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Barbara, 42

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About Me

I guess this is where I have to condense my life into a few short paragraphs, I will give it a shot. But I have to say-these profiles are mind-numbing, my account has ***matches nearby,and well honestly I lose interest after the first 12. I have always tried to keep my life well balanced. Spending time with family, friends, and on myself. I know what I want and where I am headed. I am pretty down to earth, way too honest, I hate drama, especially in my own life.I love spending time outside, you won’t find me in a gym, I would rather hike, walk or run outside. I will get on a treadmill as my last alternative, but it is way too boring. I have two amazing boys 8 and 10 who are always on the go. They live with me half of the time, maybe a little more. But our favorite place is just the good old outdoors, we can always find something on a walk/hike that is worth learning or to remember. We recently went on a overnight campout, and slept in a tent that I built, and a I have to say faster than the other guy!In my free time I can be found running, at the farmer’s market, cooking up a summer batch of my much requested salsa, or reading a book with a nice glass of wine. I don’t like to watch sports on TV much, or TV really, but I love going to baseball or hockey games.I was married for 15 years and get along well with my ex, no drama, just friends.Well short but sweet, I guess, it is a very small caption of me. I am very happy with my life, but as with everything I think there is always room for more..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i love watching movies, hanging out with the girls, always love to laugh im quite the smartass.i believe laughter is good for the soul..i love to cook and my favorite music is techno because it makes me want to dance plus puts me in a great mood but i do love all kinds of music except for opera just cant listen to that lol. id like to meet someone who is honest enjoys a good laugh and has good work ethics.

  • Talullah

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ok, so not sure what to put here.. But here goes.. I'm loyal, faithful and honest to a fault. Im far to old to play games. So you wont have to guess with me.I'd like to meet someone who's not into games, can take me as I am without attempting to change me. Can be there for me when i need someone and can back off when i dont. I dont want someone who wants to control my life but is willing to *** and be a part of it.I do not play games and wont be played. I am strong and independant. I dont need to be told that i need to loose weight or quit smoking, i'm very well aware of my faults and would rather not have them pointed out on a daily basis. I've alot to give the right person, and i'm loyal to a fault.Update: I actually quit smoking (again) in November of last year. I use an ECig now, and it gives me the kick I love without all the added chemicals which are harmful. I've joined a gym (again last year) and I'm working on getting healthier re my weight. I'm proud of my accomplishments and am working to continue this work. I like who I am!Note to those interested in me: I feel compelled to write this as its been my experiance that alot of the men who talk to me here seem inclined to jump right into discussing Sex. I'm not comfortable discussing sex with someone I dont really know yet. I'm sorry if this offends you, but i find it extremely disconcerting that alot of the guys I meet here, think its ok to jump right onto the sex topic after only a conversation or two. I need to take this slow. I'm an open and honest woman, i like sex as much if not more than most. However I dont want to be used. I want you to take the time to get to know me and I you before we become intimate. If this isnt what you want, i understand. I insist on being treated with respect. I'm not a pick-up in a bar who's too drunk to care about whats said to them. I'd love a little romance and surprise in my life

  • Gladys

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    ...anyone else going?Ok, im starting to feel like I look like Quasimodo ....Please...if you're not looking for something that could turn into forever....if you're just looking for someone to fill your time for a while or for friends with benefits...I'm not your girl. Save us both some time and go on to the next profile, ok? MUST LOVE TO SNUGGLE....and to touch and be touched. I'm not necessarily talking sexual......I love to touch..things....people...whatever. I'm a toucher. If you don't like being touched, in passing, while watching tv, driving down the road holding hands, walking and holding hands, etc....you need not apply. Also, it would be nice to have someone contact me first....you know, text me good morning or whatever...I'm not doing it any more. If we have a conversation going, it's going to take both of us to KEEP it going. Not just me saying hello and you saying "oh yeah, I was talking to her, wasn't I?"Ok, I'm to the point where I am either going to settle for someone I'm not attracted to or become a cat lady. And I'm definitely not going to settle, so.... Is there no one out there who is honest, goes to church, has a job, has teeth, has a picture with a smile, loves dogs and cats, and knows how to treat a woman with love and honor? I want what Phil and Ms Kay have. Am I asking for too much? It would also be good if communication wasn't a problem. If you're dating someone, is it wrong to expect at least a "good morning" and "good night", at the very least?I'm very serious about my church and my God. If this is a problem for you, then you need not apply. I love to sing, and do karaoke whenever I can. But I would much rather sit around a bonfire with friends, jamming and singing, cooking a steak or burgers, roasting marshmallows, than go out to a bar. Some friends and I have started a contemporary Christian band, called Christian Revolution, in which I sing backup. We're still in the practicing stage, but we already have invitations to sing at a couple of places, not to mention playing at our church, reaching out to our community. I am very excited about this.I have a really great, offbeat sense of humor. Some don't get it. Some get mad because of it. lol. Please, if you don't want someone with a sense of humor, don't knock on my door. I LOVE to laugh, but never at someone else's expense. Unless they're laughing, too. But if you fall down, all bets are off. I'm probably going to pee myself.Make no mistake, I'm looking for long term. I'm not looking to jump into marriage or anything, but I am looking for a life partner, with marriage an option in the future. If you aren't looking for something that could last, please don't waste either of our time?And of this is too needy and shallow for you....suck it up, cupcake.... A first date would most likely consist of meeting somewhere for coffee or drinks, and see where it goes from there.

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