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Shea, 40

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About Me

I think this is the hardest part, promoting yourself isn't easy! I'm a fun-loving, hard working, honest, caring person. I like to do things for other people and volunteer on several committees. I've grown up in a small, close community and am close with my family. I love to laugh and joke! I am a chatty girl but HATE talking during movies! I am very close with my family and enjoy spending time with my nieces and nephew... He's a ten year old boxer/pitbull mix who didn't get the memo that he's not a person. When I'm not working or at a committee meeting, I like to spend time with friends and family. I love to go dancing (80's and disco music being my favorites to dance to... now I'm showing my age!) occassionally with friends but I don't really make a habit of it.I love to bake and would like to find a way to sell my baked goods or maybe even open up a bakery of my own one day. Right now I will have to stick with bringing my treats to my co-workers. I love to quilt and sew, too. I enjoy spending time with friends but look forward to finding someone to cuddle with on the couch watching tv/movies or just spending a quiet night in.My life is very full and I feel blessed to have the family and friends that I do and feel like the only thing missing is that special someone just for me. I think that the most successful relationships are those where two people are thrilled to be together but also have time apart to follow their own interests. I like the idea of being with someone who can be in a group of my friends and hold his own without me right there, too! I really enjoy travelling and would like to find someone who also enjoys it. I'm looking for a man who is also honest and hard working, someone who makes me laugh but thinks that I'm absolutely hysterical too!! I think that a first date should be as relaxed as possible, maybe with an activity to take the edge off a little bit. A little distraction could help with nerves!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karlyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am not into playing games. I am honest and expect the same from anyone I allow to be a part of my life. Don't pretend to like what I like or pretend to be who you think I want you to be.I absolutely love to laugh and have fun yet I know how to take care of my responsibilites first. I also truly enjoy having intellectual conversations...or just silly off the wall ones. I want to live life and not just watch it pass in front of my eyes. I am interested in someone that has there sh*t together and can teach me a few things....meaning I don't want to have to teach a man how to change the bulb to my headlights. I like a man to be a man while also knowing how to be respectful.I am not a skinny chic...I have an hour glass shape and meat on my bones. I do work out ***days a week and really enjoy it as it is great for the mind. I like the way I am and if you are shallow enough to say otherwise....keep it to yourself because I don't care. If you don't like me for who I am then just tell me I am not your type rather than insult me, that's the mature way to handle things...just saying. Someone that can keep me laughing and who is up for anything. I like open minded people who know how to have fun, as I am down for just about anything. Also, if you think i am into married men or men with girlfriends....forget it. I am looking for fun with the potential for a serious relationship as I would like to have a kid someday.....just keepin this real fellas. Well it wouldnt be meeting you alone in some random place where there would be the potentional for me to come up missing :) I love CSI. Dinner dates are not my thing...why waste your money on an interview just to find out the person does not meet your qualifications. I am not out to get a free meal...lol.

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Family is most important to me. My kids and I are very close and enjoy spending time together. I enjoy movies dinners home or out love outdoors hiking camping bonfires boating enjoy concerts and long conversations. I am low maintenance and happy at home as well cuddled up to a movie and popcorn. I'm loyal faithful and honest. I'd give my shirt offs back for you. I don't quit when things get sticky. I work around it. Looking to find someone with same family values am enjoy life. To be happy. Drinks or coffee and some great conversation

  • Neta

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Let me be more specific about what I'm looking for. Because of my hectic schedule, it's hard to find time for a serious relationship at this time in my life. However, I'm willing to give it my best shot. I definitely want more than just hook ups. First and foremost, I want a friend, someone I can hang out with, do things with, have good conversations with, and if things click and the chemistry's right, maybe more. I want someone I can connect with. I want inimacy, but that doesn 't mean sex. Sex is not a top priority for me. This doesn't mean I don't like it. I'm just tired of meaningless, empty sex, so I'm willing to wait till I find someone who can make it meaningful. If you expect sex on the first or even the second date, then I'm not the girl for you. There is no guarantee on when sex will happen, or that it will at all. Mutual trust and respect need to be built first. My living situation is unusual and some guys have issues with it. My ex-husband lives in the lower level of my split level house. We're not together, but we're still friends, and we think it's best for our daughter to have both her parents around. We don't have dates over to the house. Not because it would bother either of us, but because our daughter is always here, and we both agree that we don't want to bring other people into her life until we're sure they're going to be around for a while. She's top priority. Keeping her life as stable and happy as possible is top priority for both of us. It makes dating complicated sometimes, but it's worth it.A little tip: Starting off with an overtly sexual comment or blatant come on is a sure fire way to get on my bad side. I've spent over half my life playing in bands with male musicians. I learned to be one of the guys in order to survive, and I'm more comfortable being treated like a buddy than a piece of meat. Keep that in mind when you message me, please. Here's another update:ATTENTION YOUNGER MEN! I don't have a problem with age difference. However, I am not here to fulfill your milf fantasies. The above expectations will apply to you the same as anyone else. If you're not interested in actually getting to know me, then don't bother. Sorry. I'm a working single mom. My daughter is the most amazing person I've ever met. Music is my passion, and I've been playing bass guitar for almost 20 years. I used to operate my own business designing and making custom clothing and corsetry, and i still enjoy it but prefer to do so for fun rather than work. So, these days, I have a regular day job in the optometry field. I enjoy playing music, reading, spending time with friends and family, going to concerts and other performances, and watching movies. Most of my time is spent being mommy and working, but I still try to have some fun. I'm trying to build up the courage and motivation to go back to school for a second degree, something that makes me question my sanity sometimes. I'm an avid reader, music is a huge part of my life, I love all kinds of movies, and I enjoy trying different kinds of food. I'm open minded and adventurous in most aspects of life.I used to be a good girl. Really, I swear! Oh, and a semi-professional ballet dancer. No kidding! That was a lifetime ago, though, before I sold my soul to rock n roll. ;-)Message me if you want to know more about me. I'm horrible at writing about myself, so this profile doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of who I am. I'm also a little shy about initiating contact, so I'm more likely to reply to you if you message me than I am to message you first. Creativity can earn you bonus points, but I'm happy with just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

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