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Hello! If you send me a "Meet Me" notice "please" put in the extra effort to read my profile, and at the very least say "hello". Btw, your profile AND pics do matter. Let's be real. Personality,chemistry, and attractiveness are important to everyone. So shouldn't our pics attempt to capture our personality, spirit, and physical appearance in a flattering light? I'm a size 14 woman (average in today's standards). If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask me. My pics are ALL recent and all my dates say I look like my pics and some have commented I look better in person. I have been exercising ***times a wk *** the gym for a few yrs now and I'm toning up and slowing taking off my extra weight. I prefer someone with similar goals and qualities and who already lives an active, healthy, "balanced" lifestyle. Someone who's fun, attractive, energetic, sociable, passionate, and enjoys playing sports,but also knows how to relax and have fun! LOL! In a nutshell, I'm looking for my best friend and undeniable chemistry. :-) My match is a fun, honest, playful, sensual, confident, attractive, affectionate, gentleman who communicates well and can stay positive and hopeful through life's challenges. Someone who is kind, passionate, and grateful for the positive things in life. I'm not looking to change anyone or to be changed. I'm just looking for that special connection when you just understand each other and have that amazing spark to go with it! As a fun, playful, vivacious, content, easy-going, passionate, feisty lady, I enjoy a wide variety of outdoor/indoor sports and charity/social events. Everything from wallyball, racquetball, swimming, golfing, skiing to fine dining at a restaurant, or organizing dinner for family and friends at home, followed a glass of wine by the fireplace or fire pit. In addition, I love art, museums, theater, ballet,and classical concerts (esp.Bach and Mozart). I love music and my musical tastes vary from Hip Hop/R&B to Country to Classical. In addition,I love to dance, everything from Hip/Hop to Salsa to Swing. I'm not a big sports fan, but love to cheer for family and friends' little ones. I enjoy many types of ethnic food, especially Portuguese cuisine, and I love a man who loves to cook together! lol. Even though I haven't watched TV in *** a year, who would turn down cuddling while watching a great movie?? A little about me: I've worked since the age of 16, managed businesses since 18, and have everything I need, along with 2 beautiful older teenagers (17, and 19). I was married for 23 yrs and very recently became divorced, however I'm happy,whole, drama-free, and completely ready to give and experience love whole-heartly with the right person. If that doesn't describe your heart and your mental state of mind, please don't waste my time or yours. I have absolutely no interest in a rebound relationship, booty calls, or hookups, not because I'm looking to rush into marriage, but because I'm confident the "best love and passion" is achieved in a monogamous, loving relationship with great communication. Let's make this easy. If you're interested in getting to know me better, send me a short note and let's meet for a tea/coffee or glass of wine for *** 30 mins within the wk. Best case scenario; we hit it off. Worse case scenario; we become friends and increase our social circles. I strongly believe the best way to get know someone is to be friends first, and see where it goes from there. I'm a fun,honest, classy lady, with much love, affection, and laughter to offer to the right man. Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light! Paula :-) Chatting over a glass of wine or coffee and tea, to determine if we have a spark, along with common interests and goals. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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