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Christobel, 46

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Oh, hi, is that you over there? I just noticed you, standing there, glancing over- watching me laugh and chat with my friends. You smiled- I smiled back. See, in real life, this can be easier - you make a connection from across a room, you're drawn to each other... next thing you know we're chatting and smiling like we've known each other a long time. Harder to do via this medium, but we can make it work. I'm persistent, and perhaps a bit stubborn. You?You might first notice (besides my smile), my sassiness and I'm often told, my ass... but mostly you'd probably notice that I'm very outgoing and a good conversationalist. I love talking to anyone- friends, family, strangers- you!Here are some things you might learn about me, if we engaged in a more in-depth conversation than, "what are you drinking? How do you girls all know each other?", which, hopefully, we would:I love to be outside, hiking, camping, biking, running, skiing, being silly...My best times have been looking at the stars on a cloudless night, with a campfire, friends, wine, and a guitar playing (someone else playing hopefully, since I can't...yet). I'm active and down to earth- yet I can get all spiffed up and go out on the town when the mood strikes (and it doesn't take me hours to make that happen either!) I'm also a "City" girl (born and bred in NYC), so I love going into the city (any city, really), mostly to people-watch and window shop, eating pretzels from a street vendor, going to a play or concert- I also love staying home, cooking in and watching a movie or playing Scrabble and relaxing with friends over a bottle of wine. It all depends on my mood (and the weather!) I meet people easily mostly because I'm very outgoing and very "real".) People with whom I have a connection (friends or otherwise), will always know where they stand with me and what they're 'in for'. That's part of life, after all. If that works for you so far, read on...I also have a daughter who I adopted at birth, who is just turning 6 mos old (born Dec ***, in case I don't get around to updating this again for awhile!) She's amazing and cute and a LOT of work, but really pretty cool. Harder and more rewarding than anything I've ever done before; but still looking to find someone special to share things with (besides her!) Getting to know each other in a casual, relaxed setting.- you get to relax, enjoy nature, be in touch with history, and most importantly, you get to see your date in a bathing suit. No better way to window shop ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Guys, I am a busy single mom to my very active boys ages 11 and 15. I love watching them play football, baseball and basketball and I am an active volunteer with their teams. They are with me full time and they are my life. But they are old enough now for me to be able to enjoy some guilt-free ME time.I've been single for 8 years, divorced for 4 and am new to this dating thing - especially the online dating thing. It's like feeling my way around in the dark - will you hold the flashlight for me? I don't know the "rules" if there are any, and I probably would not follow them even if I did. Update: if you have dating "rules", I can only respect them (or not) if I know what they are - that requires communication. I am a BIG fan of communication!My friends tell me I don't know when I am being flirted with. I guess it takes a brick to my head. I just don't like assuming things and then looking foolish. Plus, if one wanted to, one could read something suggestive into just about any conversation. That can be fun - as long as we're on the same page! Humiliating if not!I hate playing the guessing game just TELL ME what's on your mind. That said, I do prefer directness. It CAN be done tactfully, kindly, and with openess and honesty - a must for all my relationships.I am an open book - ask me anything and know that my answers will be completely honest. Not everyone is an open book and that's okay, as long as what you DO put out there is truthful.I can play poker with the best of them but much prefer to lay my cards on the table and think it would be a much nicer world if we all did the same.I wear my heart on my sleeve but am not naive; don't underestimate me ;) I practice living a simple, uncluttered life in the here and now. I would much rather DO things than have things - creating precious memories that last a lifetime. I have learned that the key to happiness and contentment is quite simply - gratitude.Things I like doing... Walking the beach Photography Gardening Home improvements Watching NFL (Steelers Fans need not apply;) Jewelry making Mariners Games Road trips to nowhere Cookouts with family and friends Camping Hiking Reading Writing Things I have not done in a long time but would like to do again... Ski River raft Golf Dance Kiss Bucket List: The above list and... Get a tattoo (update - check! As my boys say, "YOLO!"You must have a sense of humor and not take life or yourself too seriously. I don't care about your weight, profession, income, motorcycles, boats or cars, how many times you work out a week, or all the places you have been (although a Harley trip would be fun! lol!) I do care if you are kind, compassionate, loving, responsible, respectful, respected, emotionally well-adjusted and generally fun to be around. And you gotta love long, passionate kisses that stop time.Thanks for reading...PS You guys are so damn cute holding up your little (and Big!) fishies with those proud looks on your faces. Just precious! ;) I'm not picky.

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