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I am a very laid back person, there is no drama in my life and that's the way I like to keep it. Ok there's is always drama in life, its how you deal with it that makes the difference.I am however very outspoken and opinionated, I get that from my dad who always told me "stick up for youself kitten, 'cause no one else ever will".... I'm soft hearted but I will stand my ground,I don't like being told what I can and cannot do...ask me ....don't tell me.I'm very confident with myself,I do not need to be complimented all day long. You do not have to call me and text me all day and night, with that being said I do not want a texting relationship I would rather hear your voice. I have a great sense of humor and wit, like to have great conversations about anything communication is very important to me in a relationship I don't like silence between people ( seen plenty of that in the recent past ) I can talk your ear off or just listen to what you have to say. I get asked alot what type of man am I looking for...One *** was this man wanting me to *** and in one sentence describe what I was looking for in a relationship. Hmm didn't know it was a pop quiz!?!? I have a better idea of what I don't want, shallow, selfish, egotistical, insecure, self centered, intellectually challenged, dishonest.....did I mention stubborn??!! you know where im coming from I'd like to find a man with some confidence with himself and good sence of humor and who can appreciate mine , I'm only slightly warped. I am not a judgemental person, so do not judge me before getting to know me I'v been around long enough that I don't want to waste time, mine or yours. I've always been quite passionate in the matters of love and life and would love to find someone who shares those traits . You only get one chance to make a good first impressionIf you don't get me, you wont get me.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Meadow

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a perky petite(4'7 meetville only goes to 5') handicappable woman with a genuine zest for life.I disassemble(prosthetic leg-left) which is a birth defect, but it doesn't slow me down. Also, am a type 1 diabetic, so please don't let this frighten you. I enjoy the simple things in life as I appreciate the lavish. You can dress me up and take me out.My friends and family mean a great deal to me. They see me as funny, uplifting, reliable, honest, caring, easy going, and compassionate. I enjoy bbq dinners with friends, hanging around the campfire which means bringing out the guitars and singing. Also, enjoy comedy shows, theater, concerts, dancing, volunteering, travel, road trips(I never get lost, always on an adventure), playing board and card games, watching/going to some sporting events, boating, fishing, yoga, cooking and/or classes, and wine tasting. Interested in learning how to play golf, and begin kayaking. The ultimate goal is to find the love of my life/soul mate but want friendship first to see where it goes. I don't need a man; I WANT a man and not a needy one. I am looking for a man that enjoys touching, caressing, holding hands, snuggling, kisses...etc. I believe in supporting one another with the good/bad. Would like to find someone who has some of the same interests, but not necessarily joined at the hip all the time. I am very ok with being on my own which is completely different than being alone.Giving back to the community is important to me. I have been involved with the 'Relay For Life"Good luck with your journey.***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Has Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or who may be suffering from it***\\\***OR A SURVIVOR!! Something casual brunch, lunch, happy hr., with a great deal of laughter plus good conversation.

  • Jalyn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a people person. I'm quite social and enjoy meeting new people. My friends say that I'm easy to talk too. That is probably because I tend to be genuinely interested in other people so I ask questions. I moved to the area four years ago during my divorce. I enjoy people, movies, gardening, dancing and community and a variety of other things. I like many different types of music. And I like to sing karaoke (don't judge me.:)) It has been much longer than I would like to admit since I've have been on a real date. It's gotta be just like riding a bike though, right? I'm just open to whatever comes next. I'm kind of excited about it. It's just the next part of the adventure.... Much of my life at this point revolves around getting my children through to adulthood successfully. I moved them to a small town because It is a great way to grow up. I am basically just trying to be as present for them as possible. I see that as the best way to avoid the pitfalls that trip up so many young people. They participate in many sports and hope to get involved in other activities that small town or country living allows for. Having said all that, I am ready to have adult companionship in my life again. I would like to travel a bit more and I look forward to having someone to get away for the weekend with. I would love to find someone that would go on walks w/ me. It seems like such a small thing but is something I would really appreciate. Now I am looking forward to finding someone I really connect with. And if along the way I find some good friends, all the better. We'll figure it out.....

