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Shea, 40

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I think this is the hardest part, promoting yourself isn't easy! I'm a fun-loving, hard working, honest, caring person. I like to do things for other people and volunteer on several committees. I've grown up in a small, close community and am close with my family. I love to laugh and joke! I am a chatty girl but HATE talking during movies! I am very close with my family and enjoy spending time with my nieces and nephew... He's a ten year old boxer/pitbull mix who didn't get the memo that he's not a person. When I'm not working or at a committee meeting, I like to spend time with friends and family. I love to go dancing (80's and disco music being my favorites to dance to... now I'm showing my age!) occassionally with friends but I don't really make a habit of it.I love to bake and would like to find a way to sell my baked goods or maybe even open up a bakery of my own one day. Right now I will have to stick with bringing my treats to my co-workers. I love to quilt and sew, too. I enjoy spending time with friends but look forward to finding someone to cuddle with on the couch watching tv/movies or just spending a quiet night in.My life is very full and I feel blessed to have the family and friends that I do and feel like the only thing missing is that special someone just for me. I think that the most successful relationships are those where two people are thrilled to be together but also have time apart to follow their own interests. I like the idea of being with someone who can be in a group of my friends and hold his own without me right there, too! I really enjoy travelling and would like to find someone who also enjoys it. I'm looking for a man who is also honest and hard working, someone who makes me laugh but thinks that I'm absolutely hysterical too!! I think that a first date should be as relaxed as possible, maybe with an activity to take the edge off a little bit. A little distraction could help with nerves!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Flossie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm not into playing games or for a hook up. I'm beautiful inside, and in my opinion, outside as well. I'm not thin and I'm happy with my dress size. I do not lie and don't want to be lied to. I'm faithful and expect that in return. I'm a firm believer that you shouldn't do anything to anyone that you don't want done to you. I don't judge and don't want to be judged because of differences in choices or opinions. I am a mother first and foremost and if you're a parent, I expect that from you and have no desire to be with someone who doesn't put their children and priorities first. I have worked for everything I have and believe that's how it should be. I believe in love and have a lot to give among other things.

  • Neta

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Keithia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a divorced mother of ***of which is over 18. I also have a grandson. Family is important to me so you must understand that up front. I am easy going and laid back. I believe anything can be fun with the right person. I am tired of men trying to get one night stands or sex. I am in this for the real deal. I am looking for someone to get to know and have a relationship with long term. If you just want sex or one night stands keep looking but if you want the real deal i am here. I may not be the best looking person physically but i am a really good person that you can trust. Open to suggestions

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