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Shea, 40

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I think this is the hardest part, promoting yourself isn't easy! I'm a fun-loving, hard working, honest, caring person. I like to do things for other people and volunteer on several committees. I've grown up in a small, close community and am close with my family. I love to laugh and joke! I am a chatty girl but HATE talking during movies! I am very close with my family and enjoy spending time with my nieces and nephew... He's a ten year old boxer/pitbull mix who didn't get the memo that he's not a person. When I'm not working or at a committee meeting, I like to spend time with friends and family. I love to go dancing (80's and disco music being my favorites to dance to... now I'm showing my age!) occassionally with friends but I don't really make a habit of it.I love to bake and would like to find a way to sell my baked goods or maybe even open up a bakery of my own one day. Right now I will have to stick with bringing my treats to my co-workers. I love to quilt and sew, too. I enjoy spending time with friends but look forward to finding someone to cuddle with on the couch watching tv/movies or just spending a quiet night in.My life is very full and I feel blessed to have the family and friends that I do and feel like the only thing missing is that special someone just for me. I think that the most successful relationships are those where two people are thrilled to be together but also have time apart to follow their own interests. I like the idea of being with someone who can be in a group of my friends and hold his own without me right there, too! I really enjoy travelling and would like to find someone who also enjoys it. I'm looking for a man who is also honest and hard working, someone who makes me laugh but thinks that I'm absolutely hysterical too!! I think that a first date should be as relaxed as possible, maybe with an activity to take the edge off a little bit. A little distraction could help with nerves!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Millie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Looking for someone to chase me for a change.I am a very caring, loving and passionate person who is just looking for someone to fill this hole in my heart. I am far from perfect I will never pretend to be. You don't have to buy me diamonds and pearls to keep me happy. You just have to want to spend time with me, never disrespect me, show me common courtesy, be a gentleman, stand up for me if ever needed, protect me if I feel threatened, make me feel special, tell me how beautiful I am for no reason at all, actually show me that you are interested in me and what I am about not just what you can get out of me, appreciate me, take me and my children as a complete package. There is no room for selfishness when it comes to them. They are everything to me. No worries though my man never feels unwanted or neglected. I am a bit guarded when starting to trust a person (Men in particular). So the one for me will need to have patience and understanding. I do give a certain amount of trust up front but it isn't 100% until you prove to me that you are worthy of it. Trust is something you earn not something you are just given. The same goes for myself... I don't expect a man to trust me completely until I prove to him I am trustworthy. I pride myself on honesty and do not tolerate any kind of lies. If you don't have anything to hide then why hide it. I may not always like what I hear but I would rather hear the truth and know that I can trust you to tell it. I'm pretty down to earth and just want to find my happiness. I don't need a big house, fancy cars, or expensive clothes. I don't need to get my hair and nails done every week. I don't much care about social status. I am who I am, take it or leave it. The friends I have all love me for me in spite of my mistakes and imperfections. Nothing would make me happier than to find that in a man. I just want to love and be loved (unconditionally). I have so much inside me dying to get out I just haven't found the one worthy of what I have to offer. I'm pretty emotional and I tend to tear up easily. So if you are interested please be gentle. I am very delicate but do not mistake that for being weak. When pushed hard enough I will stand up for myself. I am generally a very happy, bouncy person. I enjoy making people smile. I work really hard to make sure that the people around me are all happy even if it costs me my own happiness sometimes. I am a people pleaser and it truly can be a burden but I have learned over the years that I can't please everyone all of the time. I am seriously looking for that one person to share my life and grow old with. If the mere thought of this creeps you out in any way at all you should probably keep fishing. My profile says I'm looking for a long term relationship and that is exactly what I'm here for. If I make some friends along the way that is great but my goal is to find that special someone that completes my happiness. BTW...... I have several Tattoos so if this is a deal breaker for you I figured you should know before you message me. Disclaimer..... If you have any kind of criminal record.....its a deal breaker. As I said before I have two small children that I have to think about and they are my first priority so I will not be interested. My slate is clean and yours should be too. Also, If you are into the party / club scene I'm probably not the girl for you. I don't mind going to the club once in a while but the typical druggie filled, party rockin', booty pumpin place just isn't for me. LOL.... Guess my age is catchin' up to me. WOW!!! Anyway, I think I have rambled long enough so I will stop this for now. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I will gladly tell for I have nothing to hide. Ps. Just one more thing...... Seems to be a lot of negative people on here. We have all had bad pasts otherwise we wouldn't be here. LOL So if you are still bitter over your ex and are hanging onto any anger please pass me by because no one wants to deal with a shitty attitude due to someone elses actions. Just about anything as long as we are having fun and enjoying eachothers company. Ps... Please be a gentleman no matter what! I am not a piece of meat, so don't treat me like one!

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Born with a playful spirit, hearty intellect, vivid imagination, good nature and a penchant for fun and adventure. I’m searching for a person who likes learning, sharing, and has high self-esteem.

  • Tanesha

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi! My name is Tanesha. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from Hutchinson, Minnesota, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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