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Avril, 47

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About Me

Hello! If you send me a "Meet Me" notice "please" put in the extra effort to read my profile, and at the very least say "hello". Btw, your profile AND pics do matter. Let's be real. Personality,chemistry, and attractiveness are important to everyone. So shouldn't our pics attempt to capture our personality, spirit, and physical appearance in a flattering light? I'm a size 14 woman (average in today's standards). If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask me. My pics are ALL recent and all my dates say I look like my pics and some have commented I look better in person. I have been exercising ***times a wk *** the gym for a few yrs now and I'm toning up and slowing taking off my extra weight. I prefer someone with similar goals and qualities and who already lives an active, healthy, "balanced" lifestyle. Someone who's fun, attractive, energetic, sociable, passionate, and enjoys playing sports,but also knows how to relax and have fun! LOL! In a nutshell, I'm looking for my best friend and undeniable chemistry. :-) My match is a fun, honest, playful, sensual, confident, attractive, affectionate, gentleman who communicates well and can stay positive and hopeful through life's challenges. Someone who is kind, passionate, and grateful for the positive things in life. I'm not looking to change anyone or to be changed. I'm just looking for that special connection when you just understand each other and have that amazing spark to go with it! As a fun, playful, vivacious, content, easy-going, passionate, feisty lady, I enjoy a wide variety of outdoor/indoor sports and charity/social events. Everything from wallyball, racquetball, swimming, golfing, skiing to fine dining at a restaurant, or organizing dinner for family and friends at home, followed a glass of wine by the fireplace or fire pit. In addition, I love art, museums, theater, ballet,and classical concerts (esp.Bach and Mozart). I love music and my musical tastes vary from Hip Hop/R&B to Country to Classical. In addition,I love to dance, everything from Hip/Hop to Salsa to Swing. I'm not a big sports fan, but love to cheer for family and friends' little ones. I enjoy many types of ethnic food, especially Portuguese cuisine, and I love a man who loves to cook together! lol. Even though I haven't watched TV in *** a year, who would turn down cuddling while watching a great movie?? A little about me: I've worked since the age of 16, managed businesses since 18, and have everything I need, along with 2 beautiful older teenagers (17, and 19). I was married for 23 yrs and very recently became divorced, however I'm happy,whole, drama-free, and completely ready to give and experience love whole-heartly with the right person. If that doesn't describe your heart and your mental state of mind, please don't waste my time or yours. I have absolutely no interest in a rebound relationship, booty calls, or hookups, not because I'm looking to rush into marriage, but because I'm confident the "best love and passion" is achieved in a monogamous, loving relationship with great communication. Let's make this easy. If you're interested in getting to know me better, send me a short note and let's meet for a tea/coffee or glass of wine for *** 30 mins within the wk. Best case scenario; we hit it off. Worse case scenario; we become friends and increase our social circles. I strongly believe the best way to get know someone is to be friends first, and see where it goes from there. I'm a fun,honest, classy lady, with much love, affection, and laughter to offer to the right man. Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light! Paula :-) Chatting over a glass of wine or coffee and tea, to determine if we have a spark, along with common interests and goals. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tobi

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Let’s start by making things simple, just hanging out together and see if we click!I love the outdoors hiking, camping, fishing, rafting and riding motorcycles. I don’t have my own bike but I did get my endorsement. I’m up to new adventures and am willing to try almost anything within reason. Lol…. My favorite things are hanging out with my friends and family I enjoy cooking and creating new dishes especially when they turn out yummy!!! hahahaaa…. I love to snuggle on the couch watching a good movie go for a walk and best of all holding hands! I love when my man reaches down and grabs my hand announcing to the world that I’m his girl!!! :)I’m a very positive, happy, outgoing person without drama or craziness. I grew up in a small town with good family values and tend to be a bit old fashion. I have a wonderful family that I adore. We spend a lot of time together having barbeques, going on family vacations and camping. I want someone in my life to share these special times with. When it comes down to what I’m really looking for it’s like this…. “I’m not looking for a perfect man I’m looking for the perfect man for me!” A man who believes in himself with decent morals, he is honest, and has integrity. Someone I can tell all my secrets to and who knows I will keep his secrets safe in return. Who will be my best friend who I can honor and cherish and he will treat me with respect that is not weighed down by jealousy or insecurities! ... At this point of my life my children are grown and I am ready to find someone special who I can cherish and grow old with….. Don’t worry I’m not living in lala land lmao…. All you have to be is willing and wanting to reach the same goal. I thought this was pretty Funny lmao......Words men should know that women use!1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. 3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. 4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! 5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.) 6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. 7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. 8. Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F**K YOU! 9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3. 10. Because: Women use this whenever they don't feel like explaining something so the best thing to do is figure it out on your own.

  • Jina

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Every aspect of my life is dedicated to the search for balance. I am an explorer but revel in my home time. I am somewhat of an introvert but love to dance. I can happily spend a day with my camera absorbing the essence of the sea then just want to bask in the company of true like-minded friends. I love both the country road and the city art gallery. I feel there is not much that a trip to the ocean, a gathering around a fire (maybe with a guitar thrown in for good measure - no not into the fire :-), or a great story can't cure. I sing in the car...Badly...Scarey but true!!!I believe in the power of words, belly-I don't do TV much except when it comes to the Ducks! But I love a great movie, game of Scrabble or rummy, creative meal cooked together, or a silly joke. I believe that honor, magic and beauty are still very much alive in our world. I trust that you do too.OK the rest will wait in balance for another day and per chance a shared cup of great coffee or some caramels...as they are better than the average jelly bean... My first date would be ideal somewhere where we could meet over coffee or a margarita and then if we are brew/lime compatible go for a walk to tell each other our best stories. If not then hey no harm no foul. We still had a great drink with a Brave fellow seeker...

  • Fe

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Caring, sweet, loving, affectionate good hearted lady age 46 seeks a nonsmoking, Caucasian, real gentlemen age ***I am the "girly girl" type . . . ha. I am an employed homeowner and have my own vehicle. I love the outdoors, warm weather, traveling, movies and cooking at home. I enjoy easy listening, contemporary gospel, 60's thru 90's rock and modern rock music. I love to travel! I love the water! Would like to find a stable minded, confident gentlemen who would enjoy day trips or weekend trips or just out sight seeing. I love to ride my 21 speed bike. It would be nice to have some pleasant and friendly company to enjoy these outdoor activities with. I am really close to a "clean freak". Cleanliness is next to Godliness. He must have a kind smile and a gentle heart who knows how to open a door for a lady. He must be clean in his vehicle and at home as well. A messy/dirty/sloppy residence or house is a real turn off to me and can be a deal breaker. Must be neat, orderly, organized and tidy as well. He must be strong, fun, smart, honest and a good communicator. It would be really nice to find someone who enjoys walking like I do . . It would be nice to have that companionship along the way with a man I am actually attracted to. A goatee is a (big) plus, but not required. I am somewhat of a health nut. My interest are nutrition, health, exercise and a healthy lifestyle. (Now I have my weaknesses too, such as chocolate . . . ha) Must include photo with your profile as well. I am ready for a casual dating relationship to serious relationship. Must be within my age criteria to contact me. Spent the Labor Day weekend at Santi Cali Gon. I got a sunburn and had fun out there with my 22 year old son. My gosh, he is taller than me now! ha Saw a Foreigner tribute band, they were pretty good. I really enjoyed that. Not interested in one night stands. What is your preference? We can discuss it together.

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