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Darby, 36
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

Normally, I am the rule follower, but recently I have learned it can be fun to break the rules. I am not talking things that would get us arrested, just enough to make life a little more interesting. Ordering dessert before the meal, walking in the rain, or tearing the tags off a mattress... Okay, I just threw that last one in for good measure. If you can't tell, I enjoy sarcasm. I try to stay positive, and find the silver lining in all things. It can be gift and a curse.I have hard time saying no because I don't want to be a spectator in life. I enjoy making others around me smile. I am big believer of working hard and always putting forth my best effort in everything I do. In my free time, I enjoy creating big meals for friends and family - food brings people together! Traveling is myfavoritee past time but gets boring when you go by yourself, but I love to get away. I really do enjoy football (go Ravens!) and miss it during the off season. I love to play sports but am not very coordinated. I play volleyball, kickball, softball, and football. I like to think that I bring the team some good laughs and yummy jello shots. I like hitting up the local places for happy hour specials with friends and family. I am not talking a crazy just a time to relax with good conversation. Along with my family, I appreciate the simple things; like finding a five-dollar bill in my jeans pocket.Send me a message and we can go from there. I like grabbing a drink or doing something active like kayaking or something different. :-) I always like a good adventure. Please be between ***. I do not like robbing the craddle or the opposite. Thanks!** Please do not try to friend me on *** consider that creepy.I do not have drama nor want it. I have no criminal record and I would ask the same of you. Do not ask me if "I wanna hook up"; I don't need the internet for a hook up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Indian Irish Korean
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