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Debroah, 39
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

You could consider me a balance between traditional and progressive. Most people who know me well would describe me as a kid at heart but a strong, independent woman. I don't mind making people laugh at my own expense. Life is way too serious to be so serious. None of us are getting out alive so we mind as well enjoy the ride! I am non-judge-mental and the kind of person you can trust your darkest secrets to. I am resilient, passionate about love and life, playful, loyal, compassionate, patient, honest, caring, open-minded, forgiving, a big animal and kid lover, adventurous, trustworthy, loyal, affectionate, kind, sensual, playful, easy to get along with, self sufficient, motivated, introspective, hardworking and a little rough around the edges. I'm a big believer that life is about joy, and joy is about the moments along the way and not something you find at the end of the journey. The most important thing to me in my life is love and the memories that come with creating life. I believe in simplicity. Its quality, not quantity when it comes to the things that are valuable to me.I would like to find someone that has the qualities I mentioned above and can also be a best friend to me. I am looking for a man that makes family and GOD a priority in his life and will be good example to my kids. I am looking to find someone who knows that a relationship is a life long learning experience and requires compromise and growth that isn't always comfy but is worth sticking with it. I am basically looking for what everyone else wants...to love, be loved and to have that exciting feeling knowing that there is someone to come home to at the end of the day, whether it was a good day or not. I know that sex is the glue that keeps a relationship together, and want to find a guy that makes that a top priority in our relationship. I'm not looking for flings or willing to settle just for the sake of not being alone. I love being alone but know that I am even happier when I am with someone I can love and share my life with. My ideal date would probably be just getting coffee, lunch or walking around the park, bookstore, museum or art galleries, or going to an outdoor concert, hiking or going out to dinner, or a drink in a quiet bar with just a chance to talk. Or if you have a more creative idea, I am open to trying something new! If the chemistry was right, we might end up chillin at my place with reggae or jazz playing, cooking some yummy food or hanging out by the fire and enjoying a glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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