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Hi :)I made some major changes and adjustments to my life over three years ago that brought some happy and some not so happy moments but in the end I am where I need to be for me. I am a strong stable woman who "thinks" she knows what she wants and where she is going but in the end who really knows. I am interested in finding that someone special, that someone who is just perfect for me and who i am perfect for. Everyone says "he" is out there so I thought I would look and see if "he" is here on this dating site. I enjoy adventure as well as quite times. I have a love for animals and fresh air. I can play in the mud and can clean up well for an evening out. I have two kids who are 20 and 18 and are working on "their" futures so it must be time for me to start working on mine. I do know I don't want to go from the excitement of a first "real" date to bored with each other in a few weeks. Call me a bit old fashion but I would like to find someone who believes in courting a woman, preferable forever.I have all my "ducks in a row" and now want to find that special someone to laugh and enjoy life adventures and the day-to-day stuff with. Pretty open for suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Catarina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I want to start off with this statement. I DO NOT indulge in sexual relations before marriage, so if that is what you are looking for, you can just move on. If so, let me down easily, because I am still searching for that man that is out there!Thirdly, I do have kids under 18, but they live with their dad (there wasn't an option to say they don't live with me). They are 12 and 15. 7th and 10th graders. Not in grade school anymore, yay!Outdoors are fun to explore, even in the winter. I love to camp, fish (even if I don't catch anything), try new restaurants that I hear have good food, or just find out on my own.Do you like to cook? I like to learn new recipes, or make up things myself. How about you? I have a Vitamix, and it is fun to see what kind of concoction one might find tasty, and occasionally find out the not so tasty ones, ha! Where are you? Isn't there some well-educated guy, who doesn't feel intimidated, but wants a sweet lady in their life? I have a sense of humor, am a good listener, and do not like to gossip like most women, nor do I have some time-consuming hobbies like crafting, or some side business, though I am thinking of starting up some oil painting. I used to watercolor, and sketch with charcoal, and now I am ready to move onto the harder stuff. Any pointers?I like to bake, but don't want to be the only one to eat it. (hint hint)Own my own place, have a reliable job, own my own car, kids live with their dad, so I am open to looking for the perfect mate.I am unique because I am hard of hearing, but with my hearing aids, I am able to hear quite well, and speak as though you would never know. I grew up with deaf parents. ( I enjoy together time more, though. ) Music is important to me, and I enjoy listening to uplifting songs that edify the Lord. The old hymns are nice occasionally, but I prefer to hear songs that are more contemporary, such as Our God is an Awesome God, versus Trust and Obey. I know that God wants us to trust and obey, and I love to sing songs that make me feel excited about praising and serving Him.I like being with people who can know when to laugh if there is a problem, and not be too serious; to step back and look at the big picture. Do we REALLY want to fight over spilled milk? I don't like to complain, but focus on building up one another.I want to relax and listen to someone, and be able to interject without them thinking I am interrupting.Intelligence is important to me, but intellectualism isn't what I am looking for.How about you ? Tell me a little about yourself that relates to me, if you may? Have fun getting to know each other in a quiet venue, such as a small cafe. I am open to anything.A ball game would be fun, too! =)Or perhaps a movie, and then dinner?If you attend a church nearby, I'd love to go with you as well.=)Just a side note, for those who think being "religious" is negative... I agree with this statement I found online:Religion is something that has been passed on from generation to generation. It requires a system to be followed or else there will be consequences. These religions distract us from the real truth. The truth that you don’t need rituals to be spiritual, all you need is God.Many people go to church and profess to be spiritual; however, many do not possess the kingdom. They do not operate in kingdom principles. The scripture clearly says to seek first the kingdom of God, and then the “things” will be added unto you. How many Bible-believing, church-going, Holy Ghost-filled people do you know living in lack, poor health, poverty and sadness? However, this is contrary to the system that God established in the beginning. It is vital to develop a kingdom mindset if you want to reign as Christ in the earth. You have to begin to walk in victory and talk in victory. You have to live the kingdom and understand that the kingdom of God is within you. -by Bishop E.

  • Lily

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have learned to be fine on my own but would delight in the chance to be with a good man who seeks the Lord for wisdom. I am strong and capable, successful in business and social circles, but never obsessed with these things; always dreaming of a wonderful partnership with you. I love: ballroom dancing, cooking (did that professionally for 20+yrs.), working out, great music (especially black gospel), wine, home remodeling, dogs, good friends & making new ones, my business, learning about world affairs and politics, dressing up, and your strong arms. walk down the street in my local small, suburban town after and hour or so of connecting at a local spot.

  • Janna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a man who is honest, and doesn't play head games. I also like a sense of humor, as long as it's not insulting or degrading. I live alone with my two adorable cats. I can not have kids, but doesn't mind the man having children, since I love children, and I am very good with them.I love to sing, and also like to visit parks and beaches in the summer, of course. I also love boating. I got my safety boating license in ***. And, I'm also a big animal lover.My friends who know me well, say I'm a good person, and I feel I am too, but I am at a point in my life where I don't take any crap.I would like to meet someone who wants to be with one woman, not a bunch at once, and who doesn't have a bad temper. I also want to meet someone who doesn't confuse me by being warm and fussy one minute, then cold the next. He also must not be too hard on the eyes.I like a different variety of music, but not into rap. I want to be friends with someone first, to get to know them, and not rush into a relationship. If things work out, then that would be great, if not, then meeting new friends to hang with, would be awesome too. P.S. I WILL NOT ADD ANY PERVERTS TO MSN JUST SO THEY CAN WEBCAM ME THEIR PRIVATE PARTS!!!! HAVE SOME RESPECT, MEN!!! Message me if you want to know more.

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