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Fedelma, 37
United States, Minnesota, Hutchinson

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About Me

I am petite...5'3" and ***lbs...yet I am full of life. I am youthful in looks & personality...no one has ever been able to guess my age. (Most people think I look 25!) I've been described as upbeat, outgoing, fun, honest, reliable, business minded, and loyal. I am fiercely loyal to my friends and to my man. I am an urban girl who is passionate about the city and all its culture. Working out regularly is a priority for me, as I am into health & fitness. I like to crack people up...I have a disarming sense of humor that can bring out the fun side of even the most reserved person. But I've also been told that I'm a good person to come to when someone needs guidance, and I am very supportive of friends and family. Integrity is a big part of who I am. Music is a significant passion for me. I listen to everything from rock and pop, dance and r&b, jazz and blues, to salsa and samba, and world music. But I am equally content just kicking back with you, watching sports, relaxing with a good movie, or talking about what's important to you. I am an open book and I have depth, so I can tell you more about my background if you're interested in getting to know me.I am attracted to a guy who is confident without being arrogant. A guy who takes initiative, and who is comfortable in his own skin, articulate, a great communicator, open minded, fun, and respectful. I especially relate well to someone who is ambitious and passionate. Diversity is welcome...I have had great connections with men who work in a field different from my own, or have a few different interests from mine. Keeps things exciting! Ultimately, I am looking for someone who is happy in his life, down to earth, and grounded. I believe it starts with a good connection and an interest in learning from each other. My suggestions for a first date would depend on the interests of the person I'll be meeting. Generally, I like to meet for a couple drinks to get to know each other. Very laid back.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Pop British Canadian Comedy Crime History Romance Boxing
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    Ok, dang...didn't think that I would be forced to take this step again! I don't go out much, not because I can't, I don't prefer it, so I am going to attempt a cyber meeting. My profile says I "want to date with nothing serious", well I eventually want a serious relationship. We all do. I have dated alot and fell in love, got hurt, several times, moving on. I want to meet people, due to the fact that I am fairly new to the area. I prefer the company of a comical, talkative, sensitive, outgoing, sweet, not afraid of PDA kind of a fella. I am a romantic, I believe in I love you's everyday.....if not several times a day, a kiss goodnight, good morning, good bye, and hello. I like to get "I'm thinking of you" texts through out my day. I am not an expensive high maintenance girl. I don't require you to pay my bills or buy me dinner or a movie. If you WANT to pay for the date, that'll just be brownie points for you, but not a requirement.....I am a fun person, don't plan to put out on the first, second, maybe not even tenth date. I just want a REAL boy! No Pinocchios! I don't like working around a branch for a nose! In other words, DON'T BE A LIAR! Or a cheater, back stabber, dead beat dad, or just a plain mean dude...... Chivalrous! Not a knight in shining armor per say, that would be fashion suicide these days. ?? Also, I have to say, I don't like to see guys post pictures on these dating sites with there kids or nephews or nieces or any other children! Don't you know the world we live in now a days? I like kids, just don't put there innocent little faces on here for freaks to look at and do unlawful down right disgusting things to them. If you have kids, whether they are yours or your distant relatives youngsters, it's alright. I have one of my own. I didn't say it cause it's a deal breaker! Don't run! ALSO, let me just put this out there now! Not that I feel I need to explain myself or anything. But, in the section where it says body type, I did choose a few extra pounds. Because I am in fact, chubby. But I can run, I can ride in a car, I even wear skinny jeans. I'm not huge. But I don't want you boys to be misconceived or scared. I've learned in my ancient age, looks aren't everything. I know there has to be attraction, but I've learned that personality is the key and can make anyone attractive. I can't stand it when dudes write in there profiles and say mean stuff about chicks like about weight, looks, money... I know there are standards, but come on, your no better than anyone else! If you were you wouldn't be in a dating site would you? So climb down off of your slightly too high horse and join us in the real world won't you....it's not all that great all of the time and you need to be a realist, but we don't always bite, hard!! And BTW, if I only had bones, we couldn't wrestle, I have muscular legs and can take you down, wanna try me? In other words, flab is fab! ?? First dates start on the phone. Please have texting capabilities, I prefer to text before calling! And PLEASE PLEASE.....

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