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Christobel, 46

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About Me

Oh, hi, is that you over there? I just noticed you, standing there, glancing over- watching me laugh and chat with my friends. You smiled- I smiled back. See, in real life, this can be easier - you make a connection from across a room, you're drawn to each other... next thing you know we're chatting and smiling like we've known each other a long time. Harder to do via this medium, but we can make it work. I'm persistent, and perhaps a bit stubborn. You?You might first notice (besides my smile), my sassiness and I'm often told, my ass... but mostly you'd probably notice that I'm very outgoing and a good conversationalist. I love talking to anyone- friends, family, strangers- you!Here are some things you might learn about me, if we engaged in a more in-depth conversation than, "what are you drinking? How do you girls all know each other?", which, hopefully, we would:I love to be outside, hiking, camping, biking, running, skiing, being silly...My best times have been looking at the stars on a cloudless night, with a campfire, friends, wine, and a guitar playing (someone else playing hopefully, since I can't...yet). I'm active and down to earth- yet I can get all spiffed up and go out on the town when the mood strikes (and it doesn't take me hours to make that happen either!) I'm also a "City" girl (born and bred in NYC), so I love going into the city (any city, really), mostly to people-watch and window shop, eating pretzels from a street vendor, going to a play or concert- I also love staying home, cooking in and watching a movie or playing Scrabble and relaxing with friends over a bottle of wine. It all depends on my mood (and the weather!) I meet people easily mostly because I'm very outgoing and very "real".) People with whom I have a connection (friends or otherwise), will always know where they stand with me and what they're 'in for'. That's part of life, after all. If that works for you so far, read on...I also have a daughter who I adopted at birth, who is just turning 6 mos old (born Dec ***, in case I don't get around to updating this again for awhile!) She's amazing and cute and a LOT of work, but really pretty cool. Harder and more rewarding than anything I've ever done before; but still looking to find someone special to share things with (besides her!) Getting to know each other in a casual, relaxed setting.- you get to relax, enjoy nature, be in touch with history, and most importantly, you get to see your date in a bathing suit. No better way to window shop ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tobi

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Let’s start by making things simple, just hanging out together and see if we click!I love the outdoors hiking, camping, fishing, rafting and riding motorcycles. I don’t have my own bike but I did get my endorsement. I’m up to new adventures and am willing to try almost anything within reason. Lol…. My favorite things are hanging out with my friends and family I enjoy cooking and creating new dishes especially when they turn out yummy!!! hahahaaa…. I love to snuggle on the couch watching a good movie go for a walk and best of all holding hands! I love when my man reaches down and grabs my hand announcing to the world that I’m his girl!!! :)I’m a very positive, happy, outgoing person without drama or craziness. I grew up in a small town with good family values and tend to be a bit old fashion. I have a wonderful family that I adore. We spend a lot of time together having barbeques, going on family vacations and camping. I want someone in my life to share these special times with. When it comes down to what I’m really looking for it’s like this…. “I’m not looking for a perfect man I’m looking for the perfect man for me!” A man who believes in himself with decent morals, he is honest, and has integrity. Someone I can tell all my secrets to and who knows I will keep his secrets safe in return. Who will be my best friend who I can honor and cherish and he will treat me with respect that is not weighed down by jealousy or insecurities! ... At this point of my life my children are grown and I am ready to find someone special who I can cherish and grow old with….. Don’t worry I’m not living in lala land lmao…. All you have to be is willing and wanting to reach the same goal. I thought this was pretty Funny lmao......Words men should know that women use!1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. 3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. 4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! 5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.) 6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. 7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. 8. Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F**K YOU! 9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3. 10. Because: Women use this whenever they don't feel like explaining something so the best thing to do is figure it out on your own.

  • Audie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Off to a fresh start looking for new friendships. People to laugh and enjoy life with. Something simple like coffee is always a good start and then we can decide from there where it goes. :-)

  • Jalyn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a people person. I'm quite social and enjoy meeting new people. My friends say that I'm easy to talk too. That is probably because I tend to be genuinely interested in other people so I ask questions. I moved to the area four years ago during my divorce. I enjoy people, movies, gardening, dancing and community and a variety of other things. I like many different types of music. And I like to sing karaoke (don't judge me.:)) It has been much longer than I would like to admit since I've have been on a real date. It's gotta be just like riding a bike though, right? I'm just open to whatever comes next. I'm kind of excited about it. It's just the next part of the adventure.... Much of my life at this point revolves around getting my children through to adulthood successfully. I moved them to a small town because It is a great way to grow up. I am basically just trying to be as present for them as possible. I see that as the best way to avoid the pitfalls that trip up so many young people. They participate in many sports and hope to get involved in other activities that small town or country living allows for. Having said all that, I am ready to have adult companionship in my life again. I would like to travel a bit more and I look forward to having someone to get away for the weekend with. I would love to find someone that would go on walks w/ me. It seems like such a small thing but is something I would really appreciate. Now I am looking forward to finding someone I really connect with. And if along the way I find some good friends, all the better. We'll figure it out.....

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