  • Nya

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Crap. How do I sound charming, witty and fascinating? That's an awful lot of work, and I feel fairly certain I could only carry it off for about 23 minutes. I guess I will just be me *** at an interesting place in my life. My husband and I are separating. It's been an ongoing process for a while, but we are legally staying together in order to settle our finances and sell our home. It sucks and is pretty annoying to end a marriage. I wish there was something less painful, like bamboo being shoved under my nails, or being seared with a branding iron. But I never luck out that way.All that aside, from an emotional standpoint, things are changing for us. We are good friends and will always be, but I think our passion and desire for each other have left the building. Nothing says "Hey my marriage is down the toilet" more than being separated and on an online dating site. I'm too young to not have passion in my life, but too old to be an innocent, wide eyed girl who clings on some guys every word. Being single at a time in your life when you weren't really expecting it is like walking along with the sun shining and the birds singing and you step in the cross walk and get ran over by one of those Portlandia Bike enthusiasts. It doesn't kill you, but it hurts like hell. You know you will make it through, but you have to heal.I am established in my career and financially independent. I have a serious job, so in my spare time I really want to cut loose and have fun. I'm kind of sarcastic and quirky ( which is the nice way of saying I'm a smart ass), and I like a wide range of music. I sing with a women's chorus. I am also deeply passionate about animals and serve on the board for a non-profit that advocates for wolves. I have a dry sense of humor and really appreciate intellectual conversations. SMART MEN TURN ME ON. I'm in the process of losing weight, so I am pursuing a healthy lifestyle, eating and exercise wise. I have posted a recent, full length picture. I like to be upfront about my size. I understand that we are all attracted to different things. I'm not a 24 year old model. Never have been one, never will. I hope that at this point in my life the most interesting and memorable thing about me is not how I look. I am shooting for reaching a normal weight as I want to be healthy and active for as long as I can. Right now Im a size ***. Sometimes men don't get sizes...I don't like using cute phrases like "I'm curvy" or "I'm big and beautiful". I'm overweight, not happy about it and trying to change it. If you aren't attracted to larger women, then my pretty face and beautiful lips won't make a difference. And as we are on a "fish" site there are plenty of thinner fish out there if that's what you want!:)In short, I'd like to have fun. I'd like to define "having fun". It doesn't mean having a one night stand or that you should contact me to just hook up. Although I'm not looking for anything really serious...I'm not looking for meaningless sex either. That also does not mean that I want to wait 6 months for you to hold my hand. I like things to happen naturally...there is no specific time or pressure on when that should be. Im not a nun. I like sex, I would like it on a regular basis with the right person. I'm not just wanting to date for the stimulating conversations on world politics!I can't deny that I like to kiss. A lot. So...friendship with tongue? Is that a thing?I love to talk with people, but please note that the only pictures I have or will send are exactly like the ones in my profile! ;)UPDATE: I have been out here for about 6 weeks. I have met some really cool people. I have been contacted by some odd people. I have learned that younger men have either watched American Pie or the Graduate and think that all women over the age of 40 are Cougars. I'm going to be honest. I'm probably not bendy enough or flexible enough to do what you think you want to do with me. Unless you are going to pay for my massage and chiro visits after, its probably not going to happen. Sure, you are super fun to look at, and I would like to touch you. It would be fun. But I doubt we could have the kind of conversations that I like to have. I have a 26 year old daughter...so my gut feeling is the first time you smart mouthed me, I would want to ground you or take away the car keys. But, if you are SUPER smart and realize I am not going to be twisted around like Gumby, go ahead and contact me. ;)UPDATE 2: I have been out here a little over 3 months. There are times that I think meetville stands for "Plenty of Freaks"...but there are just enough, nice normal people that its worthwhile. The thing that I'm most happy with, is that I have been able to make some friends. Not everyone is a love connection, but some people are pretty cool...so cool that you enjoy them for their company and you realize that quality time with someone doesn't have to be a big romance. I think people forget the value of there being no pressure...and just having fun. Im still in the drama of divorce crap...so me finding "the one" probably isn't going to happen for a while. In the mean time, I'd like to meet interesting and fun people. Life is too short to not have fun. So for now, my eyeballs are in tact and I forge ahead... Let's wear berets and smoke those smelly french cigarettes and eat a lot of cheese. OROption 2: Probably a coffee date. Just hanging out, talking and seeing if we are compatible. I'm not that picky about someone's looks, although I do prefer someone who is clean and pulled together. For me, it is all about personality and conversation.

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