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Toshia, 50
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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Hello,Thanks for stopping by to read about me. I am going to give this a try as I know many people that have connected this way and it developed into a wonderful relationship.My philosophy is to “Live life with an Open Heart and see what happens”.I am a fun loving, down to earth young at heart woman. I do not need a man in my life but would like one as I know that I feel better, am healthier and happier in a relationship. I like to look after ‘my guy’ with affection and kindness and share about our life, goals and dreams.You will see that I have taken some time to list my interests. If you do contact me I would hope that you have read them so that when you e-mail you can tell me why you decided to contact me out of all the beautiful women on here. (Sorry, I won’t respond if there is no content to what we have in common or if there are no pictures)About me:I do not have children; it just did not happen for me. I do share my life, home and heart with my dogs. They are so much Fun!!I believe all intimacy is meant for one but try my best to please the person who I am sharing my life with. There is nothing more Sexy than a man that honours his wedding ring and talks fondly of his partner when she is not there.I was married for 16 years, took the first year on my own to get set up - then dated the first man I met for two years. I'm a 'keeper'.I am not needy or jealous - why would I be if the man I was with made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room and couldn't wait to get me home.I love being a woman but you could and would find me at a truck rally or motorcycle race. I owned my first motorcycle at 8 and have driven in a NASCAR at the Daytona 500!!I look like my pictures and hope you do too? You could literally pick me out at the grocery store and tap me on the shoulder to say ‘hello’. I will never be ‘skinny’, I’m too ‘curvy’ for that. I am proportional in height, size and ‘assets’. About you:I do like my guys a little on the husky/rugged side and do picture myself with someone in their 40’s but if you have a matching ball cap for every outfit or if you think wearing pj bottoms in public is ‘ok’ I don’t think you are for me.You should also feel comfortable throwing gear in the car for a camping trip or getting dressed up to try out a new restaurant.I guess it’s the ‘loafers to little black dress’ men have for women only my ‘man version’.You will have to live within HRM or at least within driving distance so that we can get to know each other and see if there is the possibility of creating and building a healthy, balanced relationship.You must have a job/career or some means of living a life that we would both enjoy. With that we would be able to travel, enjoy fun adventures and get out to try new food and restaurants.If you have made it to the bottom of this and still interested I can’t wait to hear from you as I am looking for healthy/balanced and it just may be you!! How it all works for me:On line meeting/dating is harder and anyone would imagine.I compare it to meeting your Mother’s next door neighbour’s newly divorced cousin.Remember when she would drag out a picture at the kitchen table and tell you how great he is? Only to find out he actually still lives with his Mother.It would be wonderful to meet at a party or b’bque and share glances from across the room and ask your host if they were married or in a relationship. To finally get up the courage to talk to them and casually look down to see if they were wearing a ring. To think about them when you get home if the conversation went well.That rarely happens today. Life, love and relationships are too complicated.So, we all find ourselves here.If we do connect with pictures and e-mails from there I do ‘walk and talk’. We would meet at a neutral public location for a 15 minute walk and see if we would like to continue into a nice place for a drink.That would be it for ‘first meet’. We would then both go home and decide together if there was enough chemistry to go on a ‘Date”!!Note: if I like your pictures and am intrigued by your profile but you are younger than me – I will add you to my ‘favourites’ and then you can decide to message.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy the outdoors, bowling, fishing, quite time, dancing, although I can't sing or dance, I enjoy having a great time. I am not perfect at all, simply looking for someone who can appreciate the simple things in life, while giving their lady time, attention, love, and simply fun. And in return receive so much more.Unique, simply being friendly, outgoing, and a little of a risk taker, but smart, and I do weigh out my thoughts very well. All of my kids are grown, and I am seeking companionship, a friend, dating partner, and go from there. I love and enjoy all music makes me so happy. A little of all music, of all kinds, will listen and up to grow in different types of music. My goals, are pretty simple, I want someone that wants a true and real lady to spend time with, and what happens, time will tell. I again am no show boat, I am straight forward and I love with my heart, and soul. I would be thrilled to meet someone and have a fun day, and etc. If that's you, I am ready to move to the next level and try this out again.Update: ***: It's important to be around a gentlemen that enjoys treating me as a lady that she is, and also reverse as well for the men in her life. I do not want to do this life alone, I have way too much to give that special someone, no I am not a barbie doll, they melt lol, however, I do have a heart which sometimes does get me into a little trouble. Broken hearts, don't heal well, I need and desire that special someone that can pick me up and hold me when life seem hard, and say It will all be alright, and really mean it. I added this after thinking about some of the not so kind comments were made towards me, I love being treated like a lady and being cuddled and held, and simply appreciated for who I am. The sky is the limit with the right person. I am not crazy about someone encouraging sex on the first date, we all should get to know each other and enjoy walks, talks, and etc. If this you, and you desire a real lady, and a fun filled day and or night. I look forward to hearing from you , please only serious gentlemen inquiry. :***: Update, I am not on here for a simple fling, I am looking for that special spark in my life, that is willing to give 100% of time, and attention to this lovely lady at heart.. I am not on here for another notch on a bed post, however if that happens within time, then it's meant to be, while I am only asking 100% , you will get 200% in return.. I enjoy talking, cuddling and simply the great pleasures of waking up with that special guy right beside me. I am simply "Me"..... very lovable, and well, if you want to know more let me know. I am not a player and honestly please don't treat me that way, I want someone who wants a true relationship.Update: If you are married, controlling and or simply a not so nice person "Please keep moving". I do not have time in my life for someone who isn't worthy of a great lady. I do not appreciate boys, only real Men (honest, sincere and simply real). This is not much to ask of anyone.One final thing for us all to remember, if it's ok for a Man to go out and have fun and enjoy a day, it sure is more than ok for a Lady to do the same. I am simply stating a fact, you out there that feel as though a lady may be a player, question why are you on here. Be nice, kind and sincere, and you may be happy with what you find. Just be real, be yourself and don't be so quick to assume things... We all know what assume really means, be nice. Be nice.UPDATED: ***"This stage of my life is a happy one, and can be so enjoyed with the right person." I desire a great man that isn't afraid of being loved, wanted and needed by a pretty amazing fun, high energy lady, and hey I may be 50, but 50 is the new 35. Current photos are a must, as I show you the same respect. Let's walk through this life together, and be spontaneous and go to the beach for those long weekend get aways, simply turn off the world, and be who we really are. I wish there was words to honestly put on here, but you will have to go on your internal feels here and say, wow.... She is really real, and yes I get this alot, but rest assure, I am as real and loving as they come. No barbie doll, they melt.... Simply beauty that raidates inward then outwards... So, come along and let's ride a few waves together, one breath at a time. Savor that special moment and not be afraid of anything. Love is so amazing and something we all deserve to feel and to give, and receive. Oh, my I am so getting carried away, No lady beaters please, I have turned in my boxing gloves lol... I also play many different sports, I may not know all the lingo, but I am sure the right man can teach me the lingo. Thank you for allowing me to update..... Let's do something fun, and exciting.... :) Looking for someone who I can get to know and be honest with, and take it slow, and get to know each other better, and simply have a blast while doing it. I am not interested in someone controlling me, but being a fun part of my life,and allowing me to still grown and have a delightful time doing so.If things are meant to be they are meant to be.ALERT: PLEASE KEEP YOUR PHOTOS CURRENT..... This is a site to help us all, and if we can't be honest and upfront, no one needs to be on here. We are adults, let's please act like one. Current Photos Gentlemen and Ladies, no one deserves to be mislead, especially in the beginning. Love and Hugs.

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