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Millie, 38

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About Me

Looking for someone to chase me for a change.I am a very caring, loving and passionate person who is just looking for someone to fill this hole in my heart. I am far from perfect I will never pretend to be. You don't have to buy me diamonds and pearls to keep me happy. You just have to want to spend time with me, never disrespect me, show me common courtesy, be a gentleman, stand up for me if ever needed, protect me if I feel threatened, make me feel special, tell me how beautiful I am for no reason at all, actually show me that you are interested in me and what I am about not just what you can get out of me, appreciate me, take me and my children as a complete package. There is no room for selfishness when it comes to them. They are everything to me. No worries though my man never feels unwanted or neglected. I am a bit guarded when starting to trust a person (Men in particular). So the one for me will need to have patience and understanding. I do give a certain amount of trust up front but it isn't 100% until you prove to me that you are worthy of it. Trust is something you earn not something you are just given. The same goes for myself... I don't expect a man to trust me completely until I prove to him I am trustworthy. I pride myself on honesty and do not tolerate any kind of lies. If you don't have anything to hide then why hide it. I may not always like what I hear but I would rather hear the truth and know that I can trust you to tell it. I'm pretty down to earth and just want to find my happiness. I don't need a big house, fancy cars, or expensive clothes. I don't need to get my hair and nails done every week. I don't much care about social status. I am who I am, take it or leave it. The friends I have all love me for me in spite of my mistakes and imperfections. Nothing would make me happier than to find that in a man. I just want to love and be loved (unconditionally). I have so much inside me dying to get out I just haven't found the one worthy of what I have to offer. I'm pretty emotional and I tend to tear up easily. So if you are interested please be gentle. I am very delicate but do not mistake that for being weak. When pushed hard enough I will stand up for myself. I am generally a very happy, bouncy person. I enjoy making people smile. I work really hard to make sure that the people around me are all happy even if it costs me my own happiness sometimes. I am a people pleaser and it truly can be a burden but I have learned over the years that I can't please everyone all of the time. I am seriously looking for that one person to share my life and grow old with. If the mere thought of this creeps you out in any way at all you should probably keep fishing. My profile says I'm looking for a long term relationship and that is exactly what I'm here for. If I make some friends along the way that is great but my goal is to find that special someone that completes my happiness. BTW...... I have several Tattoos so if this is a deal breaker for you I figured you should know before you message me. Disclaimer..... If you have any kind of criminal record.....its a deal breaker. As I said before I have two small children that I have to think about and they are my first priority so I will not be interested. My slate is clean and yours should be too. Also, If you are into the party / club scene I'm probably not the girl for you. I don't mind going to the club once in a while but the typical druggie filled, party rockin', booty pumpin place just isn't for me. LOL.... Guess my age is catchin' up to me. WOW!!! Anyway, I think I have rambled long enough so I will stop this for now. If you wanna know anything else just ask. I will gladly tell for I have nothing to hide. Ps. Just one more thing...... Seems to be a lot of negative people on here. We have all had bad pasts otherwise we wouldn't be here. LOL So if you are still bitter over your ex and are hanging onto any anger please pass me by because no one wants to deal with a shitty attitude due to someone elses actions. Just about anything as long as we are having fun and enjoying eachothers company. Ps... Please be a gentleman no matter what! I am not a piece of meat, so don't treat me like one!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johana

