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Herminia, 45
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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About Me

Are you're looking for an honest woman? Someone who won't lie to you, play games, cheat, be crazy, do drugs, whine, pout and fight? Well, I'm the one that will restore your faith in love and in women. I keep hearing men talk about some of the women they've dated and it just shocks me. I can't imagine acting the way some women do.I'm honest, open, understanding, loving, kind, intelligent, independent and have strong values. I love to laugh and make others laugh, I enjoy good conversation, travelling, reading, jazz music, art, stand up comedy and many other interests. I treat my boyfriends well - I tend to look for the good in each person and am extremely understanding. I give the benefit of the doubt and seek to understand the reason behind behaviors and prefer to talk things out rather than jump to conclusions and fly off the handle. I'm currently seeking a new exercise regime this summer and would love to have a partner to join me.Some of my favorite activities are reading --), playing with my doggie, sitting on the back deck enjoying nature, viewing the night sky, smelling fresh rain during a thunderstorm, visiting small towns and shopping in local shops, listening to or watching stand up comedy, drinking wine in front of a fire while listening to jazz, spending time with friends, walking/hiking/biking, and I love being on or near water! I enjoy most types of music except metal and gangsta rap, but I have to admit I'm not very fond of going to concerts....I'm not picky when it comes to physical characteristics - in fact, I tend to like men that have a little meat on their bones! :-) I like bald men or men with hair, I like facial hair or no facial hair. I'm seeking a man that is down-to-earth, kind, considerate, thoughtful, talkative, funny, laid-back, and intelligent. I don't care what kind of job you have or how much you make - just as long as you find some fulfillment from it and can support yourself.I'm looking for a long-term relationship, hoping to lead to marriage someday. However, I like to take things slow and truly develop a friendship leading to the LTR. I don't know if I believe in soulmates, but I do hope to marry someone that I can call my best friend. I believe that couples should boost each other, be there for each other, make each other better and be a team, a partnership...you and me against the world kind of thing. Oh and to explain my parenting situation - I have a 25 year old son that is currently living with me while he finishes his final year of college. Then he'll be off to another state to find his life. We're very close but obviously, he has his own life now.FYI: Not interested in long-distance relationship - To me, a great first date is a museum or fair (especially an art fair). It allows you to walk around and chat comfortably and yet fill in the "uncomfortable silences" that sometimes occur, with comments about the fair or museum exhibits. And of course, you'll know the first date was a success when you have NO CLUE about the exhibits you just walked past for an hour... :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, Looking for an adventurous man who likes to have fun. If I said let's get dive certified and head to Cozumel he would say "Yea Baby". Do you want to hike mountains with me and share a bottle of wine at the top? If you have kids the more the merrier. My babies are grown but we still love to have fun. Heads up I am very spiritual I attend church every weekend.So if your not in to something bigger then you move along. I am a busy woman working and going to school. I love participating in organized runs. I did a few ***marathons since I want to run until I am ***I have cut my runs down to trail runs and 5 & 10K's.I don't watch much TV much, sometimes I will catch Mike & Molly. I love music...I sing all the time when I am happy.Please if you have not been divorced for at least 3 years don't waste my time. Your not ready for a relationship. I don't want to be played and it takes at least 5 months to know someone before they start to show their true colors. Blessings in your search for love!

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you are looking for someone average you are not looking for me:)I know that everyone online is looking for something different. I am looking for a relationship. When you message me I will assume you are looking for the same. I am looking for someone who is not afraid to have some initiative in finding a relationship and is not afraid of falling in love.I am independent, intelligent and well educated. I have a career I enjoy. I am hard working in my professional and my personal life. I am financially stable. I am very liberal in my beliefs. I am a good conversationalist. Although it's fun, I don't think text messaging counts as conversation:)I can be funny and spontaneous. I love to laugh.I enjoy trying something different.I love to travel and would enjoy meeting someone else who feels the same.I am honest and up front. I am not going to play games.I am looking for someone close to my own age. I am a very caring person and when someone or something is important to me I am a very passionate person.I enjoy simple things like summer rain, thunder, leaves blowing in the air, the sun on my skin, the smell of pine trees, the sparkle of the stars, a full moon, a child's hug.I am fortunate to have a great deal to share with someone and recently realized I am still looking for that someone.I am looking for someone who is physically and emotionally healthy. Someone who wants to enjoy everything life has to offer. Someone intelligent and socially savvy. Someone who is independent and responsible but knows how to share. Coffee or a drink. Let's talk. Let's make it comfortable and get to know one another.

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  • Decima from Red Wing | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm just looking for a great guy. Plain and simple. Looking to find a guy who will treat me good, be my best friend and partner, who ultimately wants a family and wants to grow old together...I am an independent, career focused woman who knows who she is and what she wants out of life. I am close to my parents & they are an important part of my life. I have 2 dogs that are a bit high maintenance but have amazing personalities. I am settled, financially secure, and have a great deal to offer to the right person. I am well traveled and enjoy exploring the world and ideally would love to find someone who also enjoys that. I love exploring the history of Europe and have many more places on the list I want to see and visit. I am a happy, healthy, and well-balanced person. I’m not a big drinker and find that I don’t spend my weekends at bars…instead you could probably find me at Home Depot or doing projects around the house. I have a good sense of humor, a bit sarcastic but love a guy who can make me laugh. I make life happen for me vs. waiting around for it to happen to me. Ultimately, I am searching for a great guy to develop a long term relationship over time. Chemistry is a must...preferably insane chemistry. I want to be so excited every time I see him and at some point I want to just love waking up next to him every morning and have him be the last thought on my mind at night. I'm not in a rush for anything...the most important thing is that I'm spending time with the right person...that's worth everything.You are secure, financially stable, have passion for your career, settled down, mature, a good communicator, committed to resolving conflict, loyal, and most of all...a good kisser. You possess a good sense of humor and are looking for the right person to spend your life with. You are open to having a family. If you're still reading this...Message me. I prefer coffee or meeting for a drink on the first date. Keep it casual.

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