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Sylvia, 39
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

Im 36 years old., & a mother of two... they seem to be my only constant right now. I was born & raised in So. Cal., & moved to Tx in '97. Hobbies? I like to read & listen to music.... I like to cook, just dont get to do it often enough... Especially like to sit / hang around & bbq outside w/ friends, good music, & good drinks... I love the beach, like theres no tomorrow... Miss it EVERY day... I enjoy going to concerts &.. Ron White is my hero : ) I love to watch his dvd's, and laugh till I almost pee... : ) Slow dancin..is one of my things... To me, theres nothin like that perfect song palyin,... Wrapped up in someones arms, and getting lost even if only for a few minutes... And I love the smell / sound of a good country storm... "Theres Something Sexy Bout The Rain"... I like to laugh until my sides hurt, and make others laugh as well. I can be serious when need be, but I do have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor at times... I like sitting out on the back porch, watchin lightnin bugs, and "feelin the country around me"... IM A CITY GIRL at heart, but while Im here, I try & make the best of it ;-) My kiddos.... I love to make them happy & hear them laugh. I like to hang at the pool w/ them, watch them have fun, and cuddle up & watch our fav movies together. And I still like the way they call me "Mamma"... Music... Classic rock, 80's & country :) My favorite of all time is Aerosmith... followed by Sublime, Beastie Boys, Bob Marley... Led Zepplin, The Eagles, Black Sabbath, Poison... Country music is a big part of me as well...; a few others... And thanks to my 11 yr old, I was recently turned on to "Skrillex". Good stuff right there... : ) Im ultimately looking for long term... No, Im not asking you to marry me, or get tied down right away, but Im not interested in casual flings or serial dating either. I may not be the richest, best looking, thinnest, most perfect little country girl out there..... My experience on here has been somewhat of a circus... Most, w/ the exception of VERY FEW, have been really materialistic and judgemental, and at times down right crude... Its every man for himself out there, and seems to be that the big thing right now is "how many pieces of a** can they get", and keep right on truckin... If thats what floats your boat, rock on... But please, dont waste my time, or yours... Im done w/ the games... **Update** If youre into mind games, and screwing people over, hung up on your ex, STILL MARRIED, or heartless, then please carry on... Now Im not perfect, and Ive made my share of mistakes, but WHO HASNT? The key is, IM MOVING on, and bettering me for ME, and my kids. Call me crazy, but I believe in the old saying "Treat others the way you want to be treated".... Im also a FIRM believer in Karma. And if you cant respect me, and treat me like the LADY that I am, please do us both a favor & keep going... Please & thank you... Just depends, really.... Mostly on the two people involved : ) Meet somewhere casual, and talk, have a few drinks.... Listen to some music.... Maybe sit out on a patio somewhere and enjoy the weather & good conversation.... Spontaneous can be good... I think the chemistry & convo leading up to the first date makes it happen : ) ~Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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