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I have come to realize that there are some things I cannot compromise on and others that I can. My family is very important to me, and I will always have them in my life in one way or another. I moved back home to help take care of some of them. I also love animals... there are 3 cats and 2 dogs in the house, and a flurry of animals outside it. (I don't live in the city and the animals do not all belong to me- lol). I am hoping for someone who has a good sense of humour at the least, and best case, likes fur and family. I have been called highly intelligent, cynical, funny, compassionate and strong. I can be bluntly honest, but I do not try to be unkind. In fact I find it interesting to see how people react to my honesty. It can be funny at times. I find it liberates others to do the same and some amazing conversations come of it. I am also a big science nerd ( I read physics books for fun), a free thinker that is not constrained easily by social norms and a die hard skeptic. I am living a very interesting life. My sense of humour borders on the dark variety, partially thanks to my choice of work and life experiences. I'm really not interested in having kids, but I don't mind if they come with the package. I like creating, imagining, growing green things with my hands and living my dreams. I also am in a period now of reexamining those dreams, and would certainly like to experience new things. Life lately has become too focused on work. What am I looking for? Someone who is my match both physically and intellectually. Someone who isn't afraid to think outside the box and has strong core values. Kindness and flexibility are important. It's hard to find one's match out there, but I think the search is ultimately worth it. Honesty, the ability to "roll with the punches" and laugh at oneself are also extremely important qualities to me. Please have a picture. I have posted a pic- and I will not respond to you if you do not have one, or are unwilling to produce one in the opening conversation."The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it."; Roman Emperor, A.D. ***AD ***AD) I'd like a first date to be spontaneous. Where we make it up as we go along....it can start with the coffee meeting, just to see if there is chemistry or not, then it either ends there, or ends hours later, gazing up at the stars ..who knows?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kell

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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  • Johana

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Whats a girl got to do to get a date around this town? I'm not desperate just a little offended. I am an independent, hard working, God fearing, single mom of 2 beautiful children. I also work with children and love love love my job. I have experienced many trials and tribulations in my life (as most of us have) and have learned many lessons thus far. I have learned to appreciate life for what it is and live every moment like there isn't another. I do my best to set a good example for my children because children may not do as you say but will inevitably do as you do! I enjoy spending time outside on a sunny day playing with my children, working on the yard or washing the car. I am all around a happy person. I am not looking for someone to complete me as I feel complete as a person already. I do hope to share my life with someone one day but I believe in friendship first. I believe that the most important qualities in a person are compassion and understanding. If you are interested in my profile...send me a message, I will do my best to message you back. If your not interested then I wish you the best of luck on your journey to find what you are looking for.I was recently asked what I am looking for in a man and although, it took a couple of weeks of really thinking about it, by weeding out all the don't wants, I have finally put it into words : I want a man who also knows what he wants. I want a MAN not a boy. I want a man who feels things deeply. I want a man who cares more about others then his ownself but also cares enough about his self to take care of himself. I want a man to love God and love others as such. I want a man who understands that your past is your past and people do change. I want a man to support my ideas and encourage me emotionally. I want a man who is positive because its true what they say...misery loves company...I want a man who is not just going to say what I want to hear but actually believes in what he says. I want a man that understands that people with passion usually live life passionatly in all aspects of life. I want a man who believes in being a good example for children because young eyes are watching me and my example ALL the time....well that pretty much sums it up...oh yeah, and it wouldn't hurt if he was cute too!!! :) This would be a perfect person for me and I know that nobody is perfect so I would totally settle for a man with a good heart and good intentions ;)For you men who have no idea what your looking for...below is the definition of the woman you should be looking for and you should never ever settle for less.Proverbs 31:10-[a] She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. 16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. 19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. 26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful *** on her tongue. 27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 29 “” 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. 31 Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Please do not expect me to plan our first date. I am not picky nor am I easily offended so please have something in mind and I will tell you if I don't like the idea and chances are I will like the idea.

  • Neta

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

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