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Alfredia, 41

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About Me

I’m seeking commitment, and hoping to find it with an intelligent, attractive and engaging man who values substance.Life is about learning lessons and moving forward with the information given. Therefore, I know what I want, AND, what I don't want. I do not waste time playing games with peoples feelings and emotions. If you like someone, tell them. If you don't, simply move on.I'm looking for an honest, loyal, funny, charming, romantic, optimistic, confident, handsome, affectionate, passionate, CHIVALROUS man! May sound like a lot but I also bring a lot to the table. :)I want to explore this amazing planet so someone who loves to travel is important! Someone worldly and deep with a spiritual twist. I live my life right, I do right by others. I firmly believe in Karma! What goes around will ALWAYS come back around. Treat people how you expect to be treated and always help the less fortunate! Chemistry is VERY important to me. With that said, I'm looking for the guy I look at and can't explain what I'm feeling. The guy I kiss and we look at each other, smile, and say WOW! The exceptional and indescribable. I'm not looking for a guy I can live with, I'm looking for one I can't live without. Not a perfect person but the perfect person for ME!! My bff!!! I know you are out there somewhere....I think it's also important for you to know that God is very important to me. I don't judge or push my beliefs on anyone, however, ideally I'd like to find someone who walks the same spiritual path as myself.P.S. If you have any negativity in you or any type of drama at all PLEASE move along. I'm a drama free, happy person who LOVES life! =} Something casual. Starbucks and a walk would be perfect. If there are sparks we can look forward to planning something next time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kirsti

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just a good old southern girl that loves her kids....sweet tea....cool weather...bonfires....football...baseball...puppies....Christmas...snuggling on the couch....and the list goes on. All these things would be even better with a good man to enjoy them with! True love doesn't come around very often....grab it when you get the chance!!What you'll find is a HUGE heart with lots of love for that special someone. I am defintely a giver....not a taker. What's tough is finding that person that can appreciate *** taking advantage!!! With all that said....I want to be a priority in a partner's life...not just one of many options. I've always said that my best quality is also my biggest fault.....In the process of really moving my life forward. Great new opportunity with work....kids that have been more wonderful than I could ask for lately....and finally getting healthier for myself....lost 15 pounds the last six weeks and feeling better already. Opportunities in life bring us often to times of betterment!!Love isn’t perfect. It isn’t a fairy tale or a story book, and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go.Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it… together.You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again.But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh,cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes,hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking aboutyou every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze anddon't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."-- Bob MarleyLove is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude,it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians 13:***~

  • Shalon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hmmm what can I say about myself.... I am a single mom of 2 awesome children who I adore more than anything in the world. I have been divorced for 3 years. I am always busy with work or doing projects. Recently re modeled 2 rooms in my house which is very rewarding. I learned how to use a skilsaw and a jig saw. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats which are part of our small family.What I am looking for in a relationship is what everyone else looking for. I want an honest, caring and respectable man. I want a man who communicates if I do something wrong let me know don't keep it in. I feel honesty, trust and communication is the key to a relationship. I like doing things with my friends. I am independent which I have been told that is my downfall. I enjoy sport especially college basketball. I am a big Jayhawk fan. My first would like to meet in public have a nice dinner. After dinner go for a walk to get know each other better.

  • Kaelyn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single mom of 3 who will be 41 in Aug of ***. I am somewhat quiet and shy until i get to know people. I enjoy the simple things in life like picnics, feeding the ducks, playing in the rain with my kids. I love being with family and friends. I like cook outs, baking, cooking, reading, music, movies, crafts, games (board and card) wii, fishing, and so much more. I am who I am, I don't hide behind lies. You get what you see. I am truthful and loyal to whomever I am with and do whatever I can to make them happy. Some people who know me say I tend to spoil people too much but I love to give to the people who are special in my life. I can only dream that one day i will have someone who appreciates what I do for them.

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