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Stepanie, 33

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About Me

I've never been your "average" girl...I've always been a bit of a Math/Physics nerd and a tomboy at heart. Growing up, I got along better with the boys and spent my days tossing footballs, playing street hockey, watching my dad try to fix his old cars and searching for frogs, salamanders, bugs & snails and would often beg my parents to let me keep them for a few weeks as pets. I still toss footballs, watch hockey and pick up all of those things for my kids but I am looking for someone who doesn't mind killing the spiders.I absolutely love camping (tent or trailer), hiking, fishing, quading, playing at the beach, backyard BBQs and star-gazing. Before next summer I would like to improve my golf game, re-learn how to ski (exiting the chairlift with me could get embarrassing), get back into tennis (I need a partner!) and find someone with differing hobbies and skills who has the patience and the desire to teach me...perhaps dirt biking or teaching me how to drive stick? Likewise, I may be able to teach you a few things! I truly believe that the couple that plays together stays together...if you can't enjoy each other's company doing the things that you love, isn't it a little pointless? I hope to one day own a telescope and learn a little more about astronomy. I would also love to take scuba lessons and do a little more traveling as I'm absolutely fascinated by underwater life...that said, I also love to eat underwater life, as my all-time favourite foods are sushi and crab legs. I prefer red over pink, hot over cold, lime over lemon, and a good beer over wine...although wine can be nice too ;) On that note, I am definitely not a big drinker and you will never see me loser-drunk, and I am not into the bar/club scene...so would prefer to be with someone with similar traits in that respect. I've decided to simply start dating again without any pressure or commitment *in the beginning*, *** putting all my eggs into one basket and jumping into a "commitment" right away. I recently ended a long-term relationship, and before that I was in a 14 year relationship (left 3.5 years ago) and never really took any time for myself in between. Terrible, I know! Just because I intend to date first before becoming serious about someone, doesn't mean I'm going to be careless or fooling around with more than one person. Chances are, if I like someone enough to go there, I'm pretty much hooked lol. Don't mistake me for an “easy conquest“. If you're looking for one, there are plenty on this site and in the bars. I will only give the very best of myself to someone who earns it and deserves it. After that, good luck keeping up with me lol.Ultimately I'm looking for an honest, laid-back, genuinely kind-hearted and loyal man who loves to make me laugh, play outdoors, have fun and spend time with me and my kids...someone who loves to cuddle up and watch movies, have BBQs and bonfires with good friends and neighbours, sit through kids’ Christmas plays and squeaky band concerts, and fall asleep with me every night. Integrity, loyalty, self-control, honesty and maturity are all EXTREMELY important to me...if you are lacking in any of these areas we simply will not work out. I won't look back because the kind of love, affection and relationship I have to offer is the very best and my children and I deserve the very best in return. Just to be clear, I'm not looking for a fling or a half-hearted attempt at a relationship... If you sincerely feel that we could be a match then I would love to hear from you! "Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time... There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn't be one of them." Tetris Battle!! Just kidding ;) Kinda. Coffee seems too impersonal and short to me...I think it would feel more like an interview than a date, so ideally I would at least like to go for lunch with you or something along those lines...it would keep the pressure off and give us plenty of time to talk and get to know each other a bit, see if there's any potential and chemistry, and offers a few welcome distractions if needed like extra chewing, etc. Sound fun? Haha...if lunch goes well, we can find something a little more fun and custom-fit for our 2nd date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Desirae

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I don't really know what to say about myself. I'm a single mom to a wonderful eight year old boy. I work full time as a RN ***nights per week and would like to go back to school in the near future. My work schedule is def not "normal", it can get pretty busy (so you might not hear from me for a few days at a time) but can also be really nice b/c I can get 5 or 6 days off without taking time off. My marriage ended pretty recently (we get along & parent well together, just weren't good at being married to each other) so I haven't dated in a very, very long time, & I'm not really sure what I'm looking to get out of this right now, but I'm up for trying something new. I'm not "looking" for anything serious, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to it. I think it would be good to just hang out at first & see if a friendship develops.On a side note, if you don't have knowledge of basic grammar (correct usage of their, they're, there & your vs you're), we're probably not going to click. Also, you should be wearing a shirt in your profile pic. Something casual... I'm a jeans & t-shirt kind of girl :)

  • Afrikah

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Let's see here, I guess I'm supposed to talk about who I am... I'm a very dedicated person. I'm loyal to my family and friends, and the people that matter the most in my life. When you first meet me, I'm pretty quiet, maybe a little shy.Who I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone that is free loving, genuine, that love's his family as much as he likes his friends. Who know's how to joke around and laugh at his self as I'll laugh too. That won't be mad at me for laughing when you fall and I ask how you are as I'm laughing. A smartass, but knows when to be serious. Who's a hard worker, and takes pride in everything that he does. I don't demand a lot, but I do like to be pampered sometimes. I'm not a materialist woman, but the small things in life matter. I want a man that's honest, and I hope for open communication, that's a HUGE plus. I'm looking for a man that's serious about eventually settling down, and if you're looking for a "booty call" go look somewhere else. If you like what you've read, contact me. A great night out on the town.... Dinner, drinks... In the nicer weather, maybe a Tigers game, putt putt golf, or just taking a walk at the beach?

