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Elwanda, 50

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About Me

Hi :)I made some major changes and adjustments to my life over three years ago that brought some happy and some not so happy moments but in the end I am where I need to be for me. I am a strong stable woman who "thinks" she knows what she wants and where she is going but in the end who really knows. I am interested in finding that someone special, that someone who is just perfect for me and who i am perfect for. Everyone says "he" is out there so I thought I would look and see if "he" is here on this dating site. I enjoy adventure as well as quite times. I have a love for animals and fresh air. I can play in the mud and can clean up well for an evening out. I have two kids who are 20 and 18 and are working on "their" futures so it must be time for me to start working on mine. I do know I don't want to go from the excitement of a first "real" date to bored with each other in a few weeks. Call me a bit old fashion but I would like to find someone who believes in courting a woman, preferable forever.I have all my "ducks in a row" and now want to find that special someone to laugh and enjoy life adventures and the day-to-day stuff with. Pretty open for suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ardith

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hair color comes in a box. ......I am a honest, down to earth person. I’ve suffered all the same bumps and bruises we all have, in life, and in raising three kids to adulthood. So life now I can live to the fullest . What am I looking for? A mutual attraction ,well put together, and Honest male. I know we all think, we are attractive , lord knows I'm guilty of this too.A partner in life, someone I can *share * my life with. I tell the truth, also wear my hearts on my sleeve, so if I get a heart string pulled I will let you know. What you see is what you get. I will answer your questions if you want to know something, honestly. Any sex questions would be left for my partner and I to speak about privately. I only have this one body, face, and life, so I do what I can to keep it, youthful. Looking for a mate, who thinks the same, and will become my friend, my lover, my dance partner for life. As for that statement I’m not fat. AlsoI don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach.... I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me.... I eat food..... I have curves..... I might have more fat than I should.... I have scars because I have a history.... Some people love me, some like me, some hate me.... I have done good.... I have done bad.... I love my PJ's and I go out without make-up and sometimes I don't get my hair done.... I'm random and crazy.... I don't pretend to be someone I'm not.... I am who I am, you can love me or not.... I won't change!! And if I love you, I do it with my whole heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am... I am a SEXY Lady in all sense of the word. And we all have our flaws.And yes I do work out.Don’t be someone’s down-time, spare-time, part-time or sometime. If they can’t be there for you all the time, then they’re not worth your time.POEMTo laugh is to risk appearing the foolTo weep is to risk being called sentimentalTo reach out is to risk involvementTo expose feeling is to risk showing your true selfTo place your ideas and dreams before the crowd is to risk being called naiveTo love is to risk not being loved in returnTo live is to risk dyingTo hope is to risk despairTo try is to risk failureBut risks MUST be taken-- because the Greatest risk in lifeis to risk nothingThe person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothingand becomes nothing.They may avoid suffering and sorrowBut they simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and liveChained by their servitude, the slaves have forfeited this freedomOnly the person who risks...is Truly free.-- Anonymous Bucket lists Finish my schooling, in the Law field,*got accepted * ACT in a movie or T.V series....*DONE*!!so far have done(Call me Fitz,s3ep9aired (MR.On April ***background for the Trailer park Boys movie III (Don’t legalize it)Go skydivingFinish what I started and (get my Black belt)in AIKIDOFinish Baby Barn ...(done)Redo do inside of house, paint ,Doors, landscape.E,I, Cape BretonLive for today, Today is my day..DO EVERYTHING THAT I WAS AFRAID TO DO WHILE RAISING MY KIDSspend the rest of my life enjoying this with maybe (YOU)!Would love to see the yuk,yuks HAPPY FISHINGjust a thoughtCourage is a Mastery of fear ,not absence of fear.Obstacles are what you see when you lose sight of your goals What lies behind us, and what lies before us, are small matters compare to what lies in front of us.Don't judge anybody before you check yourself out.You're lucky when it's your fault because you can correct the situation.Do what you can, where you are, with what you have.Find out what you want and learn how to ask for it Stay honest with yourself*unknown*" TRUST YOUR HEART IF THE SEAS CATCH FIRELIVE BY LOVEWHERE THE STARS WALKBACKWARDS"BY D.E.....)I KNOW HE'S OUT THERE WE JUST HAVEN'T FOUND EACH OTHER YET ;) First Date " A promise means everything, but once broken, Sorry mean's nothing" unknownOn my first date I would love to meet or go out to dinner , to get to know the other person. Or what is agreed on by both parties (I can pay my own way) P.S. not a big fan of Tim HortonNOW IF I HAD SHARES IN TIM’S!!!I have made some nice friends on here, we didn't match but enjoyed our time, so if anything friends are always welcomed!HAPPY FISHING!! :)You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation;trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened...or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f*** on.

  • Audra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Loving, caring woman with a great sense of humor. What I'm looking for: Someone who is kind, honest, loving and can make me laugh. You are stable and secure in your life. Someone who has time to be in a relationship and spend quality time with one another. I enjoy Action, comedies,drama and thrillers. I like to go listen to a live band, Dancing, Shoot Pool, shopping, vacations, walks, dining out, relaxing by the pool in the summer. I also enjoy relaxing at home watching a good movie, snuggling on the couch with "the right one". My Favorite foods are Mexican, Italian,Chinese and Chocolate. :) I like Classic rock, easy listening, and pop music. My pics are current. I expect the same courtesy. Somewhere we can talk and get to know one another.

  • Antonina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    No pic, No Chat... Fair is Fair... *those who cant post their pics public can hide n send in a message, just that easy*... Please dont be adding me to your favs list if you have no intention of communicating with me . I will just end up deleting your add,. .Looking for a Gentlemen, one who knows how to treat a lady like a lady..someone who knows how to be romantic Beauty is not written on your skin, it's written on your heart. I know there are men out there who love a full figured woman,where are you hiding?.lol Ive talked to and met some nice guys, some not so nice, even had the pleasure of telling some where to go and where to get off.I dont put up with BS,games or liars. I have a heart of gold and when I give it ,I give it all in a relationship.I put out what i expect to get back which is.. Love, Respect, honesty, caring , romance and trust.I am looking for someone who returns these and is looking for the same thing.- I like men with meat on their bones,- someone to hug and cuddle with.-Someone who makes my heart flutter and my stomach have butterfles when I look into their eyes.-A romantic-A gentlemen-A non smoker (if possiable)-And no drug users.-So this is me, -I am a young looking 45 yr old -with a great smile,dimples -and blue eyes , -am very outgoing -and have a great sence of humor.-I have a Full time job, -my own car, and love to drive, -I hate spiders,liars and dishonest people,im a lover not a fighter.. .I have travelled some not a whole lot, I was to phillipines in ***was quite the experience.People were very friendly and it was so hot there. i spent 6 weeks ~~first date~~~~, wouldnt call it that , .. maybe coffee(tea) or wine, a drive somewhere to talk and to get to know each other.PS::: I feel the way to know someone is by talking and getting to know the real them on the inside.I'm not one to judge people on looks therefore I dont like it when people judge me on mine.Yes I am a BBW a big beautiful woman.(LOL), Im still a human and have feelings and deserve the right to be loved just like anyone else!!!!!!!

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