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Fidelma, 37
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

**No time for drama, fakes, or deceitful people**I'm from and live in a small town, but I also have big city interests in addition to my small town background. I live in a small town & work 2nd shift which makes socializing difficult...so Here I am! I want a man who is a gentleman,a romantic & Strong. Is this you? I am a single mother of a beautiful son. He is brilliant & mildly Autistic & it does present a challenge. He charms everyone who encounters him & is the reason I strive for better, and he is my motivation to plow through when life posts seemingly insurmountable roadblocks. Whomever I date must understand that my child comes 1st in my life. Family trumps all. No man will meet my child unless we have established a connection that will be progressing into the real LTR realm. That being said.....I am quick witted, passionate, intelligent, loving, articulate, sassy, funny, love to laugh, sarcastic, openly opinionated, and honest. If you ask a question, be prepared for an honest answer...though, it may not be what you want to hear. I'm very affectionate and appreciate a man who knows how to treat a lady as such and can show it openly without being asked. I enjoy music and movies from nearly all genres. My favorite music is classic R&B/Soul, 80's & 90's music of pretty much any genre. I have to admit that country music is my Least favorite, though I can tolerate& like some of it. My interests vary with my mood and environment. I enjoy everything from: backyard BBQs, playing pool or bowling (I'm horrible at both but it's hilarious to watch & I have fun w it), a night out on the town with dinner and dancing, amusement parks & roller coasters, speed boating, cooking for friends & family, enjoying a good glass of wine with someone special, or a night in with a movie, cuddling under a blanket on a cold night listening to the rain & Like most humans on this planet, I am a work in progress. Life has knocked me down many a time and I have always managed to get back on my feet. I'm not a perfect person, but I am strong & determined. I strive to enjoy today while I have it and look forward to what may lie ahead. Perfection does not exist. I am a realist. Intelligent conversation & a great sense of humor go a long way with me. No one likes to have their feelings hurt or their heart broken, but it is a hazard with any relationship. However, without the fall you'll never know where it may lead.***Please do not message me unless you have pics. Physical appearance isn't everything, but there should be some attraction. Thank you *** Oh and no mullets. Just not into the whole Joe Dirt look. At least I'm honest. LOL A 1st date that allows each person to be able to Communicate & get to know one another. A casual brunch or dinner date. After all, it's a "get to know you" thing. NO Pressure. Then, take it from there to wherever it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Poker
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    39 year old, 5'***" woman who loves to do most anything! In my limited meetville experience, I have learned a few things: 1) I find it intriguing that the majority of guys are my height! 5'9"/5'10"! Why IS that?? Great height though :***I've been lucky that the guys I've met have been true to their profiles, but some don't look like their pics. Please post a pic of your FACE, not just a side angle. I have been told I look exactly like my pics. :) My hair is just longer now. I also am 100% true to my profile, 3) Please note that I am not looking to 'hook up', but for something more meaningful. Please leave the 'forward advances' and sexting for after we meet and if there is a mutual attraction. 4) I need to be clearer that I am looking to meet someone with whom I will connect, build an amazing relationship while having incredible adventures while building towards settling down, getting married, having kids....not in 5 years, but not in 3 months either! 5) Please know what 'cerebral' means. :) If you don't, perhaps we are not the right match :). 6) Please send me a message with a few more lines than 'nice profile', 'great smile', 'how are you?', so I know you have actually read my profile and I can learn more about you. So, what have you learned? Here's more on me: My passions:-enjoy all sports (especially downhill skiing, beach volleyball, cycling, rollerblading, yoga), -skiing is a big part of my life in the winter, but am just happy to share the experience with you, i.e., if you are out on the hill as a boarder or are willing to learn to ski or board, great! I do own a board, but have been predominantly skiing the past few years,-travel (used to live in Japan, Mt.-cottaging, canoe tripping/camping, -attending art and cultural exhibitions/activities (take painting lessons, enjoy the theatre, documentaries, regular movies, LIVE MUSIC!, dancing, wine tasting, reading, languages--team leading one this year and guided a blind cyclist on her tandem bike for the 1st time in the Cycle for Sight 2 years ago. I was asked to write what makes me unique. Great question! One interesting fact is that kids and animals seem to gravitate to me. Feel free to psychoanalyze that! I used to be a Bilingual Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) Consultant- Coach skiing on weekends in the winter.Looking for someone who:-is male :)-aged ***...or so-loves to do most anything (not a requirement though)-skis or snowboards or wants to learn (and practice often :))-looking to date with the intention of SOMEDAY settling down, getting married and having kids-likes sports (watching, doing)-likes to travel-family-oriented -can go out and be active, but also chill and chat/watch movies-communicates, even when it's difficult/uncomfortableStill there? If I have piqued your interest, send me a message! Otherwise...Happy Fishing!

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  • Patrick from Hastings | Woman | 39 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am that girl that loves to hang out and chill on the couch or go out dancing.I love all kinds of music but seem to be stuck on country at the moment.I have a good job and great frinds.I am a very upfront and honest person.If you have a question ask it. I dont like to play games.I am not a winter person lol I love the warm weather. I really dont want to say too much on this then what will we talk about to get to know each other. This is hard.. meet for a drink/coffee, dinner any where we can talk to see how things go. Then from there if we hit it off any thing sounds great to me.

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