SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HelaineOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.
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AmericaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I love to dance! I enjoy Country and good ole Rock N Roll.I am shy until I get to know you.I am a people person who enjoys the outdoors in the spring/summer. Love to cuddle. I enjoy doing different crafts, biking, walking, boating, going to the beach, camping , bird watching and much more.I am not here looking for anything sexual, looking for friends to get to know and have good times as life is too short not to enjoy it! I like honesty so if you are one of those people we will get along otherwise please don't waste my time or yours! Also, I don't care for braggers. Yes, it's nice to have nice things and want to show them off but I don't like people who constantly brag about themselves or things because that is not what makes a friendship or relationship in my eyes, either it comes from the heart or not at all! I would love to have a handyman, jack of all trades and someone Not afraid to get their hands dirty ( as in work), as my dad told me it's okay to get your hands dirty as they are washable! I don't care for the laid back lazy type, rather watch someone else do the work, no thanks Not interested!Also, if you can't show a picture of yourself it tells me you have something to hide and I'm Not interested! I'm not here to be a home wrecker! I know what it feels like and Never want to feel it again or be the cause of one!I'm also very tired of people using me and when I could use a hand where are there, No Where to be found! Some call me a ****, so guess what! That's what they will get from here on out! Treat me as you would like to be treated Otherwise, Don't waste my time cause I'm tired of liers, users, free loaders and cheaters and don't trust anyone anymore so you have to Earn my Trust! Dinner and dancing
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LisOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
First off I will say that honesty and communication is a major part of a relationship. I am looking for someone within an hour drive or so from where I live. Someone taller than me would be nice. No "i'm on paroIe or probation" or prison record - need not respond. I live on a 40 acre hobby farm with dogs, horses, birds, a cat and my 11 year old son who I have full custody of. You must be fine with all that cause its part of who I am. I love my little place and it keeps me busy. Often you can find me with a shovel, chainsaw, hammer, or wrench in my hand. Like to visit the city but the country life is for me. I stay active and usually have lots of little projects going. But that is part of life...goals and the drive to better yourself and your surroundings and achieve them. I work hard and play hard. Need that mutual spark! Heavy multi-tasker at work which carries over to my home life. Seems like I go thru life at a run sometimes. Like to go on vacation whether somewhere warm for a few weeks in winter, boating or campung in summer. Your picture is a must for me to respond. Coffee or a****ail or fun event.