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Royse, 38
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

If you are not going to take the time to read my full profile, please do not contact me. It's frustrating to answer questions when the answer of some questions are aleady in my profile. Just sayin'. Also, I AM NOT ON HERE FOR A HOOK UP! I am looking for that one person that I can trust, believe, have faith in, who would never purposely do anything to hurt me. Someone who makes a conscience decision to not do things that might jeopardize our relationship. I am looking for my best friend. That one person I can do anything with, the one person that I can talk about anything to. I am not interested in drama, lies, betrayal, or anything negative. In return, I will do the same for that person. Life is too short to be unhappy, so happiness all the way, with the understanding that sometimes life throws us curveballs; but nothing too big within our control that we cannot overcome. Honesty is very important. Without trust, there is nothing. I don't have "favorites", meaning, I try to enjoy all things. I don't have a favorite song, music, movie genre's, activities, etc. I am open to doing new things, within reason that is. I try to find the positives in life. Some people might complain of a rainy day, I look at it more as: well, I can get stuff done around the house so I can enjoy the next good weather day. Or, I look at rainy days as "cuddle weather" time. There is so much that I am sure that I can put in this section of my profile, but if you are wanting to get to know me, then contact me and we will go from there. :) I do have children, but please do not ask me questions about them as I do not know you at this time. Also, please note that my profile says "separated". I am giving you the truth. I am not interested in making that work, I tried, but it failed. I have realized that with that relationship, no matter what I did, the other party involved would/could not step up to do the right things to maintain it. Until resolved, I have felt that I have been in limbo and that is not where I want to be. I do think that one should finish something before you goes on...but in this case...it is now a waiting thing and I choose to be happy, so who is with me?***I am not trying to be rude or mean by my next statement in anyway...but...I would prefer that you be atleast 5'10" maybe 5'9", but ideally 5'10" or taller. I love wearing my pretty shoes and I really don't want to put them on and then I'm taller than you. For me, it's just uncomfortable. Please also have witts to you. I just do not prefer to have a conversation with someone that seems to be clueless about everything. I don't expect you to know everything about everything, but I'm not wanting to talk to an idiot either. Players, liars, cheaters, beaters, drama filled people, negative people, no ambition/drive/motivation, and problem starters - STAY AWAY! Again, I am open to many things. I can't really say what I would prefer a first date to be, other than, use this time to get to know the person. I would not prefer the first date to be something like going to a movie. If we were to go to a movie, we are not giving the other person our attention. The attention would be on the movie...so I don't recommend that for a first date. Something more along the lines of a picnic, a museum, an amusement park, a zoo, or maybe even walk around a city/town and explore what that town has to offer. This way, we are doing something together, with the opportunity to talk and get to know what each likes and doesn't. I think those things would probably be good for a SECOND date...so how about, the first date be a casual, get to know each other conversation during a nice walk or a cup of coffee?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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