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About Me

My hobbies are swimming ,playing darts,fishing,BBQ 'ing, I like camping, working out, and gardening . Im looking for someone who I can someday be with for a longtime . I'm not into games,drama,liars,and cheater's. Chemistry is very important, without it theirs no point. I'm a happy, easy going woman who loves to laugh and do spontaneous things. I'm confident,and independent who is not shy to speak my mind .I love being romanced and treated with respect, so don't think I sleep with anyone I don't love it's not going to happen. Best of all I love being loved and giving love. I'm very picky because a fling is not what I'm looking for ,it's to find a life long partner so plz understand it's not personal if I don't respond I jus don't want to mislead anyone on. My ideal first date would be at a place to talk and get to know each other. So not the movies.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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