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Herminia, 45
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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About Me

Are you're looking for an honest woman? Someone who won't lie to you, play games, cheat, be crazy, do drugs, whine, pout and fight? Well, I'm the one that will restore your faith in love and in women. I keep hearing men talk about some of the women they've dated and it just shocks me. I can't imagine acting the way some women do.I'm honest, open, understanding, loving, kind, intelligent, independent and have strong values. I love to laugh and make others laugh, I enjoy good conversation, travelling, reading, jazz music, art, stand up comedy and many other interests. I treat my boyfriends well - I tend to look for the good in each person and am extremely understanding. I give the benefit of the doubt and seek to understand the reason behind behaviors and prefer to talk things out rather than jump to conclusions and fly off the handle. I'm currently seeking a new exercise regime this summer and would love to have a partner to join me.Some of my favorite activities are reading --), playing with my doggie, sitting on the back deck enjoying nature, viewing the night sky, smelling fresh rain during a thunderstorm, visiting small towns and shopping in local shops, listening to or watching stand up comedy, drinking wine in front of a fire while listening to jazz, spending time with friends, walking/hiking/biking, and I love being on or near water! I enjoy most types of music except metal and gangsta rap, but I have to admit I'm not very fond of going to concerts....I'm not picky when it comes to physical characteristics - in fact, I tend to like men that have a little meat on their bones! :-) I like bald men or men with hair, I like facial hair or no facial hair. I'm seeking a man that is down-to-earth, kind, considerate, thoughtful, talkative, funny, laid-back, and intelligent. I don't care what kind of job you have or how much you make - just as long as you find some fulfillment from it and can support yourself.I'm looking for a long-term relationship, hoping to lead to marriage someday. However, I like to take things slow and truly develop a friendship leading to the LTR. I don't know if I believe in soulmates, but I do hope to marry someone that I can call my best friend. I believe that couples should boost each other, be there for each other, make each other better and be a team, a partnership...you and me against the world kind of thing. Oh and to explain my parenting situation - I have a 25 year old son that is currently living with me while he finishes his final year of college. Then he'll be off to another state to find his life. We're very close but obviously, he has his own life now.FYI: Not interested in long-distance relationship - To me, a great first date is a museum or fair (especially an art fair). It allows you to walk around and chat comfortably and yet fill in the "uncomfortable silences" that sometimes occur, with comments about the fair or museum exhibits. And of course, you'll know the first date was a success when you have NO CLUE about the exhibits you just walked past for an hour... :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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