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Herminia, 45
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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Are you're looking for an honest woman? Someone who won't lie to you, play games, cheat, be crazy, do drugs, whine, pout and fight? Well, I'm the one that will restore your faith in love and in women. I keep hearing men talk about some of the women they've dated and it just shocks me. I can't imagine acting the way some women do.I'm honest, open, understanding, loving, kind, intelligent, independent and have strong values. I love to laugh and make others laugh, I enjoy good conversation, travelling, reading, jazz music, art, stand up comedy and many other interests. I treat my boyfriends well - I tend to look for the good in each person and am extremely understanding. I give the benefit of the doubt and seek to understand the reason behind behaviors and prefer to talk things out rather than jump to conclusions and fly off the handle. I'm currently seeking a new exercise regime this summer and would love to have a partner to join me.Some of my favorite activities are reading --), playing with my doggie, sitting on the back deck enjoying nature, viewing the night sky, smelling fresh rain during a thunderstorm, visiting small towns and shopping in local shops, listening to or watching stand up comedy, drinking wine in front of a fire while listening to jazz, spending time with friends, walking/hiking/biking, and I love being on or near water! I enjoy most types of music except metal and gangsta rap, but I have to admit I'm not very fond of going to concerts....I'm not picky when it comes to physical characteristics - in fact, I tend to like men that have a little meat on their bones! :-) I like bald men or men with hair, I like facial hair or no facial hair. I'm seeking a man that is down-to-earth, kind, considerate, thoughtful, talkative, funny, laid-back, and intelligent. I don't care what kind of job you have or how much you make - just as long as you find some fulfillment from it and can support yourself.I'm looking for a long-term relationship, hoping to lead to marriage someday. However, I like to take things slow and truly develop a friendship leading to the LTR. I don't know if I believe in soulmates, but I do hope to marry someone that I can call my best friend. I believe that couples should boost each other, be there for each other, make each other better and be a team, a partnership...you and me against the world kind of thing. Oh and to explain my parenting situation - I have a 25 year old son that is currently living with me while he finishes his final year of college. Then he'll be off to another state to find his life. We're very close but obviously, he has his own life now.FYI: Not interested in long-distance relationship - To me, a great first date is a museum or fair (especially an art fair). It allows you to walk around and chat comfortably and yet fill in the "uncomfortable silences" that sometimes occur, with comments about the fair or museum exhibits. And of course, you'll know the first date was a success when you have NO CLUE about the exhibits you just walked past for an hour... :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Edithe from Red Wing | Woman | 42 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ***NO JOB***NO CAR*** ***PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME***So I have come to the conclusion that I will not meet my soul mate at the grocery store so we will give this a try. I am the best friend you never had. I am true to myself and others. I'm very easy going, down to earth girl who has lots of love to give. I like to have fun and enjoy life. I am not Barbie, more like the stepsister, so if your looking for a size 10 you can stop reading and move on to the next profile because that is not me. I am a Voluptuous woman and happy with who I am. My life has revolved around my children and they are young adults living their own life now so now its my turn. Time to be me and live my life so here I am! Open for ideas :) I will also throw this out there.....Bring it on..LOLI Love 80's music!!!!! Oh and one more thing...I dont cook much (trust me its safer) but I am a pro at making reservations :)Not looking for one night stands, FWB or secret sex partners if that is what your looking for **DO NOT CONTACT ME**

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  • Jocelyn from Red Wing | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an extremely curious person, which sometimes gets me into a bit of mischief. I use humor in all aspects of my life whether dealing with a client at work or with friends and family. I am a country girl born and raised but love to travel, explore, see plays and musicals, go to museums, etc. I am independent and assertive. I do have an opinion but express it in an appropiate way. Trust me one's h***'9") has nothing to do with their personality or the way they can handle themselves. I believe in compromise and kissing your partner good night because you never know if that will be your last opportuntunity to express yourself. I believe in romance. Does anyone understand the concept anymore? I am a passionate person whether it's an idea or concept, or a relationship. I am silly, sensual, adventurous, like to cuddle, and seems to be a magnetic to just about any type of critter. I love flowers, butterflies, and most animals.I'm looking for a man who is open-minded, excepting of others, funny, curious, adventurous, and honest. I'm looking for that special person who makes me smile with a random thought and lets me know he's missed me by the way he looks at me. A man who makes me feel special in simple ways. Someone who likes to cuddle, take walks, or spend a weekend exploring new areas or just each other. I'm not looking for a game player or someone who needs a certian type of woman to make him feel good. Family and friends are important and so is sharing those important to me with a special someone. I WILL NOT respond to you if you live too far away. IN ADDITION: If you have been communicating with someone by messages, chat, and/or phone and then just disappear without an explaination it is game playing. I don't need it and don't want it.Please don't add me to your favorites if you have no intention of contacting me. If all you're interested in is a hook-up don't bother, not interested. This is a process so please don't except me to meet you on the first message because I won't. It is important to me that we get to know each other a little bit through online messages, texting, phone, etc before we have our first meet. This process doesn't have to take months but it is necessary and required. If I sound like a bossy, **** I'm sorry because I'm not. I'm just wanting to make things clear so you understand what is important to me. Wow, describe a first date. Let's see. IF it was the right time of year I think I would plan a day at Hidden Lake Gardens. We would spend time walking the gardens and trails, talking and sharing stories so we can get to know each other. We could sit next to thhe pond and watch the swans and other wildlife enjoy their day. At some point find a secluded spot to have a picnic. Then if we choose to stay after dark we could enjoy the sunset and the night sky through an opening in the trees. Some nights the Gardens even provides telescopes for more up close viewing.This I would not necessarily consider a first meeting but a first date. I believe there is a difference.The first meeting would be in a public places/ The location would depend on where you lived. A mall, restaurant, coffe shop, etc are all choices.

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  • Mui from Red Wing | Woman | 44 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single mother of a 9yr old daughter, looking for someone to hang out with, not at bars. I like to volunteer at schools, and I sew and craft, mainly beads and origami. I believe in family and making some great memories for my daughter and we are both pretty active. I really like to clean and cook pretty much any type of food from Greek to sushi (Bait). I think I was born in the wrong era as I have christian morals and pretty old fashioned views on keeping the house. Keep it honest and real and move forward. I mentor DV and addicted women, and seriously I don't have time to waste with someone who is not grounded or who is in emotional turmoil. Sorry, honesty is the best policy. Thanks for reading. Dinner then a walk - only if it is comfortable.

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