  • Celestina

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I just bought my first house. It's pretty awesome. I currently have three cats. Just rescued a new kitty and now there are three. The third i am fostering until december for some friends who cannot afford to have him in their apartment. When they move out of that apartment in december they'll be taking the little one. Please understand that I will always want cats. I have nothing against dogs. I just never had a dog. I wouldn't know what to do to raise one. If I could have a dog, I'd probably get an Irish terrier. They are so pretty and energetic. I'm down with having all kinds of animals if it works out. Also the house doesn't currently have a fence so can't really have a dog right now. All the neighborhood dogs like to come visiting though which is funny and sweet. They will come just onto the grass and bark at me a bunch and then wander away after I start barking back at them. What? I am certain someday we will break the animal language barrier. See first interest. :)I love to bake and decorate cakes. Decorating appeals to my creative side. I'd love to make this a full time career someday. I also embroider, quilt and paint when I can. One of my favorite things to do is swim. I swam competitively for 12 years growing up. I like working out but, obviously, don't do it as often as I should. It not that I'm lazy but I don't see the point in getting all skinny so some man can objectify me as a sex object. I prefer lifting to cardio (because cardio is boring and doesnt burn as many calories once you stop as lifting) unless the cardio is swimming. Swimming is awesome.Right now I work at a printing company. I'm an assistant manager. I love the people I am working with and the work that I do. I also work for my dad at a small manufacturing company my grandpa started in the 60s. I'm an independent sort of woman. The traditional ideas of romance just don't do it for me. I may scream pretty loud at that big bug but i'll still kill it with my hockey stick. What I am looking for in a man is kindness, strength, confidence and stability. I don't play games and neither should you. Unless it's a board, tabletop, or video game. If you are one of those men who is convinced that men are the superior sex, well you're wrong and it's not gonna work out between us. I'm a sucker for blue eyes. I've got a couple of tats. I guess that's important to some people. I have a unicorn leaping over a moon on my shoulder and a red dragon on my calf. One good thing about this site is the plethora of animal pics. Other things I've noticed about this site: everyone is funny and sarcastic to a fault. I am also sarcastic and can usually give as good as i get. And loves to travel!! I like road trips. I don't have a passport. There are ***national parks, monuments, and forests in this fair country and I want to see them all. If I visit one a year, I'm gonna live forever!75% of you are "awesome". Which is just silly. We can't all be awesome. 99% of the bald men wear hats in their profile pics. 10% never take the hat off. There are indeed a large amount of mirror pics. I'm a little disturb as to how y'all know how many of the other men post mirror pics. What's up with that?Oh and 50% of the men on here reference some kind of brownie points for knowing what movie/tv show the headline is from. Really? Is this still high school where we can make up our grade point average by doing extra credit? Oh and brownie points for whomever can tell me the origin of my headline. BTW, 86% of statistics are made up on the spot. Of the men who don't date BBW, and actually say so in their profiles, most are under the impression that if a woman is fat she doesn't take pride in herself, is lazy or doesn't care about her health. Thin/skinny/average/athletic does not necessarily equate healthy. If fact more often than not, it doesn't. Too often people, male and female, believe if they exercise then that can eat whatever they want. This is simply not the case. You can be not attracted to Big Beautiful Women legitimately without assuming how they got to be that way. All you have to put is, "I'm sorry, I'm not into BBW." Period, no qualifiers. BTW, i am likely to message you if there is something in your profile I have never heard of before. for example, what the heck is kcco? Okay now I know that it means "Keep Calm Chive On". So why are we talking about garnishes? **actually show up. I've been stood up twice. Pretty ridiculous. Woo! State fair is happening right meow! A good first date in the summer would be to go somewhere with A/C. The old stand by of a nice dinner and a movie works great for summer. I prefer action movies to romcoms. In the winter it would be to go somewhere outside, assuming it actually gets cold. Neat restaurants, art or science museums, something interactive.Oh, I hate sushi. My first year of college I was a marine biology major. There are some things you just can't get out of your head.

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