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Whats a girl got to do to get a date around this town? I'm not desperate just a little offended. I am an independent, hard working, God fearing, single mom of 2 beautiful children. I also work with children and love love love my job. I have experienced many trials and tribulations in my life (as most of us have) and have learned many lessons thus far. I have learned to appreciate life for what it is and live every moment like there isn't another. I do my best to set a good example for my children because children may not do as you say but will inevitably do as you do! I enjoy spending time outside on a sunny day playing with my children, working on the yard or washing the car. I am all around a happy person. I am not looking for someone to complete me as I feel complete as a person already. I do hope to share my life with someone one day but I believe in friendship first. I believe that the most important qualities in a person are compassion and understanding. If you are interested in my profile...send me a message, I will do my best to message you back. If your not interested then I wish you the best of luck on your journey to find what you are looking for.I was recently asked what I am looking for in a man and although, it took a couple of weeks of really thinking about it, by weeding out all the don't wants, I have finally put it into words : I want a man who also knows what he wants. I want a MAN not a boy. I want a man who feels things deeply. I want a man who cares more about others then his ownself but also cares enough about his self to take care of himself. I want a man to love God and love others as such. I want a man who understands that your past is your past and people do change. I want a man to support my ideas and encourage me emotionally. I want a man who is positive because its true what they say...misery loves company...I want a man who is not just going to say what I want to hear but actually believes in what he says. I want a man that understands that people with passion usually live life passionatly in all aspects of life. I want a man who believes in being a good example for children because young eyes are watching me and my example ALL the time....well that pretty much sums it up...oh yeah, and it wouldn't hurt if he was cute too!!! :) This would be a perfect person for me and I know that nobody is perfect so I would totally settle for a man with a good heart and good intentions ;)For you men who have no idea what your looking for...below is the definition of the woman you should be looking for and you should never ever settle for less.Proverbs 31:10-[a] She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. 16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. 19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. 26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful *** on her tongue. 27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 29 “” 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. 31 Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Please do not expect me to plan our first date. I am not picky nor am I easily offended so please have something in mind and I will tell you if I don't like the idea and chances are I will like the idea.

  • Ernestine

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a crafty, artsy type that likes the indoor hobbies like dressing up for photography shoots ( love all fashion and fun wigs...like a few in the profile) writing, painting, repairing antiques. I love garage sale hunts for cool old stuff. I love hockey but only live games, not much for tv sports. I do enjoy good conversation and debating about stupid politics and silly human theories as long as it dosent give the other party a heart attack and they arent a skitzo that believes in aliens. Gardening is fun with loud music. Movies are great, not a big fan of horror flicks though. I don't like concerts, but am a huge music fan of all types. Not a big drinker but socially is ok. Can't stand canned beer so move on if you buy 6 packs every day. Opposites attract and I like a confident man, clean shaved and not afraid to dance or be humorous but also a guy that's a gym health nut or outdoors guy...which I so am not a sun goddess! I love a fit body, no beer guts. Criminals, tattoo pierced fellas are so not my deal, but if you have one tattoo I'll overlook it if your educated and a hard worker. My only real reqirement is I like tall men over 6ft at the least, because I dig wearing heels where Im about 5'10 and I don't want to look down the whole date. Thanks for reading! First dates are best blindfolded since no one acts like themselves anyway.

  • Lelia

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    1) MUST be SINGLE!!!!! No girlfriend, wife, separated, engaged, fwb, baby mama drama, 3 some or whatever some. I am a 1 man with one woman only person and will not put up with not being your only woman.2) No picture don't send me a message.3) if you made it this far and want to know the real me this is it I'm someone that is always up for trying new things. I like the challenge of trying something new. I enjoy an active life style and don't really matter what I do as long as i am moving. But at the same time its nice sometimes to just sit at home and watch TV once in awhile.I am a huge Smart pants, I love a good joke and always fast on a comeback! I feel life is to short to be down all the times. My friends say I missed my calling and should have been a comedian. If someone is down I am the first to try and cheer them up. I also know when a joke is inappropriate. My family comes first in my life if they need me I go to them. I do smoke and do drink when I go out sometimes but do not need to drink to have fun. I do not do drugs. I got tats and body piercings.I love music any really and love to dance( when I clean the house my music is on and I dance as I do it LOL)I love riding on Harleys I don't have my own yet but am saving up to buy my own. I do go on poker runs, rally's, swap meets, or just hit the road with no agenda. I am a movie person that can watch anything. I have a pup and lizards. I am very down to earth and honest so if you don't want the truth don't ask me.... I will tell you..... and don't get mad when I do lol!I have a few more pounds to lose but fast on my way to hitting my goal, I workout everyday. I hate drama, I am way to busy for that. And I hate head games I am way to old for it lol.My friends call my Feisty, loyal, funny, good humored, honestAs far as dating goes just living and having fun. IF I meet the right guy I would defiantly "date", "boyfriend" or "relationship" whatever you call it lol. But I am not getting married on the first date rofl ! I work a lot but I will answer you so just say Hi. I don't send first message a lot so if I viewed u n didn't send message dosent mean I didn't like u .... maybe im shy when it come 2 first move ;) or thought u wouldn't like me lol! u never know.... Not meeting you at a cheap motel, hotel, my house or yours. lol

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