when my man reaches down and grabs my hand announcing to the world that I’m his girl!!! :)I’m a very positive, happy, outgoing person without drama or craziness. I grew up in a small town with good family values and tend to be a bit old fashion. I have a wonderful family that I adore. We spend a lot of time together having barbeques, going on family vacations and camping. I want someone in my life to share these special times with. When it comes down to what I’m really looking for it’s like this…. “I’m not looking for a perfect man I’m looking for the perfect man for me!” A man who believes in himself with decent morals, he is honest, and has integrity. Someone I can tell all my secrets to and who knows I will keep his secrets safe in return. Who will be my best friend who I can honor and cherish and he will treat me with respect that is not weighed down by jealousy or insecurities! ... At this point of my life my children are grown and I am ready to find someone special who I can cherish and grow old with….. Don’t worry I’m not living in lala land lmao…. All you have to be is willing and wanting to reach the same goal. I thought this was pretty Funny lmao......Words men should know that women use!1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. 3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. 4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! 5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.) 6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. 7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. 8. Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F**K YOU! 9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3. 10. Because: Women use this whenever they don't feel like explaining something so the best thing to do is figure it out on your own.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello,Thanks for stopping by to read about me. I am going to give this a try as I know many people that have connected this way and it developed into a wonderful relationship.My philosophy is to “Live life with an Open Heart and see what happens”.I am a fun loving, down to earth young at heart woman. I do not need a man in my life but would like one as I know that I feel better, am healthier and happier in a relationship. I like to look after ‘my guy’ with affection and kindness and share about our life, goals and dreams.You will see that I have taken some time to list my interests. If you do contact me I would hope that you have read them so that when you e-mail you can tell me why you decided to contact me out of all the beautiful women on here. (Sorry, I won’t respond if there is no content to what we have in common or if there are no pictures)About me:I do not have children; it just did not happen for me. I do share my life, home and heart with my dogs. They are so much Fun!!I believe all intimacy is meant for one but try my best to please the person who I am sharing my life with. There is nothing more Sexy than a man that honours his wedding ring and talks fondly of his partner when she is not there.I was married for 16 years, took the first year on my own to get set up - then dated the first man I met for two years. I'm a 'keeper'.I am not needy or jealous - why would I be if the man I was with made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room and couldn't wait to get me home.I love being a woman but you could and would find me at a truck rally or motorcycle race. I owned my first motorcycle at 8 and have driven in a NASCAR at the Daytona 500!!I look like my pictures and hope you do too? You could literally pick me out at the grocery store and tap me on the shoulder to say ‘hello’. I will never be ‘skinny’, I’m too ‘curvy’ for that. I am proportional in height, size and ‘assets’. About you:I do like my guys a little on the husky/rugged side and do picture myself with someone in their 40’s but if you have a matching ball cap for every outfit or if you think wearing pj bottoms in public is ‘ok’ I don’t think you are for me.You should also feel comfortable throwing gear in the car for a camping trip or getting dressed up to try out a new restaurant.I guess it’s the ‘loafers to little black dress’ men have for women only my ‘man version’.You will have to live within HRM or at least within driving distance so that we can get to know each other and see if there is the possibility of creating and building a healthy, balanced relationship.You must have a job/career or some means of living a life that we would both enjoy. With that we would be able to travel, enjoy fun adventures and get out to try new food and restaurants.If you have made it to the bottom of this and still interested I can’t wait to hear from you as I am looking for healthy/balanced and it just may be you!! How it all works for me:On line meeting/dating is harder and anyone would imagine.I compare it to meeting your Mother’s next door neighbour’s newly divorced cousin.Remember when she would drag out a picture at the kitchen table and tell you how great he is? Only to find out he actually still lives with his Mother.It would be wonderful to meet at a party or b’bque and share glances from across the room and ask your host if they were married or in a relationship. To finally get up the courage to talk to them and casually look down to see if they were wearing a ring. To think about them when you get home if the conversation went well.That rarely happens today. Life, love and relationships are too complicated.So, we all find ourselves here.If we do connect with pictures and e-mails from there I do ‘walk and talk’. We would meet at a neutral public location for a 15 minute walk and see if we would like to continue into a nice place for a drink.That would be it for ‘first meet’. We would then both go home and decide together if there was enough chemistry to go on a ‘Date”!!Note: if I like your pictures and am intrigued by your profile but you are younger than me – I will add you to my ‘favourites’ and then you can decide to message.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am honest, silly,sarcastic and quick witted. Ask me a question and I will tell you the honest to goodness truth, so be careful what you ask. I have a wonderful life filled with the best family and friends. My friends tell me I look young for my age and I look better in person than I do in pictures. I don't need someone to save me, fix me or pay my bills. I want someone who will be my friend, partner in crime and if it all works out lover. I love to bake when I am in the kitchen I have the music up loud and you will find me dancing and singing in a spoon, care to join? I know how to behave in any situation and I play well with others. I love to dress up, and I look great in any one of the little black dresses that I own. I am comfortable in my favorite jeans and a baseball hat and I am not afraid of getting dirty as I have three boys who keep me on my toes. I don't have any thing to hide, what you see is what you get. I am a hopeless romantic, yes I still believe in happy ever after. I enjoy leaving notes for you around the house, in your jacket pocket, under the wiper of your car. I like to let the peroson I am with know that I am thinking about him. I am very affectionate if you are close to me I will be touching you, if I walk past you I will reach out and touch you as you pass. If you are not comfortable with that, please do not cotact me. I have gone weak in the knees from a good kiss...it was the most amazing feeling in the world, would love to find that again. OH and this should go with out saying...I have kids, we are a package deal. If you are interested drop me a line. Happy Fishing!!! :) First date, it really depends on the season. I really am not fond of the cold weather so if it were winter I guess it would be coffee at Starbucks in front of the fire. Summer.....a nice walk along the waterfront just before sunset.

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