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i'm a woman that has already been married more than once so i really havent decided what to believe as far as "forever after"and if its real.i've seen that kind of love in my life but its been few and far between!alas is such!lol!i have a great love of life and family and all the wonders that surround me.all my kids are grown and i'm wondering what this big ole' world has to offer.there is so much i want to experience yet,and that i want to see!hmmmm,my hobbies,well i sew,and cook[]actually my newest hobby has been feeding the coons that come up through a hole under my sink!lol!i swear they send out a scout then the scout goes back and relays to the rest'hey!we have an ellie mae!and she has food and thinks we are cute!then,before you know it,you walk into your kitchen and grandpa coon[BIG grandpa coon]is sitting up on his hind end sniffin the air for somethin yummy.i didnt know what to say to him[as i opened a can of tuna for him]cept..hey big boy,whatcha doin in my neck of the woods?lol!yes,i know they can be dangerous,and carry dieases....so can human males and i still talk and sometimes feed them too!lol!my goals and aspirations...happiness,no matter if you got a million bucks,or not a red cent.and to be able to pass that knowledge of happiness to my kids and their kids...oh,and to always be 'the cool aunt frankie','mama bushaye'[did they hurt you my boy?!]and always to be told'your such a hippy!'what makes me unique? coz i'm the only one!lol![whew!there's a few thanking GOD for that!]and unconditional love..which i learnrd from my mama.'good or bad,right or wrong,even if i dont agree with your choices,if i love ya,i love ya,and nothing can change that.my taste in music is as varied as me,i love it all.i'm a sucker for musicians[guitarists] and bikers...please send pics of guitars and bikes first.....lol!just kidding![kinda..lol] what would i do for a first date?there are many fun things to do and you usually know within the first 20 minutes or less if you want to be there or not....i love to laugh..does that help?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delicia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a good blend of traditional and modern values. I believe in the concepts of love and marriage and expect my guy to believe in the same. I'm nurturing, peaceful and level headed. I don't love staying up late and I don’t love to party. However, I do enjoy just sitting, talking and staring into each others eyes. I believe an ideal relationship is complete and utter comfort. We can be ourself around each other without feeling judged, shamed or boring. We enjoy doing everything together, we can happily sit next to each other doing separate things and the days just aren't as much fun without the other person by our side. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Passionate deep rooted love making and warm comforting cuddling are ever present but not expected on any specific schedule. Fights are rare and when one does happen, we remain calm, considerate and respectful of one another. We believe in talking until we've reached some sort of peace and not in childish games like the silent treatment.We don't have to agree on everything, but the willingness to discuss things intelligently and the understanding that “differences” aren't relationship “; becomes our motto. We tread through each stage of a new relationship at which ever pace feels right, not by a calendar. This journey is taken without the fear of communicating doubts or concerns which will prevent getting too far down the path only to realize one of us stopped somewhere along the way.Communication, truth (and trust ) as well as unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love will be our recipe for a lasting long-term relationship and hopefully more!I have been in other relationships, and hopefully so have you...So what I am bringing to the table is the knowledge that flossing is important ~ and laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, work for it; don't run from problems. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally ~ it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.I am a very upfront "say it like it is" and deal with the facts kind of girl. I am an awesome 44 year old female that dresses with care and has embraced my size. My mate will need to do the same. My profile declares that my body type is “prefer not to say" and I chose this because I am fully aware that the majority of men envision a perfect (or average) woman's body type as a size 0 and someone with a few extra pounds as obese. I am 5' 4" and weigh with in a range of ***— ***lbs ~ depending on the season. This places me in a pant size ***. No secrets, no illusions...love me for me or please catch another fish..I love traveling the world and experiencing new cultures, different communities and various lifestyles... Are you in?I know we are all on here to find the "one", please take the time to read my entire profile. If you contact me and I don't respond, it is only because in one way or another you didn't match one of the below listed "must haves". If you took the time to read this far I am definitely blessed and grateful, but please do us both a favor and read the following before contacting me:We all want a relationship and I am respectful of that. I only date one person at a time. However you have to be willing to let me determine when it is that I feel comfortable enough for our first meeting. I like to get to know you in messaging, then texting, calling, then meeting. I am not up to anything mischevious its just my personal preference for security and certainty.PLEASE**Non smokers only*Have no children or only children 18 & older *Note that I am not active daily, not a sports fanatic, and not a workout machine — I truly am a homebody*Know you DO NOT want kids in the future...this is important as I DO NOT and CAN NOT*Understand I am a spiritual person — with my own personal faith, beliefs and way of practicing — but I do not attend church and odds are.. I won't.*Note-- I am scared to death of motorcycles and will not get on one, and CAN NOT DATE a mate that rides one.*You have to like to travel to tropical locations and more!*My life requires someone that understands the difference between being "unhealthy" and "unable" and is not frightened by or turned off by medical complications.**Lastly, you must love pets, especially dogs! My first date could be anywhere that allows for a chance to talk, and look into each others eyes. This is my favorite way of knowing whats inside a person. The first date could be short, it could be long, but either way it should be public, yet private enough to talk. The first date for me will come after we've built up such chemistry messaging and on the phone that when I open the door and see you, we both want to smile, and for a brief moment...no jitters. (Does that really happen...we shall see)

  • Lindy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a divorced woman with two children, 17 and 15 . I am looking for a man to date. I enjoy being with someone who makes me laugh and does not take himself too seriously. I want a man who will take a chance.I am not interested in messaging for weeks.You have to meet a person to get to know them. I would like to build a relationship based on friendship.. It depends on the interests of both people.

  • Kathyrn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy life and having fun. Looking for someone who would like the same and would like to have a partner to do it with. Life is short and I want to experience all I can while I am here. I enjoy all times of the year but summer and fall are my favorites. In the summer there is nothing like sitting on a beach, being out in a boat with friends and family or a friendly game of golf is always a great way to spend the day too. When night falls upon us a campfire is the most relaxing place to be, alone is nice but having a friend or that special someone with you makes the night just about perfect. When cooler days and nights come it's Football time and I love to watch the Packers. This past year I had the perfect day, big screen TV on the deck, fire in the pit and a beautiful cool afternoon.......the colors are fantastic!!I’m open to short-term dating (because it’s fun), but know that I am dating with an eye for the long term. I'm not in a rush to get there and I know I will find the love I am looking for some day.Ultimately I am looking for someone that not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. I am looking for a partner where I can find complete and utter comfort. Someone I can be myself around without feeling judged and they can do the same. The knowing you don't always have to be doing things together but just the presence of each other is what makes you feel content. A relationship where two people communicate often. My ultimate dream would to be in a partnership where unprecedented generosity and unconditional love creates a life long union. I am looking for a companion, my best friend, the person I may spend the rest of my life with. Could it be you? We have all had past relationships and the dreams you had did not die there, they died with that person but there is someone else out there for us to help achieve our dreams.We are all on are own journey, each of us have a path to take. We all will find a place in life where there is joy and when you are at that point it is meant to be shared. Some people you share that joy with are in your life for a reason, a season, a lifetime.... all three are good, but its up us to find out which one is for a lifetime. I have lot's of joys and blessings in my life and I want to share that, I am ready to start the process of finding my "lifetime" :)I answer just about any questions so if there is something you would like to know please ask. Thanks for reading my profile. Good Luck with your Search! Go out for dinner or a drink. If Spring would ever get here a walk is always nice too.

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