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Fidelma, 37
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

**No time for drama, fakes, or deceitful people**I'm from and live in a small town, but I also have big city interests in addition to my small town background. I live in a small town & work 2nd shift which makes socializing difficult...so Here I am! I want a man who is a gentleman,a romantic & Strong. Is this you? I am a single mother of a beautiful son. He is brilliant & mildly Autistic & it does present a challenge. He charms everyone who encounters him & is the reason I strive for better, and he is my motivation to plow through when life posts seemingly insurmountable roadblocks. Whomever I date must understand that my child comes 1st in my life. Family trumps all. No man will meet my child unless we have established a connection that will be progressing into the real LTR realm. That being said.....I am quick witted, passionate, intelligent, loving, articulate, sassy, funny, love to laugh, sarcastic, openly opinionated, and honest. If you ask a question, be prepared for an honest answer...though, it may not be what you want to hear. I'm very affectionate and appreciate a man who knows how to treat a lady as such and can show it openly without being asked. I enjoy music and movies from nearly all genres. My favorite music is classic R&B/Soul, 80's & 90's music of pretty much any genre. I have to admit that country music is my Least favorite, though I can tolerate& like some of it. My interests vary with my mood and environment. I enjoy everything from: backyard BBQs, playing pool or bowling (I'm horrible at both but it's hilarious to watch & I have fun w it), a night out on the town with dinner and dancing, amusement parks & roller coasters, speed boating, cooking for friends & family, enjoying a good glass of wine with someone special, or a night in with a movie, cuddling under a blanket on a cold night listening to the rain & Like most humans on this planet, I am a work in progress. Life has knocked me down many a time and I have always managed to get back on my feet. I'm not a perfect person, but I am strong & determined. I strive to enjoy today while I have it and look forward to what may lie ahead. Perfection does not exist. I am a realist. Intelligent conversation & a great sense of humor go a long way with me. No one likes to have their feelings hurt or their heart broken, but it is a hazard with any relationship. However, without the fall you'll never know where it may lead.***Please do not message me unless you have pics. Physical appearance isn't everything, but there should be some attraction. Thank you *** Oh and no mullets. Just not into the whole Joe Dirt look. At least I'm honest. LOL A 1st date that allows each person to be able to Communicate & get to know one another. A casual brunch or dinner date. After all, it's a "get to know you" thing. NO Pressure. Then, take it from there to wherever it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Poker
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