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Toshia, 50
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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About Me

Hello,Thanks for stopping by to read about me. I am going to give this a try as I know many people that have connected this way and it developed into a wonderful relationship.My philosophy is to “Live life with an Open Heart and see what happens”.I am a fun loving, down to earth young at heart woman. I do not need a man in my life but would like one as I know that I feel better, am healthier and happier in a relationship. I like to look after ‘my guy’ with affection and kindness and share about our life, goals and dreams.You will see that I have taken some time to list my interests. If you do contact me I would hope that you have read them so that when you e-mail you can tell me why you decided to contact me out of all the beautiful women on here. (Sorry, I won’t respond if there is no content to what we have in common or if there are no pictures)About me:I do not have children; it just did not happen for me. I do share my life, home and heart with my dogs. They are so much Fun!!I believe all intimacy is meant for one but try my best to please the person who I am sharing my life with. There is nothing more Sexy than a man that honours his wedding ring and talks fondly of his partner when she is not there.I was married for 16 years, took the first year on my own to get set up - then dated the first man I met for two years. I'm a 'keeper'.I am not needy or jealous - why would I be if the man I was with made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room and couldn't wait to get me home.I love being a woman but you could and would find me at a truck rally or motorcycle race. I owned my first motorcycle at 8 and have driven in a NASCAR at the Daytona 500!!I look like my pictures and hope you do too? You could literally pick me out at the grocery store and tap me on the shoulder to say ‘hello’. I will never be ‘skinny’, I’m too ‘curvy’ for that. I am proportional in height, size and ‘assets’. About you:I do like my guys a little on the husky/rugged side and do picture myself with someone in their 40’s but if you have a matching ball cap for every outfit or if you think wearing pj bottoms in public is ‘ok’ I don’t think you are for me.You should also feel comfortable throwing gear in the car for a camping trip or getting dressed up to try out a new restaurant.I guess it’s the ‘loafers to little black dress’ men have for women only my ‘man version’.You will have to live within HRM or at least within driving distance so that we can get to know each other and see if there is the possibility of creating and building a healthy, balanced relationship.You must have a job/career or some means of living a life that we would both enjoy. With that we would be able to travel, enjoy fun adventures and get out to try new food and restaurants.If you have made it to the bottom of this and still interested I can’t wait to hear from you as I am looking for healthy/balanced and it just may be you!! How it all works for me:On line meeting/dating is harder and anyone would imagine.I compare it to meeting your Mother’s next door neighbour’s newly divorced cousin.Remember when she would drag out a picture at the kitchen table and tell you how great he is? Only to find out he actually still lives with his Mother.It would be wonderful to meet at a party or b’bque and share glances from across the room and ask your host if they were married or in a relationship. To finally get up the courage to talk to them and casually look down to see if they were wearing a ring. To think about them when you get home if the conversation went well.That rarely happens today. Life, love and relationships are too complicated.So, we all find ourselves here.If we do connect with pictures and e-mails from there I do ‘walk and talk’. We would meet at a neutral public location for a 15 minute walk and see if we would like to continue into a nice place for a drink.That would be it for ‘first meet’. We would then both go home and decide together if there was enough chemistry to go on a ‘Date”!!Note: if I like your pictures and am intrigued by your profile but you are younger than me – I will add you to my ‘favourites’ and then you can decide to message.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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