SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HelaineOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.
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TamzenOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I am looking for a long term relationship. One night stands need not apply. I need someone who can capture my heart and my brain first.I want someone I can get crazy with on Saturday nights, and attend church with me on Sunday morning. I'm a passionate woman searching for passionate man. I love great eyes. I want someone who can make me feel safe and loved with just a look or touch. Also, a definite plus would be tall and well educated. I want someone who will keep me as mentally stimulated during the day as physically stimulated at night. I still believe in love at first site. And treating a lady like a lady. And you should act like a man. Open my doors, order my drink for me, and push me up against the wall for a good night kiss. I believe in long, slow kisses that last for days. And I believe that you need to capture my brain and my heart first.
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ParticiaOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am a tree hugging, laid back chemical dependency counselor. I facilitate groups in art and music therapy. My children are grown and I turned the second bedroom into an art studio. I enjoy live music in cafes, Sons of Anarchy and Big Bang Theory. I enjoy movies and my all time favorite is "What the Bleep do We Know". I have tattoos and piercings (that is not a mole on my face). My son is my tattoo artist. I am looking for a companion, one to hang out with, go places with and in general communicate with and of course be physically involved. Yes, monogamy is required, but living together is not. I have a great family and good friends and I am highly involved with them as well as work. I do not need a companion who needs me all the time, I am independent and need you to be independent as well. With that said, I want more contact than once a month, preferably a night together once a week at least and some form of communication text or call about every other day. It is also nice to have someone who is interested in my career and is there for me to share exciting or even sad news with when something comes up. I too will be there for you as well to cheer you on or cheer you up when needed. I am humorous, a great communicator and absolutely luscious. I love coffee but I am open to meeting anywhere as long as we can talk. I do not like crowds nor do I like places so loud you cannot talk.