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Katy, 46
United States, Nebraska, Kearney

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Attention!!! If you are truly looking for a life long commitment with a woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside, who is very affectionate, a great kisser, honest, faithful, kind, easy going, and a very loving person (when the time is right), who also has nice feet :)...then look no further... I am a little shy until I get to know you. I really enjoy giving massages, although I do like receiving them as well :). I do not play games, nor do I like drama. I believe honesty, intimacy & communication are very important parts in having and maintaining a good & successful relationship. Communication includes everything you are thinking or feeling, not expecting someone to read your mind or take hints...just say what you want or expect and what you don't want or expect. I really like to spend quite a bit of time with whoever I am seeing, so living somewhat close to each other would be ideal. I want someone who will walk beside me and not in front of me. Someone who makes me happier and I him, someone who makes my life better and easier and I his :). There are a few things I absolutely hate, one is being ***, whether through messaging or in person, it only takes a second to send a message and let someone know you are busy. I also don't like people with no patience. Looking for the same, someone who is ready to spend the rest of their life with someone, it doesn't necessarily mean getting married, maybe a promise ring to let me know you promise to be with me through thick and thin and I you. Someone who is affectionate and likes letting the person he's with feel special, and that he misses her when they are apart, someone who likes to give a kiss goodnight and say good morning have a great day! Someone who has lived the single life and is ready to spend the rest of his life with a great woman. With that being said, if your not sure you have experienced all the single life things, like hanging out in a bar or experiencing as many women as you think you need to, etc...then please do not contact me. If you have looking for a 25-? (actually anything under 35 probably...I'm not interested (sorry). I really hate dating & would Love for someone to get me off of this site forever! There really does have to be a physical attraction as well as having a few of the same interests :). I just want to find the right person for me and him and for both of us to be Happy forever. Also, I would really like to start going to different trails to go bike riding...would be nice to find someone to do that with :). Thanks & Good luck! I enjoy watching movies (while cuddling on the couch), playing cards, riding bikes, working out, doing anything outdoors in the summer (I love the sun), listening to live bands, going to festivals, wine tastings, beer festivals, holding hands, kissing, cuddling, riding on the back of a motorcycle, fireworks, bonfires, traveling, laughing, spending time with family, friends and that special someone. I also like most types of music as well as singing in the car and the shower and will even occasionally do karaoke as long as you don't laugh at me...I would like to start my next relationship slow and learn as much as I can about you, so please feel free to send me a message I would love to chat :)... I would like to chat a bit or talk on the phone before our first meeting...After that, I think lunch, a drink, a coffee, or ice cream is a good first meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Salsa Shopping German Greek Korean Portuguese Comedy Music Sailing
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I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. 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