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Carlin, 43

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About Me

Hi there…thanks for stopping by. I am a responsible, down to earth woman who is pretty versatile when it comes to what I enjoy. I am up for trying almost anything as long as it doesn’t involve jumping out of a plane! Dirty Girl Mud Run in June! I like to laugh and have a good time but I also know when to be serious and responsible. I love the outdoors in every season. Hanging on a beach, cabin in the woods, camping or hiking, a long bike ride or an evening out in the city. Cooking at home and watching a movie is a perfect way to spend an evening too! It really is all about spending time and being with that special someone.Confidence, honest, trustworthy, supportive, passionate, a good communicator, and a good sense of self awareness are some of the triats I possess and would like to find in my a partner. I think I have quick wit and look forward to be challenged..lol. I very much enjoy witty banter. All good relationships always start with a good friendship. The more we laugh the better! I want to find someone I can talk to for hours. I do know what I am looking for and what doesn't work for me. So if you struggle with your self confidence, depression, intimacy, or any type of substance abuse (legal & illegal), I am sorry but we will not be a match. If you are still here, send me a message and let’s see where this will go. Happy Fishing! Something casual..quick drink to determine if we want to get together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nyree

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm very outgoing and love life, my children and my Lord. I'm looking for a man that has the same passions. Love Music - R&B, Jazz and gospel. There's so much in life to enjoy when you find the right person everything falls into place. I enjoy shooting pool, going to plays, walks, dancing, romantic dinners, attending church, experiencing life, cultures and the world we live in. I enjoy hosting cookouts and get togethers. I like to cook in the kitchen with someone, positive energy and passion are my two favorite seasonings! I do believe in God and know I need a man that loves the Lord and wants to grow together. Two is better than one. I truly believe communication is the key, keep it real. Important to state I have 2 children that are bi-racial. Their father is black. I would consider a different race but i will remain true to myself. We cant help who we are attracted too. I like to workout at least 3 days a week so he should too. I like a man in Levi's and a suit. Gq style down to sweats. A great smile says hello before you even speak. If you want a love that's Extroidinary then come my way. An empireBuilt on love, strength and happiness! See me beyond my eyes, Hear me beyond my words,Feel me beyond my lips, Lay under a starry sky and feel my heartbeat.Lead with respect and dignity and I will follow.Do these things and you have my heart.The rest is a fairy tale romance.Stay true and stay blessed. Anywhere we can talk and see if there's chemistry. After that just go with the flow.

  • Ravenna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy doing things outdoors.

  • Nikita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I was raised by free-thinking, hippie, artists who gave me the gift of self exploration and expression and a sense that anything is possible. I am hard working, self motivated and driven as well as being really good at relaxing and doing nothing :)I am open-minded, open-hearted, and ever evolving.I'm doing my best to live in the moment and experience and enjoy every interaction and situation as it comes without expectation or attachment to outcome.I'm not necessarily searching for my next partner right now. I do want to eventually be in another long term, exclusive relationship and I would like to let that evolve naturally. Right now I am having a blast dating and getting to know some wonderful people.After ending a 20 year marriage it's great to be experiencing myself in relation to men in various forms of friendship and intimacy.I tend to be drawn to people who are bold, open, intelligent, strong, funny and joyful with a little bit of edge or grit...I believe that everyone who comes into our lives is there to teach us something and I am very much looking forward to all that I will learn.I don't drink at all because it doesn't agree with my stomach. I will say though, that I am relaxed and silly enough without it...Being with people who are drinking moderately doesn't bother me one bit. In my opinion the glass is neither half full nor half empty. It's FULL with half air and half liquid. Ha! What I’m doing with my life:Being an awesome mom to three daughters (16, 18 and 20). Holy shit! I have a 20 year old...Running my own business that allows me lots of time to explore other things.I'm the chair of the stewardship and fundraising committee at a kooky, left wing church. I am not at all religious but quite spiritual.I volunteer at CAMH, co-facilitating a skills/support group for parents of teens with severe emotion dysregulation.In the next five years I hope to buy a place in the country and gradually get to a point where I spend half my time there.I recycle and compost but every once in a while, when the fridge gets really bad, I will just dump it all in the garbage...I read a lot of non-fiction. I really enjoy books about spirituality and also sex, I read a lot of books about sex. Both theory and practical... in terms of fiction I mostly read dramas...I also enjoy a trashy magazine (people, us) from time to time.I love going to small intimate performances (cabaret, plays, music, comedy shows)I like all kinds of food and I'm a pretty great cook. I don't eat out very often and I try to focus on eating mostly fresh and healthy food.I don't like eggplant!I think that meeting in person is the best way to really get a sense of each other so let's do that right away :) Just a casual face to face to see if we want to get to know each other a bit more. Coffee or tea, a walk in the park...

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