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Sheelagh, 44

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About Me

I'm 43 been divorced for 7 years I have 4 boys ages 24,22,21,17. I want to start off finding someone that wants to be friends and see were it goes???? I have a fulltime job and love to do my own thing when I have a chance to but I would love to find someone to hang out with and do dinner movies just have fun!!! Im a people person so Im not shy love life its to short never know what tomorrow might bring so laugh and live life!!!! Dont need drama have had plenty and dont want it!!! Want a guy that when you go out its fun good conversation and who knows!!!! Dont want any guy that is looking for just a one nite stand or to play with my heart!!!!! Have noticed on this site to many guys say that want a relationship but all that really want is to play with your head and heart!! I want to go out with a guy who loves to talk have really good conversation so we can really get to know each other!!! Dinner a long walk enjoying eachs others company, most of the time and this to me is true you can tell over dinner and conversation if there is any chemistry!!! Want to laugh have a great time!!! So if your that guy well we will see!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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